Has any one ever become good friends with an sp and then felt guilty about paying for her time? I mean you have her home phone number, you've been by her house, you e-mail all the time and all of a sudden you get a chance to see her as an sp and you feel funny about it? I may be getting a chance to do this soon and I think I might feel weird about it. Any thoughts?
To good of friends to pay anymore?
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You might feel guilty but I think she will still expect you to pay and happily accept your money. 
If she's getting into the business, don't book her, or you can kiss the friendship goodbye.lockwing said:
Booking someone who was a friend before they went into the business would be the ultimate insult in both directions. You're saying her friendship means nothing and has no future, you just want a piece of what she's got. Her accepting the booking should tell you how much of a future your friendship had before you threw it away.
When it happens by accident, even with a casual acquaintance, I think you'll find the situation a bit more unnerving than you'd expect. (OTOH, maybe some people would find it a turn-on.)
If you met her as an SP, don't forget the role-playing/actress aspect of the business before you presume your "friendship" means as much as you think.
Put it this way: if you didn't get a celebratory "free" session for your birthday, new years, or some other such event, you still need to keep paying and are putting too much stock in the relationship.
I was seeing an agency girl on the side over a year ago and we were getting quite close. One evening we had gone out to play pool and then come back to my place. I hadn't had the chance to pick up cash that night so I couldn't pay her on the spot.
The next time we hooked up she told me she felt better that I hadn't paid her and so no money was exchanged after that. I don't recall feeling guilty though.
The next time we hooked up she told me she felt better that I hadn't paid her and so no money was exchanged after that. I don't recall feeling guilty though.
Similar situation...
I had a similar situation with a dancer years ago. This dancer was my 'regular' for a couple of months. I was seeing her 3 or 4 times a week. One night she is sitting at my table chatting etc... and then pops the question; "So, any dances tonight" (in her wonderful, sexy French accent) I said to her that of late I was feeling more like a friend to her then a customer and really felt uncomfortable paying a 'friend' money to show me her body. I also expressed an interest in meeting her outside the club some day. Her retort was "So what you do for lunch tomorrow?" "I know a good place in Hull, they have great brunch, you pick me up 11 O'clock OK?"
Long story short.. We ended up 'dating' for about 6 months. She is the one who introduced me to the driving biz. I became a driver for about 2.5 years. Changed my whole life. lmao.
Don't know if this helps... but thanks for the memories.
I had a similar situation with a dancer years ago. This dancer was my 'regular' for a couple of months. I was seeing her 3 or 4 times a week. One night she is sitting at my table chatting etc... and then pops the question; "So, any dances tonight" (in her wonderful, sexy French accent) I said to her that of late I was feeling more like a friend to her then a customer and really felt uncomfortable paying a 'friend' money to show me her body. I also expressed an interest in meeting her outside the club some day. Her retort was "So what you do for lunch tomorrow?" "I know a good place in Hull, they have great brunch, you pick me up 11 O'clock OK?"
Long story short.. We ended up 'dating' for about 6 months. She is the one who introduced me to the driving biz. I became a driver for about 2.5 years. Changed my whole life. lmao.
Don't know if this helps... but thanks for the memories.
