TORONTO Hallowe'en PARTY

[Svend]

I didn't find that any woman at the party was unapproachable, I'm a stranger to most of them but they all had time to flirt or chat a bit with me.
Friday night is a busy night for them to take time out of their schedule and I appreciated that they made the effort to show up and have a good time.

 

[Low Rider]

4Play Ladies will be missed

Unfortunately I didn't get to make it to this year's Halloween Party, but I have had the pleasure of partying with Cindy and her lovely 4Play Ladies several times last year and I had a blast each and every time. There were times when the ladies were sticking to each other, but I never took it personally and tried a few times to make small talk and by the end of the evening we would be laughing and talking like old High School friends. I have always appreciated Cindy's dedication to attend these events and bring her ladies out, and I for one will miss seeing all of them at any future events. I do hope that Cindy will reconsider, but I can understand her position after all that has been said here.

 

[frankcastle]

Why are people disappointed that they didn't get any or enough time with the girls. Do you expect that at any other type of party? It's up to you to make the most of any situation.

On a side note I'd imagine that for the women it's part pleasure and part business...... the pleasure being hanging out with friends in the biz or clients and the biz part being meetin new clients.

As for "whore" guy well I think it's safe to say that people can sense that type of attitude.

 

[Viewer]

I have a few of thoughts swirling around my head on this....

First, Cindy, I'm truly sorry to hear you and your girls won't be coming (as a team, anyway) to any more parties. It's a loss.

It seems to me that a great deal of what has been expressed in this thread springs from conflicting expectations.

Many male party attendees see the ladies' presence as a chance for them (the ladies) to mingle and market, which would have entailed, well, mingling with the guys. These people were anticipating that. And I would have guessed this could have the potential impact of increasing business (?).

From your response, Cindy, it appears you and your gals came to the party with a different expectation, and one no less valid. You were expecting a chance to relax, hang out with each other, have some drinks, and blow some steam off dancing. Much like going out to a club.

Fair enough, except that the two sets of expectations don't jive with each other. The guys who wanted more interaction from the 4Play ladies ended up feeling ignored or even rebuffed, and the 4Play ladies ended up feeling nagged and hit upon. (Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong here.)

I don't know that there is a resolution to the conflict, but I sincerely hope you'll rethink your decision and try again for the Christmas party.

On a personal note, I did dance up on the stage for a while and tried to "dance in" with Anabella and Abbie, but for whatever reason, my impression was that they weren't comfortable (was it my Hugh Hefner bathrobe?) and turned away from me. If the scenario had been slightly different, and they'd danced interactively with me a little, it would have been natural for me to offer a drink and a chance to sit together and chat. I didn't spend much time in the grotto, so the only time I saw them was on the stage.

As for 'kissing the SPs', that was one poster's comment, and I very much doubt anyone else on the thread will support that expectation.

-Viewer

 

[Viewer]

And what about the Ladies & Hobbyists who attended the Toronto Halloween party! Are we invited too?

Bella, you missed the Toronto party, so you have to come to the Hamilton one! *wink*

Catherine, imagine being at a party where you have no responsibilities but to yourself! How can you say no? *big smile*

I hope you both decide to come. A round or two for each of you will be on me.

-V

 

[canbreathethroughearsmale]

I didn't find that any woman at the party was unapproachable, I'm a stranger to most of them but they all had time to flirt or chat a bit with me.
Friday night is a busy night for them to take time out of their schedule and I appreciated that they made the effort to show up and have a good time.

I agree with Svend. I'm going out to the party to have a good time with people on the board, and I think it's fabulous that people like Bella, Catherine and others go out of there way to throw these parties. They are taking up there time to throw them and here we are slinging dirt. This isn't going to help get people to come out. I remember after seeing some parties going on last year and then not seeing any come for a long time after that I was so happy to see someone coming forward to run these. Now I'm just hoping that don't stop from people complaining.

 

[tboy]

CBTHEM, I wouldn't go so far as to say anyone is "slinging dirt"....we're just commenting on what we liked and disliked about the event...in effect, reviewing it lol

Anyway, viewer? You're a much better writer than I am, and probably a bit more perceptive too. You put it perfectly in a few words whilst I rambled on all about the place

 

[Rockslinger]

Hope this is not too crazy an idea. Maybe, the agencies can take some of their advertising dollars and throw a party (they can still charge a door fee) where they can showcase their talents. This way the guys and ladies can mingle in a social setting.

I went to a party last year held in an SC and I had a great time. I chatted at length with an SP and voluntarily "gave her up" when I noticed the long line-up of guys behind me waiting their turn to talk to her. The SC venue also gave me the chance to watch the stage show and talk to some of the dancers performing at the club.

 

[tboy]

That's a good idea too Rock, not that there was anything wrong with cat's and Bella's idea....(LOL trying to be politically correct ya know...

 

[Bella6969]

Thanks to everyone for the well wishes, i feel so much better , with all this rest ive been having since thursday ,

MVP: I would really like to attend the party in Hamilton ,If i can arrange a ride i will be there .... I still need to celebrate halloween to lol , thanks for the invite hun, Im sure we will have many more mutal invies in the future *wink*

CINDY4PLAY ... babe , you showed up with your ladies, and from the feed back i got you and your Ladies were and are great , dont let this kinda stuff ruin what you or they enjoy ,,,, I can honestly say out of the agencies that said they would attend, it was 4PLAY that stepped up to bat . Thanks again babe*

I am making sure i make it up to all for me missing the party
I will be above and beyond to make sure everyone has a blast at XMAS PARTY

Everyone else lol... when or if you have ideas or suggestions for the parties
always feel free to email me at sweetbadgirlbella@hotmail.com , or pm me here .... The only way these parties will succed is if ppl feel free to let me know what kinds of things they like,, These parties are here to make all happy , and thats what i aim to do .

Thanks again to CAT for everything you did for the party in my absence ,
You are a Gem*

 

[Mia.Colpa]

CINDY4PLAY ... babe , you showed up with your ladies, and from the feed back i got you and your Ladies were and are great , dont let this kinda stuff ruin what you or they enjoy ,,,, I can honestly say out of the agencies that said they would attend, it was 4PLAY that stepped up to bat . Thanks again babe*

Excellent point and absolutely true. Cindy never lets you down with these type of events. If she says she's coming, she doesn't disappoint. I find her to be the most reliable and supportive of any agencies. We should be thanking her for her support, not criticizing her for her efforts.

 

[tboy]

Sorry, but at no time did anyone criticize anyone. We just made comments as to what we'd like to see at these things. Hell, even Bella herself asked for our comments or suggestions on how to make them better.......

 

[baby_blue]

I do like to say that I totally agree with Mr zorro. I witnessed and observed everything that happened to him on stage with the girls. I just felt that it was not right and kind of felt for the guy. So that was why I just had to expressed what I saw.
There were guys at the party waited like 2 hours or more until the girls arrived at the party. Except Catherina was there throughout the party. Guys waiting for hours then girls brushing them off. So you can see why some guys were a little uptight.
I feel that I have the duty to report what I see. I am not here to make anyone feel bad. The facts can speak for itself.
This board is to report the facts and be objective as possible. This review board is for the hobs..and if the sp wants to creat their own review board someone can do so. I do admit it do be very interesting though lol. I am sure lots of sp gossip about us too.
If kissing is a ymmv then why not just a friendly hug?

At least I heard zorro won 20 dollar at the party lol.

 

[baby_blue]

I have been reading Mia colp's posting for the last couple of days ..and to be honest with you. .. It just seems to me that he is being a suck up ..and a butt kisser or he is trying to police this board.

People are here to express their views and opinions...and in many cases some reviews are harsh. Some people cant express themselves as well as others. Some people sometimes have a bad day and like to vent just to make them feel better. When people write their thoughts down it does help them to release their anger and clear their mind. Now, having said all this, the only time I do condamn a person for writing a review on this board if it involve:
1) defamation
2) slander
3) libel

If the person write an honest review and being true to what he observes and felt then he shouldnt be condemned or criticized.

Last but not less, a bad review could be a good review as well. if you take the bad you can learn from it so you can make it better. If everything was so rosey in this board then what is the point of having this review board anyway? What do you think if all the news media report all the good things and never report the bad or negative news? There are always crime and murders what happen if the media decided not to report those incidents? ..they just show people helping old lady being helped across the street and cats being saved every day.

Mia colp I am sure you are a nice guy but let people report/write their reviews ..stop coming to defend the sp ..unless the review involves slander/defamation/libel ..or just plain rude.

 

[tboy]

...At least I heard zorro won 20 dollar at the party lol.

yeah, and a Durex cock ring too (but the damn thing only lasts 20 minutes...oh wait, I only last 20 minutes too...DOH ) lol

Z

 

[Bella6969]

I'm very sure someone can arrange ride to the party for you

Im working on it babe*wink*
really hope to be there , but not in costume lol , just Bella lol