Hey ......there is two people here and both must be happy. If it is you are happy kissing her ass now...then be prepared to do it for the rest of your life......remember you are setting the groundwork for a relationship. If you do everything just to please her then how does she know who you really are other than some ass kissing fool that is asking to be used and abused down the road. If you open doors for her now then you better be prepared to open doors for her in 2 months, 2 years and ten years later. If you stop then you have changed and she has every right then to be pissed off at you for changing and not being the person she fell in love with. So to sum this up.....you must please yourself and hope that at the same time she is happy.....or there will never be a relationship that is successful.
Dogman
