What do you do when SP's ask you out?

[superstar1]

I've seen two or three SP's on a regular basis.

After a while chemistry kicks in and you become friends as well as lovers.

You share things in common and have similar likes and dislikes.

I've been asked by one of the regular girls I see to take her out to dinner.

I don't mind the idea, but I have concerns. I don't want to let the relationship go beyond the bedroom, and I can't risk being seen out with a strange but stunning woman.

I'm sure this has happened to you guys. What do you say, what do you do?

 

[Astra]

If you are uneasy with the situation, politely decline.

Ciao
Astra

 

[gramage]

like Astra said, if you are unsure say no. if your willing to take a chance, rejoice!

 

[sweetdaddyc]

Not paying for it makes you lovers and friends

I am confused
you become friends and lovers
Therefore you are not paying for it any longer
Well then it becomes simple treat them as you would any other g/f
BUT if you are still paying for it
I believe you are still a client and you are confused

 

[GentleMan]

You need to decide how you want this relationship to go. Is she asking you to dinner as a client or as a friend? You can't have your cake and eat it too.

For me, if I book for multiple hours (3+), I usually setup a dinner beforehand. It allows me to get to know the lady better and her me. However, it's always been "on the clock". I did have one SP ask me to go to the movies with her after our session "off the clock". Very nice to see her in that light.

 

[shack]

I can't risk being seen out with a strange but stunning woman.

Nobody has addressed this issue, which may be the crux of the dilemma, depending on what the reason for this is.

If indeed you absolutely can not risk it, then why even ask the question here? Just tell her you can't and give her your, hopefully, valid reason.

 

[dudelove]

Hmm, did you win the Super 7 recently?

Are you a middle-aged executive type person, having a mid-life crisis?

Or are you a "sugar" daddy?

It is very flattering to have an SP who would like to see you beyond the business deal. BUT think about it, is there a catch?

For me, I would be skeptical. Could she be a gold digger? Could she calculate the risk and reward when she size you?

Maybe she figures out you are desperate enough to catch the "bait".

Remember if she wants to spend more quality time with you, that means YOU are the one who's going to compensate for the time she could earn from seeing other clients. Are you prepared to spend the dough?

If the SP in question is high maintanence type, how much money are you going to put up to keep her around? Is she going to be around if you could no longer afford to be with her?

These are the questions you have to answer. You need to think why me?

 

[Ross Eyerie]

I don't see how being friends with them is a problem.

Althought it may be a bit different, I've become good friends with many dancers, and there has not been a problem with a few of them being involved with my personal life.

You should feel fortunate that some of these ladies want to be your friend and go out with you socially.

There are others that are focuses on your $$$, and no matter intimate or how close you think you are with an SP, they will NEVER get together with you unless they see the $$$. I need a calculator to count those kinds of SPs.

Consider yourself a lucky guy. A coffee, or dinner out socially is harmless.

GB

Sometimes it ain't about the money cause I went out with an SP once for some drinks and I didn't have any money.

I don't think she knew how broke I was cause I asked for an appointment and she said she'd rather not have an appointment cause she had a rough client earlier so she suggested drinks instead. (I would have found the cash for an appointment tho)

She grabbed the tab (which was aight with me cause she probably makes more in two hours than I make all week.)

And it almost kinda sucked cause I didn't get laid that night either. Oh well... better luck next time.

 

[revolver]

and I can't risk being seen out with a strange but stunning woman.

I can't believe she's really that strange. Dinner never hurt anyone, I'd say go for it.

 

[yabut]

I have had this experience now a couple times and my advise is go for it. Like Sensual lady says they must have enjoyed your company. Personally the 2 times its happened have been very special evening to me. Thanks ladies and you know who you are. Its quite a nice feeling to have after you leave.

 

[500miles]

This is the same guy who posted about falling in love with an SP. Now apparently, they are fallling for him. He must be Ricky Martin.

 

[train]

He must be Ricky Martin.

If he was they would be male sp's......

"....not that there is anything wrong with that ." Seinfeld .