Sorry you wont' be coming to anymore parties cindy, but really, isn't the point of going to these parties is to party with the gang? If you wanted to just party amongst yourselves then by all means, gather up the gang and hit a club, or ?? whatever...As for guys asking the ladies to dance, well, I can see why not more do, when you do actually ask, and then you're virtually ignored.
I work in construction, and hang with guys all day everyday and once in a while I want to hang with some beautiful ladies. I thought these terb parties were a great place to do that, to see ladies I've seen before in a social environment, to see and meet some new faces, etc etc etc but to use your example of a regular club "if I wanted to be brushed off" I too would go to a regular club...
As I stated b4, once or twice, I went to the very first and second terb parties at SC's, they were great, whether any sps or mps showed up or not, there was always plenty to do, then the last one I went to was at a regular club, and with 50 guys and 3 women, ummm thanks but no thanks.
If I had the organizational skills I'd organize something like this: Book your favourite past or future sp for an hour +/- get a gang of terbites together doing the same thing, then all hit a club. That way at least you'd a) make some money (at least pay for your time "off" and maybe a drink or two and b) be out in a social environment c) meet some new potential customers in a safe and fun atmosphere (out of the bedroom).
BTW: I for one wasn't judging you, I was just expressing my opinions and or concerns. I know the ladies often feel that they can't do enough to satisfy everyone all the time.
While I'm not an sp, I can understand how you and your ladies must feel about "having" to hang out with/pay attention to people you don't like or care for. Believe me in all my various businesses I've had to have countless dinners, buy thousands of drinks, take out on the town numerous clients/potential clients that I wouldn't normally give the time of day to. But in the end, all that work paid off in some form or another...
Anyhow, was great meeting you and the ladies as briefly as I was able and again, sorry you've taken the comments expressed here the way you did...
Peace Out!