This happened to me 3-4 years ago. She was a great blonde MILF woman. I really enjoyed her company. We used to do some crazy things together when I visited her. She enjoyed it. I spent some good coin on her. I stopped seeing her for a while then I wanted to get together again. I texted her to get together and I was rebuffed. She said I was rough on her anally the last time we met, even though she said NO, and that I had been visiting a well known milf SP near her airport location. I explained to her that she must have me confused with someone else (i don't do anal and I have never seen the SP she was talking about). I gave her some details of some of our encounters to stir her memory. I even asked that we meet at a coffee shop to confirm that I am who I said I am. Much to my dismay that meeting never happened. Well, she left the industry a few years ago and gone west with her boyfriend to start a new life. My loss.
Weird situation - What do you think? Regular provider won't see me.
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Why make things so complicated for her when you could setup a fake email account in which she could recognize? Sounds like the bridge may be burned pally. Here is a girl, highly recommended for an elaborate booker like you:
http://toronto.backpage.ca/FemaleEs...nut-asian-mil-fy-wants-your-yummmy-i/71214558
Yep sounds like it. OP move on, there are so many other SP's to see. I literally have 25 or so on my TSL.
The most significant advantage of an SP over a civvy is that breaking up with an SP should be easy, breezy and beautiful. No need to over-analyze or even to analyze. Whatever the hick up was, fuck her and fuck her mother. Next!So I am a longtime hobbyist, in the law industry and I travel for work and visit Toronto 1-2 x per month.
Since about a year, there is a solid provider I book everytime I am in town.
I think I saw here between 15-20 times in 14 months.
Everytime the process in the same : I text her from a random e-mail, I arrive on time, I pay, I leave.
No drama, nothing complicated.
Everytime, I use a different mail but that's already discussed and she's fine with it.
The last 2 times I tried to book her, she went on an extensive validation process of my ID.
Even though, I told her exactly what I used to tell her everytime, this time it seemed like she just wasn't looking to close the booking.
I moved on since I had little time left after like a 30 mails exchange.
Now this morning, I try to book her and then she says : it's you again ?
Of course, I reply : finally, you understood who I am ahah
And she just says : Well last time I told you to never ever message me again.
So, I'm not a little boy, I won't cry.
I am just extremely curious, the hell is this?
I just don't get it.
I won't book her, of course.
But it seems like a crazy/drastic change.
And I made sure she knows I was the guy that saw her multiple times, etc.
Anyways, your opinions are welcome.
simple. you just annoyed the fuck out of her with all these different email addresses. first, you make her go through the hassle of having to figure out who you are. It not only annoys the fuk out of her, but pisses her off too. and makes her feel like shit. Like she cant be trusted, especially after youve seen her a couple of times already.
so, yes youre creeping her out. cos its weird. super weird to do to a person. imagine your friend or coworker doing thay to you all the time. what you think, an sp isnt a person and deserves to be trested that way?
so, she probably just had enough of your shit and said enough is enough. shes doesnt want to be treated like some outcast and if u want to get your service, to just get it somewhere else, from someone else.
Basically he flew too close to the sun in an attempt to maybe be overly eccentric, playful before the real foreplay and deed began etc.
All this to a woman who fucks several guys per day and does her best to forget them instead of remember them.
The multiple emails didnt help, but from my experience you'd be surprised at the smallest things that you may have texted/said with good intentions, only for the SP to take it the wrong way (this happens MUCH more often than most think). Like over the smallest stupidest things that you couldn't have imagined rubbing you the wrong way if someone said to you/or asked you if it was a question.
Its a blessing to be able to hobby, but dont be fooled..the ladies are well compensated for this luxury and even the most reputable SPs have made their fair share of mistakes..difference is if YOU are the one making the mistake you WILL get roasted for it and then subsequently blacklisted even if it wasnt fair..such is life. Cheers.
Its a blessing to be able to hobby, but dont be fooled..the ladies are well compensated for this luxury and even the most reputable SPs have made their fair share of mistakes..difference is if YOU are the one making the mistake you WILL get roasted for it and then subsequently blacklisted even if it wasnt fair..such is life. Cheers.
A so-called "weird situation" with regard to Sexworkers is highly relative. Many sp's don't answer emails, don't return calls, cancel appointments and shifts at the last minute or disappear off the face of the Earth for long periods of time. I've seen mileage go from white-hot to tepid in the space of two sessions: who knows why? I've had Sp's call or send unsolicited texts informing me they were in town or back from hiatus: totally unacceptable.
There's little consistency or baseline professionalism out there.
It's an underground business that often attracts flakey/damaged personalities, (that includes clients in many cases). You either embrace it on that level or don't even bother.
There's little consistency or baseline professionalism out there.
It's an underground business that often attracts flakey/damaged personalities, (that includes clients in many cases). You either embrace it on that level or don't even bother.
It's just business, I'm sure you are not her only regular, I'm sure you're not her best client, with the deepest pockets, with the biggest "tongue", or favourite boy toy. Never get too close and never have only one fave, MOVE ON!!!
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so true
I was wondering how many of the providers are suffering from the aftermath of child sexual abuse. I'm willing to bet the percentage is significant.
Are you guys serious? You're saying this on a forum for sex workers and the men who visit us? Totally uncalled for and unrelated to the topic at hand. Armchair psychiatric diagnosises are irrelevant, in any case.
Op, to be completely honest, you come across as a little creepy. The new email thing is weird. Just move on.
What ella said. The fact that you guys bring up child sexual abuse is a little disturbing. No one knows an sps story except for her and no one knows why she is doing this except for her.
As for the op.... It definetly is a weird situation because if you are a regular why would you keep changing your email? It makes me think you didn't want her to recognize you or something? All my regulars always have the same number/email and if they change their number they let me know. if you want to have trust you have got to be consistent with some things. She probably thought you were trying to be untraceable and got weirded out because it seemed she kept her email/contact number the same... I would just move on.
As for the op.... It definetly is a weird situation because if you are a regular why would you keep changing your email? It makes me think you didn't want her to recognize you or something? All my regulars always have the same number/email and if they change their number they let me know. if you want to have trust you have got to be consistent with some things. She probably thought you were trying to be untraceable and got weirded out because it seemed she kept her email/contact number the same... I would just move on.
No need to go into SP motivation, nothing good comes of that. The simplest explanation is usually the right one - so many different emails, gave her a funny vibe. Her call. Move on, I'm sure you'll find another ATF...but next time, maybe stick to the same email.
One more thing. The majority of women I have met during my time in this industry have been genuine, kind, articulate and intelligent.
Some have been educated and all have goals beyond the "sex trade". I, myself, have a university degree and do not consider myself damaged nor "flaky". We are women with dreams and many of us pursue happy lives beyond this.
Sorry. Just did not expect to see this rhetoric here, of all places. That's all now carry on.
Some have been educated and all have goals beyond the "sex trade". I, myself, have a university degree and do not consider myself damaged nor "flaky". We are women with dreams and many of us pursue happy lives beyond this.
Sorry. Just did not expect to see this rhetoric here, of all places. That's all now carry on.
