TIME IS MONEY

[ShanOtt]

Ofcourse that makes sense. That's why I'll only book a HH/15 minutes now. Even my wife doesn't want to put up with me for long sex session

Do clients actually book 3 hr appointment and what do you do for 3 hrs?

Some of us enjoy the company of a beautiful woman, not just the sex. I book longer dates because I get more out of my time & money spent.
Just based on your previous posts, it sounds like you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. Expecting the highest level of service in the least amount of time for the lowest rate. If I were an SP I’d probably want to get you out the door ASAP too

Sounds like you should stick to the 15/hh appointments if you’re just looking to nut and leave. Manage your expectations though, cause you aren’t going to get a high end lady who isn’t going to rush you out the door for those rates and that timeframe.

You’re looking for a Michelin dinner at a drive thru. Come on.

 

[ThundercatsHo]

Some of us enjoy the company of a beautiful woman, not just the sex. I book longer dates because I get more out of my time & money spent.
Just based on your previous posts, it sounds like you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. Expecting the highest level of service in the least amount of time for the lowest rate. If I were an SP I’d probably want to get you out the door ASAP too

Sounds like you should stick to the 15/hh appointments if you’re just looking to nut and leave. Manage your expectations though, cause you aren’t going to get a high end lady who isn’t going to rush you out the door for those rates and that timeframe.

You’re looking for a Michelin dinner at a drive thru. Come on.

As a broad generalization comparing hobbyists with the 15/hh sessions vs 3 hours me thinks there’s a difference in financial resources or at least how it’s doled up. Have to believe than any of the beautiful ladies on here, Tryst, or Leo are going to sit up and pay a bit more attention if you are ready and willing to put up a $1200 pay day

 

[bukka]

Some of us enjoy the company of a beautiful woman, not just the sex. I book longer dates because I get more out of my time & money spent.
Just based on your previous posts, it sounds like you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. Expecting the highest level of service in the least amount of time for the lowest rate. If I were an SP I’d probably want to get you out the door ASAP too

Sounds like you should stick to the 15/hh appointments if you’re just looking to nut and leave. Manage your expectations though, cause you aren’t going to get a high end lady who isn’t going to rush you out the door for those rates and that timeframe.

You’re looking for a Michelin dinner at a drive thru. Come on.

I see your view point but for me, it's not necessarily about the price it's the service and yes spending time with a beautiful nice genuine lady is amazing.

But you don't want to be paying Michelin prices at a drive through either, even BBW SP be catfishing & trying to charge Michelin prices smh

The most time I've ever booked is 1 HR appointment and that is the maximum time id probably ever book. Not every Sp are the same. Some are very sociable and can having you not wanting to leave while others it's very routine base and mechanical.

Since I joined here I've read countless reviews of guys having amazing experiences and bad experiences too

 

[KittyCaterina]

Am I correct in thinking first dates are more prone to being marathoners? I guess I'm also guilty as charged. I tend to "gorge" on a first encounter, kink stuffing if you will. Successive dates, breaks, water, a breather, some fruit and or a glass of cold prosecco, and chat. Open honest likes/dislikes and kinks of course always a great chat. A delicately suggested, "less popular" perversion met with a wry smile always lovely. Things only get better. A big two thumbs for break, refresh, chat time. I'm more so a fan of mid and end 'sesh breaks tho. Limited front end socializing when ts been a while and I'm hungry for ya.

Of course, social time can be in between shots while you are recovering or after the fun while cuddling naked.

It really depends on the person during first dates. Some are eager "marathoners," some are nervous and need time to warm up with a massage and chat, some like to get to know me first a bit over lunch/dinner and enjoy knowing that in an hour or so we will be doing naughty things...

 

[KittyCaterina]

Ofcourse that makes sense. That's why I'll only book a HH/15 minutes now. Even my wife doesn't want to put up with me for long sex session

Do clients actually book 3 hr appointment and what do you do for 3 hrs?

Yeah, all the time.

Sometimes lunch or dinner dates.

Sometimes a drink together in bed.

Sometimes just lots of sex with breaks in between shots or a nice chat after the action.

 

[NotADcotor]

Of course, social time can be in between shots while you are recovering or after the fun while cuddling naked.

It really depends on the person during first dates. Some are eager "marathoners," some are nervous and need time to warm up with a massage and chat, some like to get to know me first a bit over lunch/dinner and enjoy knowing that in an hour or so we will be doing naughty things...

Not me, if there is bouncy bouncy good times afoot, I want in ASAP, then for the remaining 119.5 minutes* of a 2 hour session we can cuddle and work on that touch craving I have.
The anticipation doesn't do it for me, probably why I spent most of my adult life morbidly obese.

* I'm kidding, I can easily last 2 minutes Kidding again, I can't get hard anymore.
-Not Jimmy Carr but inspired by his type of humour.

 

[KittyCaterina]

Not me, if there is bouncy bouncy good times afoot, I want in ASAP, then for the remaining 119.5 minutes* of a 2 hour session we can cuddle and work on that touch craving I have.
The anticipation doesn't do it for me, probably why I spent most of my adult life morbidly obese.

* I'm kidding, I can easily last 2 minutes Kidding again, I can't get hard anymore.
-Not Jimmy Carr but inspired by his type of humour.

Lol so you are in the eager category without being a marathoner, although I'm sure you are selling yourself SHORT. Heehee.

 

[NotADcotor]

Lol so you are in the eager category without being a marathoner, although I'm sure you are selling yourself SHORT. Heehee.

I can assure you that at 6'2 I could not sell myself short without committing fraud.
Ogre pride.

 

[bukka]

This is awesome lol. I’m the same, sometimes I can nut on demand, it’s a true art form lol. I get a feeling when a woman is starting to get annoyed and I nut and take it for what it is. Women who love sex will appreciate stamina, I’ve had it with providers, key is to find a regular SP with that spark and chemistry.

Flipping a super hot chick all over the bed getting every position in to the session lasting long, pissed her off lol. That’s too funny, at least you hit it in moos lol

I didn't get to bust but I had a good time with her though.

By talking to some of the SP's am surprised how many guys book an HR session and bust within 15 minutes and then is shown the door lol because some Sp as soon you bust it's time to go

 

[bukka]

You forgot the lube didn't you?

Lol no was well lubed up. Like a well oiled machine. Only for did about 5-7 minutes of anal before Asked to switch to traditional

 

[honeybear69]

I’m sorry, but is your problem with BBWs charging higher rates or with people intentionally misrepresenting themselves regardless of size and rate?

People of any size, shape, race, etc. should be able to charge what they want and such statement implies that BBW are lesser than and not as skilled or worthy as their thinner colleagues simply because they’re bigger.

I agree with Charlotte, that SPs can charge whatever they like and will realize fairly fast if they are undercharging or overcharging based on bookings. This has been discussed on different threads on here multiple times. Then at their own discretion adjust their fees based on those results. Also I recently saw an SP for 700 for 2 hours and an individual on my post said that 500 per hour was too steep which was the SPs charges for 1 hour....but for 2 is 700 which math gives you 350 per hour if you book longer times. IF the SP didn't get anyone booking for 500 an hour they would half to change their prices based on bookings or lack thereof. Regardless of size, skin colour, height, weight, big feet, small feet....if the SP is busy they can increase their prices and if they are quiet they can decrease....I believe it is called a free market economy for a reason. Also this works on the other side if no one wants to spend 500 per hour then no SP would be charging that price....but lots of SPs are at the price per hour. I have no problems with what SP charge I just don't see the ones outside my price point. Also I am a 2 hour session person as per discussed above....I like to try for 2 shots and need some recovery time.....and I enjoy chatting, skin to skin, laughing, cuddling, with the SP in between......half the fun for me is making a connection and of course the DFK is also what I am in for......I don't see SPs who don't DFK. Doesn't make those who don't bad SPs just SPs I don't see.....but they are still busy even without the DFK. I hope this all makes sense....I had so many spelling errors....all this after being up drinking most of the night.....okay now it is time for bed....this is my last beer.....promise!!
HB69.......was here?!?!?

 

[bukka]

I’m sorry, but is your problem with BBWs charging higher rates or with people intentionally misrepresenting themselves regardless of size and rate?

People of any size, shape, race, etc. should be able to charge what they want and such statement implies that BBW are lesser than and not as skilled or worthy as their thinner colleagues simply because they’re bigger.

Yes misleading and misprinting and using pictures of smaller ladies listing as 150 lb and when you show up they're well over 260lb

As per my previous reply I said you don't want to pay Michelin prices at a drive through because even BBW ladies be catfishing and charging Michelin prices.

But everyone should charge any price that they like because if client is paying that means the price is fine. I have nothing anyone I like everyone no matter races or size I just have certain personal preference if am paying.

 

[bukka]

I agree with Charlotte, that SPs can charge whatever they like and will realize fairly fast if they are undercharging or overcharging based on bookings. This has been discussed on different threads on here multiple times. Then at their own discretion adjust their fees based on those results. Also I recently saw an SP for 700 for 2 hours and an individual on my post said that 500 per hour was too steep which was the SPs charges for 1 hour....but for 2 is 700 which math gives you 350 per hour if you book longer times. IF the SP didn't get anyone booking for 500 an hour they would half to change their prices based on bookings or lack thereof. Regardless of size, skin colour, height, weight, big feet, small feet....if the SP is busy they can increase their prices and if they are quiet they can decrease....I believe it is called a free market economy for a reason. Also this works on the other side if no one wants to spend 500 per hour then no SP would be charging that price....but lots of SPs are at the price per hour. I have no problems with what SP charge I just don't see the ones outside my price point. Also I am a 2 hour session person as per discussed above....I like to try for 2 shots and need some recovery time.....and I enjoy chatting, skin to skin, laughing, cuddling, with the SP in between......half the fun for me is making a connection and of course the DFK is also what I am in for......I don't see SPs who don't DFK. Doesn't make those who don't bad SPs just SPs I don't see.....but they are still busy even without the DFK. I hope this all makes sense....I had so many spelling errors....all this after being up drinking most of the night.....okay now it is time for bed....this is my last beer.....promise!!
HB69.......was here?!?!?

Exactly you could not have said it any better. Am married so am not looking for a Sp for DFK Dato or DATY, that's something reserved for my wife out of respect for her. But a spinner or a slim thick Spwho gives good sex is my go to

 

[rex_baner]

Exactly you could not have said it any better. Am married so am not looking for a Sp for DFK Dato or DATY, that's something reserved for my wife out of respect for her. But a spinner or a slim thick Spwho gives good sex is my go to

100% I do not care for DFK/DATO/daty or w.e... as you said for the wife. However... a BBW is my go to. I already have a "spinner" at home.

 

[ThundercatsHo]

100% I do not care for DFK/DATO/daty or w.e... as you said for the wife. However... a BBW is my go to. I already have a "spinner" at home.

Is w.e short for “whatever”?

 

[rex_baner]

Is w.e short for “whatever”?

Yesir.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Honestly, I would make it clear that you're looking for an hour of just straight sex. As much as people like to pretend that they can go for hours, we're not really interested in that in terms of a paid session. The typical session starts off slow, one shot out of the way, then another a while later. Being, jack hammered for an hour is annoying. It's hard to give an accurate price too. Because you can't charge everyone the same like what you were expecting is different than the typical session. If someone lets me know that they want me to be doing something. Every second of that hour, i'm going to charge them double. I will do it. I have no problem doing that. But i'm going to charge them accordingly. If someone is laid back and wants to go with the flow, i'm not gonna charge them a lot of money. She's just used to easy laid back sessions. What you are asking for is not what people typically go to see a woman for. By the time they decide that they're going to hire someone, they are all horned up. They come really fast and then they need time to work up to the second shot.

To avoid that in the future, I would just tell your provider that you're looking for an hour of straight sex the entire time and i'm sure you're going to find some people will just say no. But you're all so going to find some people who will be willing to do it, but for the right price.

We're not all going to charge everyone assuming they want what you want, we're going to charge them according to what most people want. That's cumming within the first ten minutes and then another shot near the end. She never wants to see you again and she doesn't care if you ever come back. I'm sure you don't really care, but When everyone asks very little, but other people ask for everything it gets frustrating. We don't all know the sexual habits of every single person but most people aren't requesting that and that is honestly not a great way to have sex. Not just with you, but in general, it's not a great way to have sex and as much as you don't care about the pleasure of your provider... You probably should though because if she can't stand it a normal woman can't either.

I would say that if the woman you're paying can't tolerate it... You should probably seriously reconsider how you're having sex.

 

[bukka]

Honestly, I would make it clear that you're looking for an hour of just straight sex. As much as people like to pretend that they can go for hours, we're not really interested in that in terms of a paid session. The typical session starts off slow, one shot out of the way, then another a while later. Being, jack hammered for an hour is annoying. It's hard to give an accurate price too. Because you can't charge everyone the same like what you were expecting is different than the typical session. If someone lets me know that they want me to be doing something. Every second of that hour, i'm going to charge them double. I will do it. I have no problem doing that. But i'm going to charge them accordingly. If someone is laid back and wants to go with the flow, i'm not gonna charge them a lot of money. She's just used to easy laid back sessions. What you are asking for is not what people typically go to see a woman for. By the time they decide that they're going to hire someone, they are all horned up. They come really fast and then they need time to work up to the second shot.

To avoid that in the future, I would just tell your provider that you're looking for an hour of straight sex the entire time and i'm sure you're going to find some people will just say no. But you're all so going to find some people who will be willing to do it, but for the right price.

We're not all going to charge everyone assuming they want what you want, we're going to charge them according to what most people want. That's cumming within the first ten minutes and then another shot near the end. She never wants to see you again and she doesn't care if you ever come back. I'm sure you don't really care, but When everyone asks very little, but other people ask for everything it gets frustrating. We don't all know the sexual habits of every single person but most people aren't requesting that and that is honestly not a great way to have sex. Not just with you, but in general, it's not a great way to have sex and as much as you don't care about the pleasure of your provider... You probably should though because if she can't stand it a normal woman can't either.

I would say that if the woman you're paying can't tolerate it... You should probably seriously reconsider how you're having sex.

Really good points. That's only occurred once from my experience. If I book a 30 minutes appointment 20 minutes of sex is normal.

But ofcourse having sex for an hr is not normal. But some SP really enjoys sex and doesn't mind doing it for 20 plus minutes.

But really good points that you made

 

[ShanOtt]

Really good points. That's only occurred once from my experience. If I book a 30 minutes appointment 20 minutes of sex is normal.

But ofcourse having sex for an hr is not normal. But some SP really enjoys sex and doesn't mind doing it for 20 plus minutes.

But really good points that you made

Has it never occurred to you that they’re paid to make you believe they’re enjoying your jackhammer routine?

 

[KittyCaterina]

Really good points. That's only occurred once from my experience. If I book a 30 minutes appointment 20 minutes of sex is normal.

But ofcourse having sex for an hr is not normal. But some SP really enjoys sex and doesn't mind doing it for 20 plus minutes.

But really good points that you made

I actually very rarely get 30 minute bookings.
Between one and three hours is the majority for me.
As I work from home, very low volume, I prefer longer bookings.
My clients tend to enjoy my company, sexual and intellectual.

On the other hand, a best friend of mine in Kingston prefers 30 minute bookings.
She likes the in and out, and she gets 95% HH clients.

It really depends on how we decide to do our business and the type of clientele we want to attract will eventually follow.