Tired of the friendzone!!!

[wantoplay]

I was asked by her a while back... met a few times.. tonight I gets stuck in the fucking friendzone on a fucking public forum... not face to face, an open forum.

Just when I was happy single, I gets dragged in, then friended.

Do I say fuck it, sever all contact for a while? Or sever for good?



Beyond broke, no money for loving...

 

[realthing69]

Assuming you are officially now a "friend". Cut all ties and don't contact her. In the mean time find someone else (don't wait for her).

If you do happen to run into each other talk about the great things you have been doing (show how much fun she is missing out on).

Maybe then she might change her mind.

 

[simon482]

send her a message and tell her you were not aiming for the friendzone and you want more. depending on her answer is your answer on if you cut ties or stay in.

 

[bazokajoe]

I was asked by her a while back... met a few times.. tonight I gets stuck in the fucking friendzone on a fucking public forum... not face to face, an open forum.

Just when I was happy single, I gets dragged in, then friended.

Do I say fuck it, sever all contact for a while? Or sever for good?



Beyond broke, no money for loving...

No idea what the hell your talking about.

 

[Art Mann]

From friendzone to ozone, unless . . .

Before you sever contact, do some math.

• Add up hours of great sex
• Subtract relationship hassles
• Divide by time and money
• Calculate value

 

[Toronto`s Finest]

You will find if you research a bit that both men & women pretty much agree that you should never hang on & stay " friendzoned " . Best thing is to admitt that is what it is ..... there will NEVER be any more. Thus she must become non existant for you. Cut off ALL ties. P.S. Grow some balls.... move on.
P.P.S. EVEN the woman who friendzoned you deep down does not respect you for " settling " for being friendzoned. MOVE ON !!!
Don't feel bad. Here in Toronto if you don't come close to Mr. Hollywood ..... you get " friendzoned " 90% of women here " friendzone " 95% of guys that they meet !!:Eek:

 

[chuckparker]

I agree.

I would also suggest turning your computer off a few nights a week and actually get oyt there and talk to real women face to face.

My guess is you should be able to get a much better read on how a girl sees you compared to the texting and computer crap.

Good luck.

You will find if you research a bit that both men & women pretty much agree that you should never hang on & stay " friendzoned " . Best thing is to admitt that is what it is ..... there will NEVER be any more. Thus she must become non existant for you. Cut off ALL ties. P.S. Grow some balls.... move on.
P.P.S. EVEN the woman who friendzoned you deep down does not respect you for " settling " for being friendzoned. MOVE ON !!!
Don't feel bad. Here in Toronto if you don't come close to Mr. Hollywood ..... you get " friendzoned " 90% of women here " friendzone " 95% of guys that they meet !!:Eek:

 

[rex_baner]

Im no expert, but its a hell a lot easier and less annoying when you simply say you don't want to be friend zone and cut it off from there.

 

[Petzel]

No idea what the hell your talking about.

I'm glad to know I'm not only me who is thinking this because I don't know either!

 

[Old Milwaukee]

I have no idea either

 

[dreamblade]

If you got friendzoned, then it means the signals you were giving off sent you there. Either improve your game or stop watching John Hughes movies.

 

[staggerspool]

God forbid you might actually have gained a friend.

 

[swanky]

I got reacquainted with a woman that I've known for many years and after spending some time with her I quickly realized that she was holding me in the dreaded friendzone. I stopped calling her and she stopped calling me. That was the end of that. I'm of the opinion that staying in the friendzone is a waste of time and like others have said, the woman will think less of you if you willing hover in that zone.

 

[Hangman]

If you got friendzoned, then it means the signals you were giving off sent you there. Either improve your game or stop watching John Hughes movies.

BOOM!! Headshot!!!

 

[Toronto`s Finest]

If you got friendzoned, then it means the signals you were giving off sent you there. Either improve your game or stop watching John Hughes movies.

Maybe .... if being yourself won't measure up to her standards. But NO guy " puts " himself in the friendzone. Guys friendzoned are either not " hot enough for her, or rich enough or exciting enough. STILL a guy must be true to himself .... & be himself. In a city were 90% of the girls are hustlin to snag Mr. Hollywood ...... most of us guys are gettin plenty " friendzoned "

 

[Muscles]

Ask her out....

 

[Thousand]

Which public forum? And what was the context?

Anyway, don't waste time on just one woman. If you wanna give it one last try, tell her that she don't friendzone you, and that you will decide when to go friendzone....now it is sexy romantic BBFS & BBBJCIM zone.

 

[Samurai Joey]

Beyond broke, no money for loving...

I find it really curious that none of the replies to the OP's thread addressed a fundamental problem, which is the quote above.

To the OP: If you are, as you state above, "beyond broke", your first and foremost priority is to address your financial situation.

If you are unemployed, get out there, network (attending conferences in the area you work in, use LinkedIn, ask friends/family/co-workers, etc.), even try cold-calling or submitting your resumes cold, search on Workopolis or Monster, etc.

If you are employed but are in financial difficulty, see a financial advisor and work with him/her to sort through your budget (including expenses, available savings, etc). You would be surprised just how helpful external advice can be in putting yourself financial house back in order.

Once you are on a path to positive financial health, then and only then should you focus on seeking relationships, whether online or face-to-face.

 

[Serpent]

Guys friendzoned are either not " hot enough for her, or rich enough or exciting enough. STILL a guy must be true to himself .... & be himself. In a city were 90% of the girls are hustlin to snag Mr. Hollywood ...... most of us guys are gettin plenty " friendzoned "

Very TRUE! A guy must be true to himself and have the balls to be exactly just that.