unintended insult to sp. how to apologize?

xyconyx

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This a repost from another place since I want as many different ideas as possible.

Recently had a strange thing happen.
.I saw this girl a couple of times for half an hour each, she casually mentions that I should opt for an hour next time.
So I do
But, I notice that we stayed like half an hour overtime (time flies when having fun). I figure it's fine since before she would nicely remind me my time was almost up which she didn't do this time.

So next time I call her up she's blunt and business like.**
You know how you can tell the difference when someone is being genuinely nice or just forcing themselves to?**

So I ask her if somethings wrong, it takes a bit of wordplay but finally she lets loose that I took advantage and that if I want more time next appointment I should book more time, and I don't respect her since I assume she has nothing better to do with her free time but provide service.
While I was taken aback by her indignation, I felt horrible.
I never wanted to make her feel bad, she is a wonderful woman.
So I apologized profusely, then it seems I made another mistake.I

I said that if she felt I had overstayed my time through malice or taken more of her than she had been willing to share then I would gladly pay for my thoughtlessness.

She took that as another insult, now I was making her sound greedy and mean.
I am seriously at a loss.
This woman is fantastic but I have insulted her. She has not answered my last message and in light of my tendency to put my foot in my mouth I have refrained from messaging further.

This is a first for me, the few times I was honored with staying overtime with a working Lady it never went badly like this afterwards. I was lucky enough to become a Lady's lover once, so my past experience has rather made me ill prepared for this contingency.

Anyone have any insight to remedy this situation?

Ladies, what should one do under the circumstances to not make such an ass of myself?
 

Peterson

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Sounds like a genuine first-class GFE.
First she says you should have booked more time, then she says she does not need your money.
 

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Seriously... if you need tiptoe around everything with her, it's time to move on. You pay so that you DON'T have to deal with this kind of drama. If you want that kind of bullshit, then just get a normal civvie girlfriend.
 

fmahovalich

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She sounds both insecure...and a bully.

I would say she has lost a customer.


Lose no sleep...She won't.
 

wazup

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I don`t think yer cut out for this hobby, tell her to fuck off and move on.
 

M_an_b

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I can relate and have had it happen more than once. I think you are upset about this because you may have more than the usual SP / client feelings.

Unfortunately you need to realize she probably sees only the business side.

You can apologize if it makes you feel better. But if she doesn't really accept it or the drama continues, probably best to move on.
 

simon482

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i am sorry if i offended you in some way, it sucks because we had fun together, i think it is time we move on, good luck to you now and the future.
 

JessyTurner

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I agree with all your posts that you should ditch her. If you went over the time that's because SHE wanted it to i find it it sneeky to let somebody go over time without telling them ahead of time they need to pay extra if they want to continue and expect them to pay. For her to get pissy about it after is silly. If she expected you to pay that day for the extra time and you didn't, she should take it as lesson learned. I can see that you would think it is just extra time you get with her because she is having a good time with you.

The fact that she gets pissy about it and you have to drag it out of her is too much drama. Then she says that you are making her sound greedy and mean is just something alot of women say so that you don't think she is greedy but in fact she is lol she is trying to turn the table on you and trying to make you feel bad. It's just a little game.

Just saying!
 

Moviefan-2

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I agree with the team. This sounds like way too much drama, and I think you're taking it too seriously.

Move on.
 

Butler1000

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There was. No insult. If she went overtime its on her.

Way too many sp's out there to worry about it.
 

DanJ

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Book an hour, finish in 45 minutes and ask for 50 bucks back and see how she feels about that. It's her responsibility to monitor the time. Maybe she doesn't want to admit she was actually having a good time with you and lost track of time (or didn't care what time it was). Too funny that she first feels insulted that you didn't compensate her for her extra time, and then feels insulted that you offered. As said above, you pay to not deal with that BS.
 

harryass

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perhaps she was in a bitchy mood or having a bad day when you called.

or not? Run and go spend your money elsewhere!! Don't bother with sending her another apology message or call. She doesn't get the value of repeat customers anyhow.
 

Mr Bret

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Based on my experience, misunderstandings are best dealt with in person. Text and e-mail exchanges seem to make the situation worse.
Been there, done that. Never again.
 

wazup

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Based on my experience, misunderstandings are best dealt with in person. Text and e-mail exchanges seem to make the situation worse.
Been there, done that. Never again.
lol..........this is awful advice.....she`s an escort, he`s a john, if it doesn`t work out, go their separate ways and never see or talk to each other for the rest of their lives.......The End.
 

CapitalGuy

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Seriously... if you need tiptoe around everything with her, it's time to move on. You pay so that you DON'T have to deal with this kind of drama. If you want that kind of bullshit, then just get a normal civvie girlfriend.
Bingo! Listen to this guy; he speaks with wisdom.
 
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