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Barrie_guy

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Is there some new epidemic of ladies contracting things through daty that I'm unaware of? I'm aware it's possible.. but has something changed?

When I first started hobbying you found the odd provider who wasn't into it but for the most part that was run of the mill service. Today is seems like 7/10 SP's don't allow it.

That said, I 100% respect an SP's right to offer or not offer whatever services don't make her comfortable. PROVIDED she is honest about it.

I ALWAYS ask. Is daty included. If someone says no, no problem, I completely respect that but we're not a match, thank you for your time. Increasingly I'm getting yes babe, of course babe and then you get there, pay the money, get a quick bj or even a bbbj (which is wild considering what's coming) and then I say ok my turn and "oh no I don't do that" Bitch I very clearly asked you that before I came. You're lucky I'm not a violent man because I want to flip a table but instead I just roll my eyes, try to get through a little missionary and eventually just fake a finish and leave because I can't enjoy it after being ripped off.

Am I the only one?
 

Daddy2021

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Is there some new epidemic of ladies contracting things through daty that I'm unaware of? I'm aware it's possible.. but has something changed?

When I first started hobbying you found the odd provider who wasn't into it but for the most part that was run of the mill service. Today is seems like 7/10 SP's don't allow it.

That said, I 100% respect an SP's right to offer or not offer whatever services don't make her comfortable. PROVIDED she is honest about it.

I ALWAYS ask. Is daty included. If someone says no, no problem, I completely respect that but we're not a match, thank you for your time. Increasingly I'm getting yes babe, of course babe and then you get there, pay the money, get a quick bj or even a bbbj (which is wild considering what's coming) and then I say ok my turn and "oh no I don't do that" Bitch I very clearly asked you that before I came. You're lucky I'm not a violent man because I want to flip a table but instead I just roll my eyes, try to get through a little missionary and eventually just fake a finish and leave because I can't enjoy it after being ripped off.

Am I the only one?
I think ladies are moving services to be on the safer side these days and they are educating themselves more health wise. Who knows. But there is definitely a shift in what services they are willing to provide now. Not being upfront about it is bullshit though.
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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Is there some new epidemic of ladies contracting things through daty that I'm unaware of? I'm aware it's possible.. but has something changed?

When I first started hobbying you found the odd provider who wasn't into it but for the most part that was run of the mill service. Today is seems like 7/10 SP's don't allow it.

That said, I 100% respect an SP's right to offer or not offer whatever services don't make her comfortable. PROVIDED she is honest about it.

I ALWAYS ask. Is daty included. If someone says no, no problem, I completely respect that but we're not a match, thank you for your time. Increasingly I'm getting yes babe, of course babe and then you get there, pay the money, get a quick bj or even a bbbj (which is wild considering what's coming) and then I say ok my turn and "oh no I don't do that" Bitch I very clearly asked you that before I came. You're lucky I'm not a violent man because I want to flip a table but instead I just roll my eyes, try to get through a little missionary and eventually just fake a finish and leave because I can't enjoy it after being ripped off.

Am I the only one?
Use a dental dam. Provide your own. Get them at the sex
Clinics for free. Your mouth has insane amounts of bacteria. Can cause them to have uti or yeast infection. It’s why they don’t want fingers either. how many men wash their hands and of so do it properly ? File nails ? Yes even the coke nail. so many men haven’t ever met floss. haven’t ever gargled.
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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Is there some new epidemic of ladies contracting things through daty that I'm unaware of? I'm aware it's possible.. but has something changed?

When I first started hobbying you found the odd provider who wasn't into it but for the most part that was run of the mill service. Today is seems like 7/10 SP's don't allow it.

That said, I 100% respect an SP's right to offer or not offer whatever services don't make her comfortable. PROVIDED she is honest about it.

I ALWAYS ask. Is daty included. If someone says no, no problem, I completely respect that but we're not a match, thank you for your time. Increasingly I'm getting yes babe, of course babe and then you get there, pay the money, get a quick bj or even a bbbj (which is wild considering what's coming) and then I say ok my turn and "oh no I don't do that" Bitch I very clearly asked you that before I came. You're lucky I'm not a violent man because I want to flip a table but instead I just roll my eyes, try to get through a little missionary and eventually just fake a finish and leave because I can't enjoy it after being ripped off.

Am I the only one?
”bitch”?! They’re “lucky”?! bye !!
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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I think ladies are moving services to be on the safer side these days and they are educating themselves more health wise. Who knows. But there is definitely a shift in what services they are willing to provide now. Not being upfront about it is bullshit though.
If you see them through agency they can’t be forthright
 
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Is there some new epidemic of ladies contracting things through daty that I'm unaware of? I'm aware it's possible.. but has something changed?

When I first started hobbying you found the odd provider who wasn't into it but for the most part that was run of the mill service. Today is seems like 7/10 SP's don't allow it.

That said, I 100% respect an SP's right to offer or not offer whatever services don't make her comfortable. PROVIDED she is honest about it.

I ALWAYS ask. Is daty included. If someone says no, no problem, I completely respect that but we're not a match, thank you for your time. Increasingly I'm getting yes babe, of course babe and then you get there, pay the money, get a quick bj or even a bbbj (which is wild considering what's coming) and then I say ok my turn and "oh no I don't do that" Bitch I very clearly asked you that before I came. You're lucky I'm not a violent man because I want to flip a table but instead I just roll my eyes, try to get through a little missionary and eventually just fake a finish and leave because I can't enjoy it after being ripped off.

Am I the only one?
Interesting.

Are these SP's older now?. Meaning when a person in their 20's will drink a lot. Then at 40 will drink half, not all but most. So this is the reason I ask about age.

Or maybe they found a partner to settle with for the rest of their lives and he doesn't know what she does now and she doesn't want to bring something home.
 

Daddy2021

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If you see them through agency they can’t be forthright
I wasn’t thinking agency. Yes that is true. Although an agency certainly shouldn’t be saying what services ladies should be providing. I hope they have domain of what services they wish to offer to who without the threat of agency not working with them if they say no.
 
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Daddy2021

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Interesting.

Are these SP's older now?. Meaning when a person in their 20's will drink a lot. Then at 40 will drink half, not all but most. So this is the reason I ask about age.

Or maybe they found a partner to settle with for the rest of their lives and he doesn't know what she does now and she doesn't want to bring something home.
I don’t think the reason really matters. If they no longer wish to provide these services due to risk then that’s their right. I’m noticing more sps seem to have had enough of being expected and basically forced due to demand to provide unsafe services and are trending to saying no. Good for them. Their bodies and they’re right to protect themselves. I’m not sure why more of us don’t see that.
 
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I'm guessing things like this aren’t helping. It could be very nervous time in the sex work industry.

 
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Barrie_guy

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”bitch”?! They’re “lucky”?! bye !!
I didn't say anything like that to them. I'm venting here. But again, that was only in reference to them lying to get me there and the my money. Not because they didn't offer a service which is their right.
 

Barrie_guy

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I don’t think the reason really matters. If they no longer wish to provide these services due to risk then that’s their right. I’m noticing more sps seem to have had enough of being expected and basically forced due to demand to provide unsafe services and are trending to saying no. Good for them. Their bodies and they’re right to protect themselves. I’m not sure why more of us don’t see that.
Did you only read a single line of my post or? I very clearly said it is 100% their choice whT devices they offer, and I expect it. But it's also my choice to to a client or not if they don't offer the services in looking for. Unless they take that choice away but telling me they offer a service that they then don't once they get my money.
 
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