Weird situation - What do you think? Regular provider won't see me.

[rcp2939]

So I am a longtime hobbyist, in the law industry and I travel for work and visit Toronto 1-2 x per month.
Since about a year, there is a solid provider I book everytime I am in town.
I think I saw here between 15-20 times in 14 months.
Everytime the process in the same : I text her from a random e-mail, I arrive on time, I pay, I leave.
No drama, nothing complicated.
Everytime, I use a different mail but that's already discussed and she's fine with it.
The last 2 times I tried to book her, she went on an extensive validation process of my ID.
Even though, I told her exactly what I used to tell her everytime, this time it seemed like she just wasn't looking to close the booking.
I moved on since I had little time left after like a 30 mails exchange.
Now this morning, I try to book her and then she says : it's you again ?
Of course, I reply : finally, you understood who I am ahah
And she just says : Well last time I told you to never ever message me again.

So, I'm not a little boy, I won't cry.
I am just extremely curious, the hell is this?
I just don't get it.
I won't book her, of course.
But it seems like a crazy/drastic change.
And I made sure she knows I was the guy that saw her multiple times, etc.
Anyways, your opinions are welcome.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

Perhaps she has someone doing booking for her these days?

 

[spraggamuffin]

Could be any number of reasons including things you have done but didn't disclose in your post or simply nothing to do with you and simply changes with her.
Either way, we could speculate from now until whenever.
Bottom line is she does not want you to book her, so best to respect her decision and move on before things get messy.

 

[rcp2939]

Well honestly I am not here to act as a 'victim'.
I'm just genuinely curious about this reaction.
I am really a 'simple' customer in the sense that I show up after a shower, on time, money in an envelope.
I only request : blowjob + full sex.
I never message for something else than a booking.
I don't have any fetishes.
I used different mails because there is an app that generates a new one everytime I open it.
Super convenient, no traces, etc.
Now she had insisted on the fact that some people use that app to make fake bookings and all.
And she had mentioned that she would prefer if I use a regular one not to be confused with the 'fakes'.
But the process we had in place was the same since over a year.
Anyways, I thought she might just be tired of all of this 'industry'.
She had started a little before I first booked her.

 

[legmann]

Now she had insisted on the fact that some people use that app to make fake bookings and all.
And she had mentioned that she would prefer if I use a regular one not to be confused with the 'fakes'.

That, then, is most likely the cause; I would guess that the problem could have been averted otherwise.

 

[james t kirk]

So what's the problem.

Just set up a gmail account that you use with her all the time. I don't see the problem. I'm wondering why you feel the need to use a different email each and every time. I can understand the need for discretion, but I think you're taking it a bit to far. If you're worried about it being traced to you, use the computer in your hotel, or the nearest public library.

 

[mandrill]

She could simply have you confused with another client, she doesn't like.

I got banned by Stella @ Pure in a case of mistaken identity a few months ago. As well, I notice that a girl at Muse Spa whom I have never, ever seen - in fact, I have never, ever booked ANYONE at Muse spa - has now blocked me on Twitter. Can only assume that I am confused with some else.

 

[massman]

She probably had a bad experience with a number of fake bookings or a bad client, and she decided to revamp her security procedures. Tue different emails each time does send up a red flag. Just get a hobby gmail or something's. I too need discretion, so am similarly reluctant to share real ID details, but messaging from a different number or email each time might start to seem suspicious, even (?especially) if you've seen each other a number of times before.

 

[lucky lucas]

Just few possibilities

Time means money to the ladies. I heard a popular lady was getting fully booked but one after another turned out being no shows for few days till lady had to change her booking procedure, she lost thousands of dollars in couple days. She figured it could have been her competition or bad client.

I was blacklisted from seeing a specific lady by an agency I used and continued to use after that specific lady left that agency. I asked booking agent why I was blacklisted, I've never seen that specific SP but I've seen others and even posted positive reviews, I was not even using my TERB handle, booking agent said it could just be case of mistaken identity, I respected her wishes and moved on.

Another time I'm booked to see SP, confirm in the morning, when I call back to reconfirm an hour before my booked time I'm told I would not be able to see SP. I asked why, booking agent tells me MY WIFE CALLED and want to meet SP. I'm extremely discrete and wife knows nothing about this private part of my life. Another case of mistaken identity. I did not see SP that day but apparently booking agent was new and worked from home while taking care of her little ones, after other complaints she quit.

There seem to be numerous attacks on SPs and ladies are being more careful who they see, they want references, if they don't recognize your email or contact number, they might not return call/text/email. Some ladies even decide to only see their regulars to avoid bad experiences. I don't blame them.

Wether Indy doing their own bookings or agencies, there's plenty of room for human error. One Indy SP I booked in advance to fit into my schedule, show up at hotel minutes before, make the call, make the call, make the call, no answer, I leave. I receive call from SP later that night when I'm home with my wife, I brush it off as wrong number. I receive call next day while I'm at work. I tell SP I was at incall location for booked time and nothing, and it was very unprofessional to call me that evening when I was with my wife, and still unprofessional to call me when I'm working, yadda yadda yadda she lost my business.

LL

 

[LeeHelm]

You are probably creeping her out.

 

[Jeffeye99]

Emailing from a different email address each time is a little strange. Even if she put up with it before.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Emailing from a different email address each time is a little strange. Even if she put up with it before.

yes, and OP needs to move on...

 

[JunoxGrey]

Emailing from a different email address each time is a little strange. Even if she put up with it before.

This. I would have no clue if I've seen someone before if they did this and if they did I'd assume they were hiding something or I've blacklisted them before and be pretty sketched out.

 

[Chloë.]

This. I would have no clue if I've seen someone before if they did this and if they did I'd assume they were hiding something or I've blacklisted them before and be pretty sketched out.

Ditto. It's also a bit off and exceptionally tiring to figure out who the person is every time. With a provider you've seen for a year +, there should be some trust developed for at least, one hobby email she can familiarize herself with.

 

[Bostonmass]

Ditto. It's also a bit off and exceptionally tiring to figure out who the person is every time. With a provider you've seen for a year +, there should be some trust developed for at least, one hobby email she can familiarize herself with.

If your repeating with a "solid provider", there's no need for all the cloak and dagger.
She's probably insulted your treating her like a leper.

Treat it as a simple business transaction, no different than dealing with your favourite hair stylist/barber, mechanic, dentist/Doctor, etc. , just lock out your phone so no one ever uses it or could possibly see any texts.

 

[rcp2939]

That's what I thought.

Now I know some of you might think : if he changes his mail so often, he must be:
- a weirdo
- a creep
- has something to hide
- is not saying the truth/
- etc.

In any case, I can't explain here why I proceed that way but I get all your opinons.
Of course, contacting that provider now is just out of the question.
Thanks!

 

[niniveh]

"I am just extremely curious, the hell is this?
I just don't get it."

What any one of us thinks is not germane. The lady doesn't want to see you. Period. What don't you get? Move on.

 

[kherg007]

Ditto. It's also a bit off and exceptionally tiring to figure out who the person is every time. With a provider you've seen for a year +, there should be some trust developed for at least, one hobby email she can familiarize herself with.

Plus there is the problem of some unscrupulous clients ffalsely claiming they are x or y from terb (and using that person's handle) to try to obtain legitimacy....again, I beseech the blokes to see if from the lady's POV - she's taking a bigger risk here than you, so do what you can to help reduce her anxiety.

 

[Samranchoi]

Plus there is the problem of some unscrupulous clients ffalsely claiming they are x or y from terb (and using that person's handle) to try to obtain legitimacy....again, I beseech the blokes to see if from the lady's POV - she's taking a bigger risk here than you, so do what you can to help reduce her anxiety.

Which is why an agency such as ASB asks for a new client to send a pm through Terb. One guy came on here to complain but he didn't respond back by way of a pm. Makes you wonder if Guys try to use someone else's Terb ID to book an appt.

 

[lurkerdick]

Get her arrested...done