That sounds a little naïve.That is basically my question as well. What is the purpose? What does it accomplish?
But the responses have given me some ideas. I get the macho thing, I didn't think about the thank you aspect and I can admit that while low in probability it does happen where women do respond on a connection happens.
Side note: I do have to ask, did you really feel the need to make note that I personally said I looked like shit? Meaning, did you feel I was going to attack you for the comments if you didn't remind me they were my words? I would like to try and change some of my posting behaviour if I think it will help explain myself better to others. I find Or I think anyway, that I am misunderstood sometimes. I don't want people to feel they have to do or say something to prevent backlash. Sorry to put you on the spot, but this is the perfect chance for me to ask. PM if you can please. Thanks.
Thanks! It is nice to know some do get me. LOL.
I know some women just can't or don't want to handle the general negative tone that comes across from some members. Also, this is a business for most and they can't risk a business opportunity on personal opinion. I don't have to worry about that and I never worry about the haters period. That is something that is not worth anyone's time.
I think the great majority of men don't condone this stuff either, but to expect everyone to be perfectly rational and deliberate
when it comes to physical or sexual attraction sounds naïve coming from someone who should realize the full range of masculine
responses.