right answer
i'm sure there is a right answer to this question; i can also tell you I clearly got it WRONG once in the past.
I was in my early 20's, still in school. I had a classmate in her mid 30's. She was an incredibly sensual woman. Her attractiveness was undeniable, but for the 3 years we had known each other it was pure friendship. I really didnt think of her any other way.
One night she invited me over for a movie. Seemed innocent enough. Turns out her VCR (thats how we watched movies back in the old days) was in her bedroom. So we started out sitting on opposite sides, watching, not anything going on. By mid movie there was definite under-blanket contact going on. By the end of the movie, a major gropefest.
The next 3 hours were the most sensual sexual experience of my then young life. She had a spectacular body. I covered every inch of it in great detail. Not only was she beautiful to look at, but the act was a combined GFE/PSE. We both came several times, and essentially stpped out of exhaustion. We lay in each others arms, and then the thought that has haunted me since then popped in my my mind. I remembered that our local cycling club had a ride the next morning that I really wanted to go on. So after 20 minutes or so of cuddling, I announced I had to get home that night as I had plans the next AM.
As you might have guessed by now, that was the end of our sex life together. We remained close friends but no more nookie!
We even talked about it later on. I was really destined to have been her "boy-toy" after that night. Believe me, the sex would have been incredible, and the boy-toy label doesn't bother me. But when I walked out without staying over that was the end of it.
So I hope you can avoid a similar unhappy ending.
Flooey!