TO ALL SERVICE PROVIDERS!

[Josephine]

Ages ago when I was away on business, I had a girl over, we had a great time and she left. Then I look at the bed, and there were streaks of orangey, brown all over my white sheets. From the self tanner she had on her skin. The problem was, I was hopefully going to have someone else over later. I made a coffee, and chucked it on the sheets and called housekeeping for new bedding.

I did that too many times lol. Energetic drinks. Anything goes

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I will personally try to accommodate but I'm not going to NEVER wear those things to accommodate a cheater. I would prefer if my clients were single and unattached. I sleep better at night knowing I had fun with someone who wasn't cheating on someone.

I really don't appreciate that the bulk of my clients are cheaters and I don't like when they disclose that.

You could just as easily tell them you're single. It's probably better if you don't disclose that you're married because some people will get angry with with you and purposely leave underwear behind or something to let your partner know she was there. Sometimes it's totally by mistake, and sometimes it's malicious. I knew a woman who used to do this (shes not an escort anymore). She would leave condom wrappers and underwear behind or leave a lipstick print somewhere the wife would find it.

Someone actually accused me of doing this, but they hired so many prostitutes they lost track of who was at their house. Their partner caught them because an escort deliberately stuck a used condom and wrapper outside of the garbage. It was in a place that would not be seen unless you were really cleaning down there. Anyway, he confronts me and tells me to be more careful next time (I'm always carful and i'll even bring the garbage with me in some instances. I bring mini garbage bags)
Anyway, not only did this person disclose that they were cheating on a long term partner, they let me know i was not the only one they had in their house. The condom did not belong to me. I only have one brand because of allergy and this condom would have sent me to the hospital. I explained that it wasn't mine, but he had already made up his mind about it lol. He was just a constant bullsh*tter. He had something negative to say about every girl he saw. I'm sure he stopped seeing me as a result of this condom fiasco, but then continued to see the person that left the condom there in the first place the man described to me where it was left and it was in such a strange location that this woman left it there to be found and it was found. I walked away from that situation grateful to be able to just wash my hands of that person and his little circus.

Men, for some reason, forget that we're women and we don't like cheaters and we don't like dishonesty and we get jealous.

It's so funny when a guy will talk to an escort and then be confused why she got angry. They will disclose sleeping with multiple escorts and cheating on a spouse and then ask a girl for a recommendation for another escort. They forget they're talking to women.

It's so funny watching them put their own foot in their mouth. Sometimes they ask me for advice, and they ask me what they did wrong, and it's so clear to me what happened and they're totally oblivious.

You guys might all want to pretend that we don't care and that everyone wants to protect your secret, but we are at our very basic foundation WOMEN before anything else. It bothers us even if we don't say it. An escort a hundred percent isn't going to tell you the truth because that's not what you want to hear.

Your best bet is to simply ask that they not wear those things or if they can accommodate you DO NOT say you're married. Tell them you have sensitive skin and an allergy to perfumes.

Men are way too comfortable admitting to WOMEN they're cheating on a WOMAN like we get off on it. It's hard listening to that and going back to our normal relationships and understanding that men do this all the time.

In fact, there's an entire forum about it

An escort doesn't owe you anything. Some might even prefer if someone like you did not reach out to them. I personally have a "not my circus, not my monkeys" policy. I also have a "don't ask, don't tell".

I don't want to know, it's none of my business.

I'm also not going to live my life according to accommodate people cheating on their spouses. Sorry not sorry.

I like money, but I also like being able to sleep at night with the clean conscience.

Lots of people don't care, and that's great for them.I'm happy for them. Lots of people do, and i'm not the vindictive type but I have spoken to people that will go out of their way to make sure the wife knows.

It's pretty bold to assume that everyone is comfortable with your situation. Most people have the understanding that they're mostly seeing married men, but some people don't.

What I personally like about doing outcalls only is that the bulk of the people that I see are single. I still see married people. I don't want to know that they're married, but they usually want to tell me. It's not my job to figure out their marriage i just tell myself I'm "there to get paid" and I move on.

To be clear, I am not talking about myself. I don't care what anyone is doing. I don't like it, but I don't really care that much. If I don't do it, someone else is going to. I can only have control over my own life and as long as things are good for me at home i don't care who else's home is having problems.

If my house isn't on fire, I don't care if yours is and I say that as respectfully as possible. I don't care what goes on in your life, it doesn't affect me personally. I may or may not accommodate a cheater I guess it just depends on my mood

 

[Jenesis]

key word is “option.” I don’t disagree with offering scentless as an option. I disagree with careless dudes getting angry and imposing their needs on everyone else. Scentless should not be the default. It should be an option requested for. Let the ladies doll themselves up however they want by default.

Some one gets it.

I believe myself to be a considerate companion. I have two soaps in the bathroom and I tell every guy to use the blue one because it doesn't smell like the one I personally like. I put no pet allergies in my ads for crying out loud. I offer multiple different body washes for clients to choose from. All standard brands that most guys would be using anyways, I don't wear anything scented accept deodorant. I use mild laundry detergent, nothing like Gain that you can smell a mile away.

I personally do what the OP suggests as my personal standard but that is not industry standard and I certainly don't expect other SPs to be like me.

Non-scented is an option request. Not a standard. Period. It is the clients responsibility to ask.

 

[Jenesis]

I will personally try to accommodate but I'm not going to NEVER wear those things to accommodate a cheater. I would prefer if my clients were single and unattached. I sleep better at night knowing I had fun with someone who wasn't cheating on someone.

I really don't appreciate that the bulk of my clients are cheaters and I don't like when they disclose that.

You could just as easily tell them you're single. It's probably better if you don't disclose that you're married because some people will get angry with with you and purposely leave underwear behind or something to let your partner know she was there. Sometimes it's totally by mistake, and sometimes it's malicious. I knew a woman who used to do this (shes not an escort anymore). She would leave condom wrappers and underwear behind or leave a lipstick print somewhere the wife would find it.

Someone actually accused me of doing this, but they hired so many prostitutes they lost track of who was at their house. Their partner caught them because an escort deliberately stuck a used condom and wrapper outside of the garbage. It was in a place that would not be seen unless you were really cleaning down there. Anyway, he confronts me and tells me to be more careful next time (I'm always carful and i'll even bring the garbage with me in some instances. I bring mini garbage bags)
Anyway, not only did this person disclose that they were cheating on a long term partner, they let me know i was not the only one they had in their house. The condom did not belong to me. I only have one brand because of allergy and this condom would have sent me to the hospital. I explained that it wasn't mine, but he had already made up his mind about it lol. He was just a constant bullsh*tter. He had something negative to say about every girl he saw. I'm sure he stopped seeing me as a result of this condom fiasco, but then continued to see the person that left the condom there in the first place the man described to me where it was left and it was in such a strange location that this woman left it there to be found and it was found. I walked away from that situation grateful to be able to just wash my hands of that person and his little circus.

Men, for some reason, forget that we're women and we don't like cheaters and we don't like dishonesty and we get jealous.

It's so funny when a guy will talk to an escort and then be confused why she got angry. They will disclose sleeping with multiple escorts and cheating on a spouse and then ask a girl for a recommendation for another escort. They forget they're talking to women.

It's so funny watching them put their own foot in their mouth. Sometimes they ask me for advice, and they ask me what they did wrong, and it's so clear to me what happened and they're totally oblivious.

You guys might all want to pretend that we don't care and that everyone wants to protect your secret, but we are at our very basic foundation WOMEN before anything else. It bothers us even if we don't say it. An escort a hundred percent isn't going to tell you the truth because that's not what you want to hear.

Your best bet is to simply ask that they not wear those things or if they can accommodate you DO NOT say you're married. Tell them you have sensitive skin and an allergy to perfumes.

Men are way too comfortable admitting to WOMEN they're cheating on a WOMAN like we get off on it. It's hard listening to that and going back to our normal relationships and understanding that men do this all the time.

In fact, there's an entire forum about it

An escort doesn't owe you anything. Some might even prefer if someone like you did not reach out to them. I personally have a "not my circus, not my monkeys" policy. I also have a "don't ask, don't tell".

I don't want to know, it's none of my business.

I'm also not going to live my life according to accommodate people cheating on their spouses. Sorry not sorry.

I like money, but I also like being able to sleep at night with the clean conscience.

Lots of people don't care, and that's great for them.I'm happy for them. Lots of people do, and i'm not the vindictive type but I have spoken to people that will go out of their way to make sure the wife knows.

It's pretty bold to assume that everyone is comfortable with your situation. Most people have the understanding that they're mostly seeing married men, but some people don't.

What I personally like about doing outcalls only is that the bulk of the people that I see are single. I still see married people. I don't want to know that they're married, but they usually want to tell me. It's not my job to figure out their marriage i just tell myself I'm "there to get paid" and I move on.

To be clear, I am not talking about myself. I don't care what anyone is doing. I don't like it, but I don't really care that much. If I don't do it, someone else is going to. I can only have control over my own life and as long as things are good for me at home i don't care who else's home is having problems.

If my house isn't on fire, I don't care if yours is

Wow - you sure took that to a whole other level.

 

[Callmerey]

I personally would prefer perfumes or deodorant or even body mist over natural body odour. I have experienced that when you see a provider, even though she has already taken shower, during the session if it gets steamy and hot, she would start sweating and those sweat glands smell really bad. It’s not her fault in any way but it just happens or even if the room temperature is not right.

 

[massman]

I did that too many times lol. Energetic drinks. Anything goes

Energy drinks like red bull have a strong distinct smell. Almost as good as gas. And likely safer.

 

[Josephine]

Energy drinks like red bull have a strong distinct smell. Almost as good as gas. And likely safer.

And then she'll ask you at which after hour you went

 

[massman]

Some one gets it.

I believe myself to be a considerate companion. I have two soaps in the bathroom and I tell every guy to use the blue one because it doesn't smell like the one I personally like. I put no pet allergies in my ads for crying out loud. I offer multiple different body washes for clients to choose from. All standard brands that most guys would be using anyways, I don't wear anything scented accept deodorant. I use mild laundry detergent, nothing like Gain that you can smell a mile away.

I personally do what the OP suggests as my personal standard but that is not industry standard and I certainly don't expect other SPs to be like me.

Non-scented is an option request. Not a standard. Period. It is the clients responsibility to ask.

It’s not only guys who have partners, many (most) guys see an escort and have somewhere else to go, back to work, meet with friends, clients, family etc after an appointment (especially a daytime one). Personally I’d prefer less scent as the default, as I think discretion is a huge part of this industry? but like you say, it’s my responsibility to look after my own situation and ask for it if it is a big problem. Tho my opinion is also influenced by the fact that the hottest scent in a woman for me is just simply freshly clean, especially just out of the shower. Never been a big perfume/ scent guy.

 

[massman]

I will personally try to accommodate but I'm not going to NEVER wear those things to accommodate a cheater. I would prefer if my clients were single and unattached. I sleep better at night knowing I had fun with someone who wasn't cheating on someone.

I really don't appreciate that the bulk of my clients are cheaters and I don't like when they disclose that.

You could just as easily tell them you're single. It's probably better if you don't disclose that you're married because some people will get angry with with you and purposely leave underwear behind or something to let your partner know she was there. Sometimes it's totally by mistake, and sometimes it's malicious. I knew a woman who used to do this (shes not an escort anymore). She would leave condom wrappers and underwear behind or leave a lipstick print somewhere the wife would find it.

Someone actually accused me of doing this, but they hired so many prostitutes they lost track of who was at their house. Their partner caught them because an escort deliberately stuck a used condom and wrapper outside of the garbage. It was in a place that would not be seen unless you were really cleaning down there. Anyway, he confronts me and tells me to be more careful next time (I'm always carful and i'll even bring the garbage with me in some instances. I bring mini garbage bags)
Anyway, not only did this person disclose that they were cheating on a long term partner, they let me know i was not the only one they had in their house. The condom did not belong to me. I only have one brand because of allergy and this condom would have sent me to the hospital. I explained that it wasn't mine, but he had already made up his mind about it lol. He was just a constant bullsh*tter. He had something negative to say about every girl he saw. I'm sure he stopped seeing me as a result of this condom fiasco, but then continued to see the person that left the condom there in the first place the man described to me where it was left and it was in such a strange location that this woman left it there to be found and it was found. I walked away from that situation grateful to be able to just wash my hands of that person and his little circus.

Men, for some reason, forget that we're women and we don't like cheaters and we don't like dishonesty and we get jealous.

It's so funny when a guy will talk to an escort and then be confused why she got angry. They will disclose sleeping with multiple escorts and cheating on a spouse and then ask a girl for a recommendation for another escort. They forget they're talking to women.

It's so funny watching them put their own foot in their mouth. Sometimes they ask me for advice, and they ask me what they did wrong, and it's so clear to me what happened and they're totally oblivious.

You guys might all want to pretend that we don't care and that everyone wants to protect your secret, but we are at our very basic foundation WOMEN before anything else. It bothers us even if we don't say it. An escort a hundred percent isn't going to tell you the truth because that's not what you want to hear.

Your best bet is to simply ask that they not wear those things or if they can accommodate you DO NOT say you're married. Tell them you have sensitive skin and an allergy to perfumes.

Men are way too comfortable admitting to WOMEN they're cheating on a WOMAN like we get off on it. It's hard listening to that and going back to our normal relationships and understanding that men do this all the time.

In fact, there's an entire forum about it

An escort doesn't owe you anything. Some might even prefer if someone like you did not reach out to them. I personally have a "not my circus, not my monkeys" policy. I also have a "don't ask, don't tell".

I don't want to know, it's none of my business.

I'm also not going to live my life according to accommodate people cheating on their spouses. Sorry not sorry.

I like money, but I also like being able to sleep at night with the clean conscience.

Lots of people don't care, and that's great for them.I'm happy for them. Lots of people do, and i'm not the vindictive type but I have spoken to people that will go out of their way to make sure the wife knows.

It's pretty bold to assume that everyone is comfortable with your situation. Most people have the understanding that they're mostly seeing married men, but some people don't.

What I personally like about doing outcalls only is that the bulk of the people that I see are single. I still see married people. I don't want to know that they're married, but they usually want to tell me. It's not my job to figure out their marriage i just tell myself I'm "there to get paid" and I move on.

To be clear, I am not talking about myself. I don't care what anyone is doing. I don't like it, but I don't really care that much. If I don't do it, someone else is going to. I can only have control over my own life and as long as things are good for me at home i don't care who else's home is having problems.

If my house isn't on fire, I don't care if yours is and I say that as respectfully as possible. I don't care what goes on in your life, it doesn't affect me personally. I may or may not accommodate a cheater I guess it just depends on my mood

I imagine that this is a challenging point of view to have working in this business. Many polls here on TERB over the years have shown that at least 50% of guys here are married / attached etc.

 

[massman]

I did that too many times lol. Energetic drinks. Anything goes

It also is a good tactic when a girl squirts like a firehose on your hotel bed. Happened to me once, and it was hot, but after she left I’m like “wtf, how am I going to sleep??” I “spilled” some apple juice on the bed and called housekeeping.

 

[Fun For All]

Perfume doesn't bother me at all.
The smell of a smoker is a total turn off and well let's face it, pretty fucking disgusting. Don't even get me started on smokers breath.

I agree and I also don’t like incalls that smell like skunk/cannabis store.

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

A reaction of a single, selfish man is understanding. "I have nothing to lose. Let the world revolve around me".

A reaction of SPs who'd rather burn a client rather than consider a No Scent option is fascinating.

I do love a scent of a woman, some perfumes and scented products. Nothing wrong with it per se. It does become problematic when a scent lingers.

So why not just request no scents when booking a SP instead of mandating it as a rule?

 

[massman]

And then she'll ask you at which after hour you went

Damn you reminded me of the one time I went to an after hours club in MTL. Holy shit it was wild.

 

[Josephine]

Damn you reminded me of the one time I went to an after hours club in MTL. Holy shit it was wild.

That's the smell tho.

 

[massman]

That's the smell tho.

One of the smells.

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

So why not just request no scents when booking a SP instead of mandating it as a rule?

A rant on an anonymous board is hardly a mandate.

I can only wish that my message may resonate with some providers.

 

[wigglee]

I don't mind the smell of perfume, but it does kinda piss off my wife if it gets on me.

 

[mrgreek]

It's the best way to see it!



I am sure @mrgreek can take 3.7 sec and send a short message to reassure himself.

Better safe than sorry. While most of us are already conscious to offer unscented soap and cream for our clients, I am sure if you send her a text ahead of time, she will kindly oblige.

Something nice like: my sweetheart. I cannot wait to see you. Unfortunately, you are not my only sweetheart, and the one I already have posses a very developed sense of smell. Would you be kind enough to not wear any perfume or glitter please for our rendez-vous? It would put my mind at ease.

Boom! No smell and open legs. Feel free to copy paste guys.

Ummmm....I'm not sure how my handle got mixed up in this conversation, but I would appreciate a "fixing" of your typo error ... it's "Mr.Gr33k" you're referring to ... not "MrGreek"

Many thanks,

MrGreek

 

[Josephine]

Ummmm....I'm not sure how my handle got mixed up in this conversation, but I would appreciate a "fixing" of your typo error ... it's "Mr.Gr33k" you're referring to ... not "MrGreek"

Many thanks,

MrGreek

I missed you too much.

 

[Insidious Von]

Your olfactory senses should be activated, a lil bit O fish isn't bad. It could be worse.

What a waste of good provolone.