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What is the prerequisite stay after sex?

lewd

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How long do you stay after having sex with someone? An hour? Two? or until the morning?
Obviously this differs depending if it was a one night stand or if you've been dating for a year or so.

But what if you've been seeing her for only a month or so?
I don't like to leave too quickly, but i also don't want to stay the night.
 

DonAngelo

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lewd said:
How long do you stay after having sex with someone? An hour? Two? or until the morning?
...there's an old joke in Germany about that; but I quess with a little bit of truth ;-)

Where are 95% of all men 10 minutes after they had sex? ....on their way home...
 

shack

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Eternity

Definition of eternity?

The time between when you cum and she goes.
 
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papasmerf

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Depends on if one of you needs to chew their arm off to get away.
 

Frenchy

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And you know how women are....

moan, moan, come, come and Blablablablablablabla

;-)

Frenchy
 

lewd

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In other words, none of you have gotten lucky lately. ;-)
All valid answers, but I'm looking for a serious one.
There seems to be a fine line of being insensitive by bolting for the door after only an hour and overstaying your welcome especially if you've only been seeing her for a month or so.
 

papasmerf

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Depends on the relationship.

Is this a person you know well?
A hobbist?
Someone you picked up at the supermarket??
Is her husband comming home?

Or is she the love of your life?????

papa
 

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This one is really easy, when one gives it some thought.

Arrive prepared. Lay the groundwork early on in the evening. Make up some excuse that you have an early morning commitment (weather it's a meeting, friends, family, ect.). So when things heat up and afterwards, play it by ear. If you want to bolt afterwards, no awkward sitution. She knows that you have an early start and shouldn't put up too much of a fuss. If things are going well, stay. She'll think that you're the 'cat's meow' for thinking so much of her.

Either way, you win. Always, always, leave them wanting more...


P.S.-This works for the ladies as well!
 
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Lewd, no offence, but please tell me you are about 16 years old?.....I am laughing hystericly at this....An adult asking a question as silly as this. This is one of those questions I see being askied in a movie starring Molly Ringwald, John Cusak or Judd Nelson.

This is something i was asking my friends when I was 17 years old.

Seriously though, Stay as long as you want too. If you want to leave right a way, leave. If you are comfortable staying longer, stay longer. You should be able to read her body language or mannerisims to get a hint. There is no REAL answer to this question. Everyone is different. Hell, maybe she wants you to leave, but is to polite to toss you out.

Basicly to aswer youe question.........??????????????????????

Trent
 

Big Daddy

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lewd said:
How long do you stay after having sex with someone? An hour? Two? or until the morning?
Obviously this differs depending if it was a one night stand or if you've been dating for a year or so.

But what if you've been seeing her for only a month or so?
I don't like to leave too quickly, but i also don't want to stay the night.
It depends. If you don't want to have sex with her again then you stay as long as it takes for you to clean, wear the cloths back and go home.

It is hard to predict exact time otherwise. You just have to see how your partner behaves and get sense of it. It is more like how long do you stay at a office party? It is one of those decisions.
 

legmann

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Leave??? Why in the hell would I want to leave - and miss the chance for more sex the next morning?!!

Seriously, I've always thought it's been a given to spend the night, even after the first time with somebody new. I've never been asked to 'leave' afterwards, that's for sure.
 
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fflowley

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right answer

i'm sure there is a right answer to this question; i can also tell you I clearly got it WRONG once in the past.

I was in my early 20's, still in school. I had a classmate in her mid 30's. She was an incredibly sensual woman. Her attractiveness was undeniable, but for the 3 years we had known each other it was pure friendship. I really didnt think of her any other way.

One night she invited me over for a movie. Seemed innocent enough. Turns out her VCR (thats how we watched movies back in the old days) was in her bedroom. So we started out sitting on opposite sides, watching, not anything going on. By mid movie there was definite under-blanket contact going on. By the end of the movie, a major gropefest.
The next 3 hours were the most sensual sexual experience of my then young life. She had a spectacular body. I covered every inch of it in great detail. Not only was she beautiful to look at, but the act was a combined GFE/PSE. We both came several times, and essentially stpped out of exhaustion. We lay in each others arms, and then the thought that has haunted me since then popped in my my mind. I remembered that our local cycling club had a ride the next morning that I really wanted to go on. So after 20 minutes or so of cuddling, I announced I had to get home that night as I had plans the next AM.

As you might have guessed by now, that was the end of our sex life together. We remained close friends but no more nookie!
We even talked about it later on. I was really destined to have been her "boy-toy" after that night. Believe me, the sex would have been incredible, and the boy-toy label doesn't bother me. But when I walked out without staying over that was the end of it.

So I hope you can avoid a similar unhappy ending.


Flooey!
 

LateComer

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fflowley:

It almost physically hurt to read that story. WHAT WERE YOU THINKING!!?? Oh well, live and learn.
 

lewd

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Philanthropist said:
Lewd, no offence, but please tell me you are about 16 years old?.....I am laughing hystericly at this....An adult asking a question as silly as this. This is one of those questions I see being askied in a movie starring Molly Ringwald, John Cusak or Judd Nelson.

This is something i was asking my friends when I was 17 years old.

I suspected someone would comment as you did. Sure it's a question I've asked in my younger days...but it's still relevant for me today. And as you can see from the responses...there's no consensus or a right answer.

It's about hearing others' experiences to what have worked and what hasn't.
My experience has always been leaving after a few hours. But this time, she's special...and I don't want to screw it up.
 

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Boys! Boys! Boys!

She has ears! You have a tongue!
Don't just use it to stick in her ear!
Communication is a wonderful thing!
The only thing that should be left to guess work is how you plan on pleasing her! Let her find that out by surprise!
Whether or not you are going to stay the night needs to be determined beforehand, with the proviso that if the chemistry is not there, an early departure will be in the offing!
C'mon guys! These are walking talking human beings, not Barbie Dolls! Ask them what the hell they want and they will tell you!

Willywants (to stay, but may not unless specifically invited to do so!)
 
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A delicate subject indeed.

I think sleeping with someone is the ultimate act of intimacy, even more so than sex itself. So if you want to send a message to her that you will be seeing each other for the next little while and you care about her than stay over. If you're going there just for sex then leave shortly after. Shortly after is at least 30-45 minutes. I think it's very rude to leave right after unless of course you're paying for it.

Follow your own feelings, that's the only way you will be fair to her.
 

dogman

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Why ask?

Hey ......there is two people here and both must be happy. If it is you are happy kissing her ass now...then be prepared to do it for the rest of your life......remember you are setting the groundwork for a relationship. If you do everything just to please her then how does she know who you really are other than some ass kissing fool that is asking to be used and abused down the road. If you open doors for her now then you better be prepared to open doors for her in 2 months, 2 years and ten years later. If you stop then you have changed and she has every right then to be pissed off at you for changing and not being the person she fell in love with. So to sum this up.....you must please yourself and hope that at the same time she is happy.....or there will never be a relationship that is successful.

Dogman
 

gassman

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depends on how long you paid for

If you only paid her for one hour....you're outa there when the hour's up.

If you paid for three hours...well..then you don't have to leave till the three hours are up.

It's easy.
 

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Re: depends on how long you paid for

gassman said:
If you only paid her for one hour....you're outa there when the hour's up.

If you paid for three hours...well..then you don't have to leave till the three hours are up.

It's easy.
If you read the first post I am not sure he was reffering to a SP?

I think he was asking that for his own personnal relationship.

Frenchy
 
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