unintended insult to sp. how to apologize?

[Terminator2000]

she's fucking with you. and not fucking in the good way you want her to. she's fucking with you in the sense that its a catch 22. if you go right. you lose. if you go left. you lose. she doesn't give you any win option. its all lose lose. she knows that and wants that. she wants you to lose - no matter what you decide/choose to do.

in the end. she set it up so that she never sees you again.

bottomline. she doesn't want to see you again. thats the way she set it up.

so that in any case, you never figure out a way to go back to her.

its her way of 'dumping' you.

sorry bro. i dont mean to be harsh. but its better to know the truth of where you stand.

 

[Pum-Pum Stabba]

she's fucking with you. and not fucking in the good way you want her to. she's fucking with you in the sense that its a catch 22. if you go right. you lose. if you go left. you lose. she doesn't give you any win option. its all lose lose. she knows that and wants that. she wants you to lose - no matter what you decide/choose to do.

in the end. she set it up so that she never sees you again.

bottomline. she doesn't want to see you again. thats the way she set it up.

so that in any case, you never figure out a way to go back to her.

its her way of 'dumping' you.

sorry bro. i dont mean to be harsh. but its better to know the truth of where you stand.

I attest to this. I have gone way over time with SP on numerous occasions. I have seen SP outside the agency and it's always the same result. Things get hot and heavy, but fade as the gals are busy, and will be counting the dollars they are losing in their head, while they are with you. I forget sometimes the reason why I like paying is so I can leave when I am done. Bottom line, don't try and see her again, she will just end up carving you another asshole. You got god mileage or in your mind had a great session and connection with a lady. You fucked her good,,,time to move on to the next!

 

[james t kirk]

This a repost from another place since I want as many different ideas as possible.

Recently had a strange thing happen.
.I saw this girl a couple of times for half an hour each, she casually mentions that I should opt for an hour next time.
So I do
But, I notice that we stayed like half an hour overtime (time flies when having fun). I figure it's fine since before she would nicely remind me my time was almost up which she didn't do this time.

So next time I call her up she's blunt and business like.**
You know how you can tell the difference when someone is being genuinely nice or just forcing themselves to?**

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This is a first for me, the few times I was honored with staying overtime with a working Lady it never went badly like this afterwards. I was lucky enough to become a Lady's lover once, so my past experience has rather made me ill prepared for this contingency.

Anyone have any insight to remedy this situation?

Ladies, what should one do under the circumstances to not make such an ass of myself?

Seems like she's over reacting a bit.

Find another.

 

[outlander]

What the others said

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[Viggo Rasmussen]

You started another thread about the same incident?
Move on, things can never be the same.

 

[y2kmark]

In a nutshell ...

I tend to agree with what's been said! Sometimes Appointments go over..... It's our(sp) responsibility to keep track of the time if it's that important!

Well said, your past and potential clients thank you for your professionalism, I'm sure.:thumb:

 

[GPIDEAL]

This a repost from another place since I want as many different ideas as possible.

Recently had a strange thing happen.
.I saw this girl a couple of times for half an hour each, she casually mentions that I should opt for an hour next time.
So I do
But, I notice that we stayed like half an hour overtime (time flies when having fun). I figure it's fine since before she would nicely remind me my time was almost up which she didn't do this time.

So next time I call her up she's blunt and business like.**
You know how you can tell the difference when someone is being genuinely nice or just forcing themselves to?**

So I ask her if somethings wrong, it takes a bit of wordplay but finally she lets loose that I took advantage and that if I want more time next appointment I should book more time, and I don't respect her since I assume she has nothing better to do with her free time but provide service.
While I was taken aback by her indignation, I felt horrible.
I never wanted to make her feel bad, she is a wonderful woman.
So I apologized profusely, then it seems I made another mistake.I

I said that if she felt I had overstayed my time through malice or taken more of her than she had been willing to share then I would gladly pay for my thoughtlessness.

She took that as another insult, now I was making her sound greedy and mean.
I am seriously at a loss.
This woman is fantastic but I have insulted her. She has not answered my last message and in light of my tendency to put my foot in my mouth I have refrained from messaging further.

This is a first for me, the few times I was honored with staying overtime with a working Lady it never went badly like this afterwards. I was lucky enough to become a Lady's lover once, so my past experience has rather made me ill prepared for this contingency.

Anyone have any insight to remedy this situation?

Ladies, what should one do under the circumstances to not make such an ass of myself?

When she allowed you to go overtime without asking you for extra or reminding you, did you tip her extra? Maybe she felt that you took advantage of her and considers you cheap, and was pissed off about that upon later reflection.

In my own experience, move on because you won't win her back or the argument unless you spend big $ assuming she will believe that you will.

 

[great bear]

Just be happy she did not fall asleep for 2 or 3 hours while she was with you.

 

[mynameisearl11]

If u are really really into her,then you should ask another terbite to book her for you. You show up at her door with flowers in one hand and a box of chocolate on the other:eyebrows:
Show her a full load of money for her one hour of service. But, leave after 1/2 hour. Saying something like you'd love to be with her but you afraid that u would screw up on the time again! After all that and she still refused to even see your face. Then, move on,bud. Can't help you there!

 

[Petzel]

If u are really really into her,then you should ask another terbite to book her for you. You show up at her door with flowers in one hand and a box of chocolate on the other:eyebrows:
Show her a full load of money for her one hour of service. But, leave after 1/2 hour. Saying something like you'd love to be with her but you afraid that u would screw up on the time again! After all that and she still refused to even see your face. Then, move on,bud. Can't help you there!

Hope you're joking because that's a terrible idea.

 

[xyconyx]

It's been the first time in Toronto that I find exactly what I like.
An almost unbelievably good Courtesan.

This to me is different than an SP, don't get me wrong I have found AMAZING SPs here.
Becky Goldmine is the GRAND savior, any time day or night, wee hours of the morning and I can go and get a mind spazming orgasm, nothing quite beats 3am head by such a cute slim Lady.
Asian Nicole is what I would fantasize about, I just lay on her bed/workbench and she makes me come, over and over again.
Crimson Grave is such a fantastic PSE, she moans and writhes and begs for more, she bends over backwards and could easily grace any porn medium.
Lady Raven works me over and over and I can't keep my mouth off of her gorgeous pussy.
Lady Ty is like a drug to me, and makes my mind roll from one extreme of consciousness to the other and back.

Now all of these Ladies are MARVELOUS, and I plan on gracing myself with their presence many more times.

HOWEVER
The Woman I insulted made me feel like I was wanted, warm and welcoming. I was floored by how she made me feel.
OBVIOUSLY I was just another client, but she was convincing.
Now, I didn't offer to tip her, yes my bad, but I figured in her line of work she would be fine with the direct approach of me saying

"my bad, I wasn't thinking, I had just had an incredible orgasm and my mind was not completely in it's full cognitive state"

When she got even more agitated about me offering to pay for the overage, I was at a loss.
Aren't I just another client?
I'm pretty sure I am, so what gives?

No idea, but the vast majority of you say move on.
For the life of me I want to, and yes there are GREAT SPs.

But she was my Unicorn, *sigh*
I'm reminded of a usually overlooked scene from one of my favorite movies "Fight Club"

As the protagonist looks upon all of his flaming worldly possessions laid out on the sidewalk having been blown out of his condo windows by an explosion he narrates:
"...I suppose these things happen."

Thanks everyone for your opinions, insights and advice.

Have a good evening

X

 

[xyconyx]

Just be happy she did not fall asleep for 2 or 3 hours while she was with you.

HAHAHAHAHAHA, good god man, did that happen to you?

That happened to me in South America, I went to a brothel at 2am, and the poor girl was dozing off and falling asleep, so I told her to sleep and I just did things to her.
Kind of nice actually.

 

[Dougal Short]

Sounds like a genuine first-class GFE.

LOL.. What I was thinking... Just like a real girlfriend. Your fucked if you do and you're fucked more if you don't.

 

[Vermeer27]

She realizes you're smitten and now she's setting some boundaries for you. She has you by the proverbial balls and she knows it. There are more mindfucks coming and probably a request for a large sum of money (a loan perhaps?) in your future. Walk away now and count yourself lucky.

 

[rama putri]

How pages on TERB does it take to say "dump her and move on"?

 

[cuttysark]

How pages on TERB does it take to say "dump her and move on"?

Two and counting?

 

[JessyTurner]

It's been the first time in Toronto that I find exactly what I like.
An almost unbelievably good Courtesan.

This to me is different than an SP, don't get me wrong I have found AMAZING SPs here.
Becky Goldmine is the GRAND savior, any time day or night, wee hours of the morning and I can go and get a mind spazming orgasm, nothing quite beats 3am head by such a cute slim Lady.
Asian Nicole is what I would fantasize about, I just lay on her bed/workbench and she makes me come, over and over again.
Crimson Grave is such a fantastic PSE, she moans and writhes and begs for more, she bends over backwards and could easily grace any porn medium.
Lady Raven works me over and over and I can't keep my mouth off of her gorgeous pussy.
Lady Ty is like a drug to me, and makes my mind roll from one extreme of consciousness to the other and back.

Now all of these Ladies are MARVELOUS, and I plan on gracing myself with their presence many more times.

HOWEVER
The Woman I insulted made me feel like I was wanted, warm and welcoming. I was floored by how she made me feel.
OBVIOUSLY I was just another client, but she was convincing.
Now, I didn't offer to tip her, yes my bad, but I figured in her line of work she would be fine with the direct approach of me saying

"my bad, I wasn't thinking, I had just had an incredible orgasm and my mind was not completely in it's full cognitive state"

When she got even more agitated about me offering to pay for the overage, I was at a loss.
Aren't I just another client?
I'm pretty sure I am, so what gives?

No idea, but the vast majority of you say move on.
For the life of me I want to, and yes there are GREAT SPs.

But she was my Unicorn, *sigh*
I'm reminded of a usually overlooked scene from one of my favorite movies "Fight Club"

As the protagonist looks upon all of his flaming worldly possessions laid out on the sidewalk having been blown out of his condo windows by an explosion he narrates:
"...I suppose these things happen."

Thanks everyone for your opinions, insights and advice.

Have a good evening

X

Ohhh my my heart bbreaks reading this...... you need to get over it trusttttt me

"When she got even more agitated about me offering to pay for the overage, I was at a loss.
Aren't I just another client?
I'm pretty sure I am, so what gives?"

I will say it again .... IT'S A GAME! she wants you to think she does not want your money :frusty:

 

[yolosohobby]

what are we talking about, a potential $100 slight? whether real or imagined? if the sp has been in the business more than a week, that would be no big deal, especially if the circumstances are as described.

any apology is best served up sincere, honest and without bullshit or possibility of misinterpretation. be clear. dont assume anything. and if she doesnt accept it, move on.

 

[DTECanada]

It's been the first time in Toronto that I find exactly what I like.
An almost unbelievably good Courtesan.

This to me is different than an SP, don't get me wrong I have found AMAZING SPs here.
Becky Goldmine is the GRAND savior, any time day or night, wee hours of the morning and I can go and get a mind spazming orgasm, nothing quite beats 3am head by such a cute slim Lady.
Asian Nicole is what I would fantasize about, I just lay on her bed/workbench and she makes me come, over and over again.
Crimson Grave is such a fantastic PSE, she moans and writhes and begs for more, she bends over backwards and could easily grace any porn medium.
Lady Raven works me over and over and I can't keep my mouth off of her gorgeous pussy.
Lady Ty is like a drug to me, and makes my mind roll from one extreme of consciousness to the other and back.

Now all of these Ladies are MARVELOUS, and I plan on gracing myself with their presence many more times.

HOWEVER
The Woman I insulted made me feel like I was wanted, warm and welcoming. I was floored by how she made me feel.
OBVIOUSLY I was just another client, but she was convincing.
Now, I didn't offer to tip her, yes my bad, but I figured in her line of work she would be fine with the direct approach of me saying

"my bad, I wasn't thinking, I had just had an incredible orgasm and my mind was not completely in it's full cognitive state"

When she got even more agitated about me offering to pay for the overage, I was at a loss.
Aren't I just another client?
I'm pretty sure I am, so what gives?

No idea, but the vast majority of you say move on.
For the life of me I want to, and yes there are GREAT SPs.

But she was my Unicorn, *sigh*
I'm reminded of a usually overlooked scene from one of my favorite movies "Fight Club"

As the protagonist looks upon all of his flaming worldly possessions laid out on the sidewalk having been blown out of his condo windows by an explosion he narrates:
"...I suppose these things happen."

Thanks everyone for your opinions, insights and advice.

Have a good evening

X

I can almost feel your pain. At least you know what caused the rift. There was one SP I saw multiple times and all of a sudden she stopped communicating. I have no idea what I might've done and asked that she tell me so that I wouldn't make the same mistake with another SP (if indeed I had made a mistake). No response. She wasn't my "unicorn" but she was awesome in many ways. The closest I'd come to forsaking other SPs. I think of her wistfully now and then but c'est la vie.
Have fun out there.

 

[guelph]

I can almost feel your pain. At least you know what caused the rift. There was one SP I saw multiple times and all of a sudden she stopped communicating. I have no idea what I might've done and asked that she tell me so that I wouldn't make the same mistake with another SP (if indeed I had made a mistake). No response. She wasn't my "unicorn" but she was awesome in many ways. The closest I'd come to forsaking other SPs. I think of her wistfully now and then but c'est la vie.
Have fun out there.

Did you meet my ex wife -- didn't know she changed careers