what is your preference?

[shaneen]

I have a question for you all. I was talking with a friend and he told me that when it comes to SPs he prefered someone who really didnt want to chat and get to know each other. He wanted someone who would come over ask him what he likes do it then leave. Well my question to you all is which do you prefer.
Thanks
Shaneen
http://www.eros-toronto.com/files/to-shaneen1.htm

 

[JohnDoe]

Chatting is hit or miss. It can either increase or decrease mileage severely. If I'm having a good day, I prefer the chat part, otherwise, I'll dive in sacrificing an average experience.

I also find that when I chat, my probing device becomes limp. That's probably because chatting requires use of the brain, and you can't be horny and using your brain at the same time.

 

[midLifeCrisis]

Age related question!

I think responses to this poll will be age related. Younger guys will probably want her to get to the point right away, in hopes of MSOG. Old wrecks like myself know we're only going to have one shot and will prefer to slowly build to a shattering crescendo of which those young punks can only dream.

As for cuddling afterwards ... this will be repetition-related. I can't see it being a major item on the agenda unless a fair amount of rapport has been achieved.

Different strokes for different folks, of course, but I think responses to the poll will also reflect, to a certain extent, attitudes towards women in general: objects or people? A completely physical PSE might be OK for a fantasy, or to try a few times, but leaves me feeling a little dirty.

 

[zoickss]

It all comes down to reading the guy - sometimes I feel chatty, sometimes not - the issue is that the girl needs to read when the guy wants to stop the talk and get to business. I think it also depends on how the 2 click - I have met sp's that I could have spent the whole session chatting and others where I was thinking - ok shut up already

 

[spartan5782]

Re: Age related question!

I think responses to this poll will be age related.

I agree, but to take it a step further, even though I'm older and like an SP to take her time and chat/cuddle after...If the SP is young...in her twenties, I'm not really looking for conversation afterwards. Someone 30 + I like to know better than just "the act".

Not saying that at that age they lack maturity (some do/some don't), just that the "twice her age" thing pops up in my head. It's ok for sex, but not what I'd want to repeat with (boy, am I on a limb on this one..lol) and no one I'd want to be intimate with afterwards.

So, I try to stick to the 30+ age, and would pick 1 & 3 if possible.

 

[sorely]

It depends on the mood you arein. It will vary from time to time and lady to lady.

 

[hambone]

Shannen,

Not enough options...1,2 & 7

 

[CyberGoth]

I really like INTENSITY.

[smiles innocently]

 

[shaneen]

I tried...

I tried to change the poll so that you can choose more then one option but I am not able to get back ino it?????? Fred or Moderators please do it if you can
Thanks
Shaneen
http://www.eros-toronto.com/files/to-shaneen1.htm

 

[twisted troll]

I'd like to talk and cuddle a little at the start of the session just to warm up.

 

[geo68]

Everything depends...

If it's my first time seeing someone, then we take some time getting to know one another...I like to guide how things go...and If she's cool and there's just a short time left, I definitely like to spoon...I don't have a girlfriend, don't want a girlfriend, but I enjoy basking in the afterglow...on a repeat session I say let's get to it: a little less talk and a little more action (Thanks, Elvis!).

 

[shaneen]

love...

Troop and Oil I am sorry but I have to disagree. Love, why is it so hard to believe that an ongoing SP Client relationship could infact turn into a loving mutually satisfying relationship? I mean spend enough time with someone and share enough intimate moments and it is only natural to have feelings for one another. Dont get me wrong I am not saying that SP and clients should go get married but some men dont want the hassle of a full time girl friend others are involved in loveless marriages etc., so I think that cuddling and conversation in those cases as well as others is important.
Thanks
Shaneen

http://www.eros-toronto.com/files/to-shaneen1.htm

 

[twobigo]

I have the same attitude as Geo68.. don,t have a girlfriend , don,t want a girlfriend. However 1 and 3 will be my choice each and every time. In fact just extend those two numbers for the entire hour i,m with a SP and thats fine with me. Just let me explore her body with my lips , mouth and hands and i,m in heaven. Just this week i had an incredible session with a young lady and it DIDN,T culminate with sex! and that lady was the lady that started this thread! Thanks Shaneen for letting me be me. Ok guys you can start shaking your heads in bewilderment!!

 

[spartan5782]

Ok guys you can start shaking your heads in bewilderment!!

Nah, I'm with you on that. Different guys entered into this Hobby for different reasons. Some were curious and some were serious. After 3 X's, I had to part from the norm relationship and regain my senses cause I could have EASILY treated the next one like crap to "get back" at the others. Wouldn't be fair.

This Hobby allows me to exit and enter GFE relationships until I'm comfortable enough to enter in a long term. I've given myself the rest of this year, then give it a shot in '04. So going to dinner, movies, gifts and cuddling is all a part of it.

Those who use this as a departure from your SO, your business and I'd never slam you for that. But those of us who look for that GFE, that's our business...wouldn't expect to get slammed for that.

Only place we differ twobigo, I'd have to consummate!! Little Sparty would never forgive me!!

 

[Baggy]

Shaneen - a little off topic here but WOW you look incredible in those pictures on Eros - that Hat and White See Thru shirt are making me drool!