Been there, done that...
smtmtd1 said:
I myself would have the complete opposite problem. The action starts I will start to get aroused (especially if there is a lot of DFK) she will go to BJ and some DATY and when the main event comes around the "I was in the pool" syndrome happens. May Dr. Know can shed some light. Or do I just go out and get the blue pill?
Looked at a lot of info on potential causes, etc. things to look at:
Overweight
Diabetic (or headed in that direction)
High blood pressure
smoker
alcohol or drug use
General recommendations:
You mentioned the blue pill, but it's more to sustain what you have, not always much help for the situation you describe. That said, get it and use it if you can, unless you are in the very rare category of negative side effects. Skin flushing or occasional bluing of vision shouldn't really worry you, BTW.
Read up on herbals, stuff by Dr. James A. Duke (the Green Pharmacy, etc) should be available in any good library or on the net. Different strokes for different folks, something may work particularly well for you, or not - generally low risk to try if you use sense.
Ibuprophen (600 mg every 6 hours for a day or so beforehand) works well for me, but it's strictly YMMV from one person to another. Coenzyme Q10 is also recommended by some.
If you can't be in top physical shape (always an advantage, no matter what) good exercise the day or two beforehand can still help. So can testosterone supplements, though side effects are common and not an option if you are high risk for prostate cancer. Topical (a gel you rub on your skin) is best since the dose is gradual. Like the blue pill, it's perscription only.
If you have a Dr. you trust at all, seek advice (face to face, not on the net) on this. There are specialists but they are expensive, wouldn't recommend it unless your regular Dr. does.
A period of abstinence beforehand will almost always increase your chances. Make sure you get enough sleep and save recreational drugs (including alcohol and cigarettes) for after.
Good luck, nothing worse than aborting just prior to liftoff.
