I'm trying to understand why some of you guys are so cynical, Sws aren't any different from any other woman. You guys amaze me with the attitude "she OK to fuck and see regularly but beneath you to have a normal relationship with "
What are the odds?
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Well said. My thoughts exactly. At the core, every SP are human beings. Everyone is entitled to be loved. Judging a person on their profession is wrong.
As for how long have I known her, a little more than a year. Does time actually matter? When you connect with someone, and things feel right, who cares about time.
As for age, we're 5 years apart. Both in our 30's. Not that age should matter. Whether in 30's or 50's.
To me, things feel right, we have a great connection. She seems as much in to me as I am in to her.
Fingers crossed I'm not living in a fairy tale.
It's better to have loved than not loved at all. Your heart is already committed but if your brain is saying yes, then take a chance cause life is too short.
Title thread says "What are the odds?"
Well, the odds are not good. They're not the best with civvies and even worse with professionals.
If a guy is a catch and single (any guy), how does he end up paying for sex?
Independent, smart, successful girls don't usually go down this rabbit hole. It's the darker avenues that lead to this lifestyle. Very seldom does a lady do this out of passion and love for sex while $$$ is just a bonus.
Does it mean that "living happily ever after" with SP is out of question? Well, no... but it's more of an exception rather than a rule.
This hobby is meant to be a short term fantasy. Sometimes lines are blurred and crossed, sometimes with great success, but it typically leads to bad results.
Just my 2 cents... ok, more like 5
I would have thought that of all places Terb would be a place where SP's were respected as human beings on par with others. So let go of the prejudices and fears.
The odds are not good for any marriage these days, but there are no reasons to support the idea that the odds are any worse in this case.
Live and love. Anybody who finds somebody who loves him, is lucky.
The odds are not good for any marriage these days, but there are no reasons to support the idea that the odds are any worse in this case.
Live and love. Anybody who finds somebody who loves him, is lucky.
Guess it's like I'm a casino, with the odds stacked against me. Hopefully we can pull it off. Worst case, it'll be a live and learn experience. But for sure, I won't regret the time spent with her.
Listen, if you're ready for the good and the bad, then go for it, take a plunge. Nothing worse than living with regret and wondering what if. If you were 19, I'd be advising you to reconsider, but you're a big boy.
As far as the notion of not seeing SPs as humans - that's simply not true. I like them and treat the with respect, but crossing that line is just a no no in my mind. To me it's no different that a gynecologist dating his patient.
He attracted a woman.
There’s nothing demeaning intended when ribbing him about his good fortune. Asking what he used for bait is something I’d joke about if she was or wasn’t a sexworker.
And remember, if you ever get into an argument don’t make it worse by bringing up what she did in the past. Never talk about it unless she wants to. If you want to see a relationship end quickly and badly, just bring up her past, imho. I have been told they is one of the main reasons some women in the business do not want to get involved with a client. The last thing they want is a guy who will use her past against her.
Both in your thirties and 5 years apart brings those odds up quite a bit.
From what I can tell, most guys on this board seem to be 45-60, and are seeing providers in their early 20s, so you can see why they might be a little more pessimistic about the long term prospects in their own case...
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