What is with this "No Black men" prohibition?
- Thread starter VirginJohn
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sounds like they have a preference. they don't want to have sex with a particular group of people, doesn't mean they hate the people just means they don't want to sleep with them.
VirginJohn, just a couple of months ago there was an extensive thread about this topic. Although I understand your sense of hurt, at the same time I don't believe you seriously mean to imply that any SP should have to see anyone she does not wish to for whatever reason.
Businessman with a Doctorate, who has also seen a tougher side of life than most.
I think he meant what he said and said what he meant. A little like the duck analogy. And I am giving me head a shake here because I am agreeing with Simon
It does mean that there are stereotypes that are affixed to the group that they do not want to sleep with, which I addressed on my first post. Whether or not these stereotypes are founded or not is the point of this thread.
So far, only one poster has contributed by saying a black person tried to rob an SP and gun-point or was affiliated with a gang. To bad this thread is not attracting more stories out of the woodwork.
I wouldn't know about that tread topic. I am not hurt by this because I could visit any one of these escorts and I'd fly under any "black" radar. Remember, I masturbate on escort pics. If ads said, nobody can masturbate on me but you have to call instead to book a session, that would be more personal.
If you want to be protected as a group then you must be willing to be judged as a group.
It sounds like you're more interested in hearing stories that promote the racial stereotype of black thug as opposed to being worried about a discrimination issue.
It seems a number of SP's don't wish to see black clients. I imagine there are different rationales: for some it's just a physical preference and for others it'd be due to certain more deeply rooted prejudices. You'd have to ask them to really know. Either way, they choose to discriminate on this criteria. And they have the absolute right to do so. Whether it's racist or not is going to depend on people's definition of the term and it's something not likely to be resolved in this thread. It's a pointless debate and these types of threads just end up getting nasty. So can we just let it go?
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Just say you are "Dark Irish" (not Black). You are a descendant of handsome Spanish Catholic sailors from the Spanish Armada washed ashore in Ireland saved by kind gentle Irish Catholics, hence your dark handsome looks.
There are in fact a number of Chinese escorts who will not see white men. I have seen other ads that were directed only at Indian men. When I see these ads, I do not wring my hands in anguish and wonder why not me? Nor do I start a thread on Terb or any other board. I simply move on to the next ad and continue with my life, generally angst free.
This is quite likely because many other members have contributed to the many similar threads in the past and are just tired of doing so now. Starting one thread, starting two threads, starting a hundred threads on the topic will not change the fact that some women prefer not to see some men.
If you are going to make a human rights issue out of it, keep us posted as thus far we have only speculated that such a complaint would be laughed out the door. We could be wrong, so let us now.
Thanks.
Preferences and racism are 2 different things. Although the lines may seem blurry, when one reduces an entire race or ethnicity to a particular behaviour - regardless of where they come from (i.e. West Indies vs. Jamaican), that is racism, and IMHO, it sucks! Can one compare Nelson Mandela to Fifty Cent etc. etc. based on skin pigmentation? The wonderful David Suzuki did a powerful and sound doc on this topic (trailer: http://vimeo.com/16518094).
Yes, this type of thread is tiresome, but unfortunately still necessary, as are efforts to quell such silly disparities....
Yes, this type of thread is tiresome, but unfortunately still necessary, as are efforts to quell such silly disparities....
There is a very simple reason for this and a very simple solution, however you're not going to like it.
This is a group of men that have in the past been disrespectful to women and obviously there has been a pattern since its not just one person posting this.
What can be done about this? Talk to your homies and teach them some manners and how to act in public or in the presence of women. And while you're at it perhaps you can remind them that when they go to see a movie its not their personal living room when they can talk for 2 hours straight without any regard for anyone else lol
Where's Big Ben? He usually has candid responses to threads like this...
Don't tell me has gone to the other side...or worse, become a mod.
Don't tell me has gone to the other side...or worse, become a mod.
Amen to the above. But polite and civilized manners aside, every girl has the right to see or not see any client based on her preferences. If she is not comfortable with black men, you dont have the right to DEMAND service or DEMAND an explanation. She doesn't owe that to anyone. It may be a case of simple physical attraction. Just like there are girls who specifically want to screw black guys, there are those who prefer NOT to screw black guys. Get over it, move on to a girl who is open to it.
This sense of entitlement has got to stop.
