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[sempel]

There seem to be a few guys on here that say they book multi-hour dates so I have a question.

What if you book a multi-hour date with an SP you've never met that includes social time, let's say dinner. At some point during the dinner, you realize you have no connection with the SP, maybe you don't like her or her personality. How does that work? Does the date end, do you still move on to playtime? Do you walk but pay her for the full length of the date?

I don't imagine this to be the case with every SP but there are for sure some women who have very little to talk about so dinner might be a boring affair. I also assume some guys look for genuine connection and may find some ladies smile and laugh because they are supposed to versus actually enjoying themselves. Something like this would be a total turnoff for me so something like a dinner can kill an encounter.

Just a hypothetical question, not based on experience, past or expected future.

 

[essguy_]

There seem to be a few guys on here that say they book multi-hour dates so I have a question.

What if you book a multi-hour date with an SP you've never met that includes social time, let's say dinner. At some point during the dinner, you realize you have no connection with the SP, maybe you don't like her or her personality. How does that work? Does the date end, do you still move on to playtime? Do you walk but pay her for the full length of the date?

I don't imagine this to be the case with every SP but there are for sure some women who have very little to talk about so dinner might be a boring affair. I also assume some guys look for genuine connection and may find some ladies smile and laugh because they are supposed to versus actually enjoying themselves. Something like this would be a total turnoff for me so something like a dinner can kill an encounter.

Just a hypothetical question, not based on experience, past or expected future.

Why would you book a multi-hour appointment with a provider you've never met? And IF you choose to take that risk - why on earth would you think you're not obligated to pay the full appointment amount (presumably agreed upon before hand).

Oh, and conversation is a two way street. Eg: You may think she's boring - but then she might be responding to you in a boring way because she thinks you're a dick.

Personally, I've NEVER booked a multi-hour appointment unless I already know that we get along.

 

[kherg007]

I think it would not be prudent to book a multi hour date unless you already knew the lady and felt you had a good rapport, thus reducing the odds of your hypothetical situation described above. ....however, if we assume your premise and someone was to do this....I'd do the necessary mental gymnastics to find something attractive about her to enable me to get the date over the finish line with at least half a smile. If you did bail early ("Oh, gee, I forgot I left something on the stove" ...lol) you would not be within your right to request a refund, btw. Lesson learned.

 

[sempel]

Why would you book a multi-hour appointment with a provider you've never met? And IF you choose to take that risk - why on earth would you think you're not obligated to pay the full appointment amount (presumably agreed upon before hand).

Oh, and conversation is a two way street. Eg: You may think she's boring - but then she might be responding to you in a boring way because she thinks you're a dick.

Personally, I've NEVER booked a multi-hour appointment unless I already know that we get along.

Again, this is not me who would do this. This is other guys who do this - they book multi-hour dates with first time SP's. I'm not crazy enough (nor rich enough) to do this.

I think it would not be prudent to book a multi hour date unless you already knew the lady and felt you had a good rapport, thus reducing the odds of your hypothetical situation described above. ....however, if we assume your premise and someone was to do this....I'd do the necessary mental gymnastics to find something attractive about her to enable me to get the date over the finish line with at least half a smile. If you did bail early ("Oh, gee, I forgot I left something on the stove" ...lol) you would not be within your right to request a refund, btw. Lesson learned.

That's what I'm thinking. I'm very open, fairly easy to get along with, and am attracted to a variety of women so it really comes down to personalities not clicking. If she says something that just makes you shake your head, now there's an awkwardness. This has happened with a few MPA's where they started talking about something that just made me shake my head but these are 40-60 min appointments so I'm not going to lose a ton of money. Some of these appointments though went downhill and were disappointing.

I do think a refund is in order. It comes down to this. Do you get a refund? Some would say no, the lady took the time to book you and loses out on other bookings/money. But now you are going to have sex with someone you don't like, maybe aren't attracted to which is not a good thing either.

 

[explorerzip]

There's a big difference between seeing a new girl to the industry / one with little to no reviews and one that is just new to you. There's less perceived risk with a popular girl with many reviews. You reduce your chances at disappointment somewhat when you book with popular girl for multiple hours, though there's obviously no guarantee.

In your scenario, I would still continue the appointment unless completely disgusted with her somehow. I would not ask for a refund even if I left early. It's not the girl's fault that you are not into her.

 

[TFZL1]

Why bother asking questions about something you’re never going to pay for?

I’ve had some great extended dates, always with a lady I’ve been with multiple times before.
I always include a sex session before and after and social time in the middle. That way we go out for dinner or show or whatever with that freshly fucked look on our faces. We get to joke and reminisce and tease all though the date and plan what positions were going to try on round 2. Then after, we both go home separately and quite satisfied.

 

[Jasmina]

I think, and this is also from reading posts over years on the boards from men, that most seasoned hobbyists through trial and error and common sense learn how to "shop" for companions they will click with, they read their ads thoroughly, read reviews, pay attention to the little details, maybe even follow them on twitter so IF personality is a big thing they already have a sense of what to expect upon meeting the lady of their choosing. That being said, like the gentlemen said above, few book dinner dates without having met the lady before hand. Multi hour sessions and dinner dates are not the same thing though, some do book multi hour sessions strictly in the bedroom the first time, again if the homework has been done and you know exactly what types you click with, this is much less riskier than long dinner dates.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

Multi hour in general is only for a specific type of hobbyist, usually veterans, we're versatile so we know how to adapt.

Socially awkward people don't book social dates, they usually just skip straight to the bedroom... I've been with SPs younger than me and older than me, and I've never had an issue "clicking" with anyone. I've had bad service but as far as conversations goes, I've never had an issue.

Also, I'd recommend bringing take out or ordering in as opposed to going out for a meal, that way, it's more of a bedroom date than a social date + play date. That said, I rarely take an SP out for a meal for a 3-5 hour appointment. I usually only plan outings for 12+ hour appointments.

As for your question, you booked in the first place because of physical attraction, not her personality or ability to have a conversation with you. So chances are, regardless of the conversation you had during dinner, you'll still want to have FS.

 

[justfor]

I have booked and taken my fav. ladies out on multi- hours appointments lasting a day or longer. But I'd do this only with someone I have developed connection, trust and mutual respect with - never on a first date. It could be a disaster if you don't know your partner well.

 

[canman1]

There seem to be a few guys on here that say they book multi-hour dates so I have a question.

What if you book a multi-hour date with an SP you've never met that includes social time, let's say dinner. At some point during the dinner, you realize you have no connection with the SP, maybe you don't like her or her personality. How does that work? Does the date end, do you still move on to playtime? Do you walk but pay her for the full length of the date?

I don't imagine this to be the case with every SP but there are for sure some women who have very little to talk about so dinner might be a boring affair. I also assume some guys look for genuine connection and may find some ladies smile and laugh because they are supposed to versus actually enjoying themselves. Something like this would be a total turnoff for me so something like a dinner can kill an encounter.

Just a hypothetical question, not based on experience, past or expected future.

I have met very few women, regardless of the circumstances, who have very little to say (no offence ladies). Those that might fit that small majority, and are escorts, would not be offering social time. "genuine connection" - you are not looking for a girlfriend, on that first date, to see if you are going to do another. You liked her looks, what she said about herself, and know at the end of the social time, where you will end up. The social time has no problems, as long as you know how to hold a conversation. You should be more concerned with how she preforms at the end of the evening. But dinner dates with escorts, are mainly just extending the encounter into an evening, rather then just a short visit. The majority of the time, they are enjoyable in all aspects. As with any encounter, you may occasionally meet one, that is more mechanical in her services. But you may also meet some, that future encounters occur.