Obviously keep doing what works best for you . Enjoy.That is totally acceptable. I have no problem with someone not seeing me. It doesn’t hurt me feelings or change my opinion on my screening. You just move on to someone else. No biggie.
But to say I have no idea what I’m doing in assessing people is completely untrue and quite insulting actually.
I see clients in my personal private home. I want to make sure you are a real person, a safe person before bringing you here. So I want an SP reference. I don’t think that is out of line to ask considering where I am hosting you.
If you have a problem asking your regulars to give you a reference, no worries. We won’t see each other. But I’m not interested in seeing someone who insults me either so it is a win win.
I am not saying or implying you have something to malicious to hide because you can’t/won’t get a regular’s reference. I’m not making any assumptions leading to insults about you. I’m saying, have fun with your regulars and I hope you enjoy the new ladies you meet.
See the difference?
BTW - I have been doing this 2014. I have not had a single bad date and only two time wasters in all those years. I feel my screening WORKS FOR ME and shows me that I can assess people very well with my protocols, considering I don’t see many one-timers either. The majority become regulars.
I truly wish all the others good luck and happy hobbying. Just wish the same would be given to me in return.
PS - rereading this, it may come across as bitchy but really it is not. I swear LOL.
To screen or not to screen..
- Thread starter lunaluxx
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I understand why some escorts have strick screening protocols. I heard of many stories from escorts who seen clients, even some on review boards, who can get really aggressive, assault them, and even robbery in a hotel, agency, condo, or apartment. They implement screening to make sure if anything does occur they have the proper information to file and launch an investigation with the proper police department to hopefully get that person charged.
Screening is mainly for thier safety.
I will never understand why some clients are assholes towards service providers. End of day, if you are not okay with giving your personail information there are 100's of other service providers who do not screen. Go see one of them. Problem solved.
Screening is mainly for thier safety.
I will never understand why some clients are assholes towards service providers. End of day, if you are not okay with giving your personail information there are 100's of other service providers who do not screen. Go see one of them. Problem solved.
The way I see it, if you are providing a service that blurs the lines between relationship and transaction (Travelling, Dinner, Drinks, Overnight, etc) it's understandable to want to Screen/ID the client before hand.
If you are providing a 30 minute, in-out hotel type service, It makes no sense for me as a customer to provide you with personal info. It would be foolish if I did. I'm ok with a twitter handle, but I don't have one. lol
If you are scrapping the bottom of the barrel, It's something you will have to prepare for.
If you are providing a 30 minute, in-out hotel type service, It makes no sense for me as a customer to provide you with personal info. It would be foolish if I did. I'm ok with a twitter handle, but I don't have one. lol
If you are scrapping the bottom of the barrel, It's something you will have to prepare for.
Well I am sure from the 100's of escorts in Ontario on different platforms, I am 100% sure you can find one to your liking in rates, menu, and looks who will not screen or question you at all for a 30 min appointment.I see both points of view. I understand why some escorts screen. It mainly for safety reasons like I stated in my other post above. If it works for her and if she happy end of day, why do we care if she wants to screen a client who chooses to see her and is willing to follow her rules....Why bite her head off for her business, her body, her rules?? Just simply move on and find other escort.
Then I understand why some clients perfer not to give thier real information out. It is the discression of fear of thier wife finding out, girlfriend finding out, love ones finding out, job finding out or getting charged from police of soliciting. I understand end of day guys just want to pop a nut with a pretty girl and move on. But like I said many who do not screen who are such as lovely.
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I see both sides as well which is why I don’t begrudge any man who says no to my screening. You have to do what is best for you. Just as I have too.
I see both points of view. I understand why some escorts screen. It mainly for safety reasons like I stated in my other post above. If it works for her and if she happy end of day, why do we care if she wants to screen a client who chooses to see her and is willing to follow her rules....Why bite her head off for her business, her body, her rules?? Just simply move on and find other escort.
Then I understand why some clients perfer not to give thier real information out. It is the discression of fear of thier wife finding out, girlfriend finding out, love ones finding out, job finding out or getting charged from police of soliciting. I understand end of day guys just want to get pop a nut and move on. I see both sides.
I just hope that they are as respectful of my choice to screen as I am of their need not to be able to.
This is one of those - one can see both sides.
The safety aspect I can understand is paramount.
I’ve never provided more than beyond polite respectful texts - I have never booked 1/2 hour appointments. I still can’t get my head around what some of these guys claim happens within 1/2 hour - with a shower - undressed / dressed and out the door with a few mins to spare - I call total BS
. But I digress,
I have mentioned a number of the Ladies I have seen in the past. Where a deposit is required - I offer to meet day before or days before and drop off - I pay full in advance - they are usually very pleasantly surprised. I aim to be a Gentleman and bring wine or ??? I ask / offer.
I think bottom line if your not a DICKHEAD asking all sorts of stupid ass “do you this , do you do that” etc. all for your 1/2 hour appointment (hell I don’t ask any “service questions” ). I read reviews and if it gels when I see her “ymmv” excellent - no chemistry I don’t book again - why would I put her through it?
The safety aspect I can understand is paramount.
I’ve never provided more than beyond polite respectful texts - I have never booked 1/2 hour appointments. I still can’t get my head around what some of these guys claim happens within 1/2 hour - with a shower - undressed / dressed and out the door with a few mins to spare - I call total BS
. But I digress, I have mentioned a number of the Ladies I have seen in the past. Where a deposit is required - I offer to meet day before or days before and drop off - I pay full in advance - they are usually very pleasantly surprised. I aim to be a Gentleman and bring wine or ??? I ask / offer.
I think bottom line if your not a DICKHEAD asking all sorts of stupid ass “do you this , do you do that” etc. all for your 1/2 hour appointment (hell I don’t ask any “service questions” ). I read reviews and if it gels when I see her “ymmv” excellent - no chemistry I don’t book again - why would I put her through it?
Ha ha ha , noop - never. I do apologize, I was remiss by not mentioning my view on that - while I get the whole “safety” thing. They work with fake numbers / names etc. So why would I share that info about myself. That does go both ways for sure to me anyway.
With a well reviewed Lady - I have never had any issue providing deposit or pay in full prior.
