TIME IS MONEY

[Theredmilf]

Exactly you could not have said it any better. Am married so am not looking for a Sp for DFK Dato or DATY, that's something reserved for my wife out of respect for her. But a spinner or a slim thick Spwho gives good sex is my go to

I can understand your boundaries and we should all respect those but it sounds like you want to completely skip foreplay which is not exactly a great strategy to squeeze to most juice out of the fruit if you catch my drift.

Since you have I wife, I know you won’t need proof but I’ll just quote the oft-used rule of thumb that women can need 20mins of full body play to get warmed up. That’s not even considering the most important sexual organ which is between the ears:

How Long Does It Take Women to Climax During Intercourse?

A study timed how long it took 645 women to climax during intercourse. For those who did, times varied. But two-thirds of the women—69 percent—never had orgasms during intercourse.

www.psychologytoday.com

Don’t forget, you’re probably showing up having researched a lady, gotten comfortable enough to book her, maybe got worked up looking at her pics and playing an out what’s about to happen in your mind. So you’re likely already super excited

Your lady might be meeting you for the first time or perhaps doesn’t know you well. She’s trying to read things like safety, establish boundaries, understanding what you want, reading your body language and building rapport. That’s a BIG ask in just a few minutes! And if you’re racing through that to get right to Greek and extensive penetrative sex without foreplay, it’s really doubtful she’s on the same page as you. At some point it’s likely going to become painful or physically irritating for her. If she’s shooting you warning messages like it’s enough or she needs a break and you’re just ignoring them, it’s no longer consensual sex let alone good sex.

We’re not wives, nor girlfriends but we’re still women and our bodies work the same We’re not receptacles but humans who have all the same feelings, desires, and responses like other humans. Sex workers can have many tricks and strategies up their sleeves to make the magic happen but it’s important to listen to what we’re asking you and respect our boundaries for that to occur.

I understand that there are clients who just want B&G services, fantasy dominant or selfish power-play or a completely transactional experience. Just be 100% clear when you book if that’s the case and be sure to research a provider first to make sure she offers what you’re asking for. Otherwise a sensual or GFE type date should IMHO opinion be organic, natural, and whatever you’re both enjoying at the time.

This TED Talk was brought to you by my nether regions.

 

[bukka]

I can understand your boundaries and we should all respect those but it sounds like you want to completely skip foreplay which is not exactly a great strategy to squeeze to most juice out of the fruit if you catch my drift.

Since you have I wife, I know you won’t need proof but I’ll just quote the oft-used rule of thumb that women can need 20mins of full body play to get warmed up. That’s not even considering the most important sexual organ which is between the ears:

How Long Does It Take Women to Climax During Intercourse?

A study timed how long it took 645 women to climax during intercourse. For those who did, times varied. But two-thirds of the women—69 percent—never had orgasms during intercourse.

www.psychologytoday.com

Don’t forget, you’re probably showing up having researched a lady, gotten comfortable enough to book her, maybe got worked up looking at her pics and playing an out what’s about to happen in your mind. So you’re likely already super excited

Your lady might be meeting you for the first time or perhaps doesn’t know you well. She’s trying to read things like safety, establish boundaries, understanding what you want, reading your body language and building rapport. That’s a BIG ask in just a few minutes! And if you’re racing through that to get right to Greek and extensive penetrative sex without foreplay, it’s really doubtful she’s on the same page as you. At some point it’s likely going to become painful or physically irritating for her. If she’s shooting you warning messages like it’s enough or she needs a break and you’re just ignoring them, it’s no longer consensual sex let alone good sex.

We’re not wives, nor girlfriends but we’re still women and our bodies work the same We’re not receptacles but humans who have all the same feelings, desires, and responses like other humans. Sex workers can have many tricks and strategies up their sleeves to make the magic happen but it’s important to listen to what we’re asking you and respect our boundaries for that to occur.

I understand that there are clients who just want B&G services, fantasy dominant or selfish power-play or a completely transactional experience. Just be 100% clear when you book if that’s the case and be sure to research a provider first to make sure she offers what you’re asking for. Otherwise a sensual or GFE type date should IMHO opinion be organic, natural, and whatever you’re both enjoying at the time.

This TED Talk was brought to you by my nether regions.

Thanks for the insights. What you are saying makes a lot of sense but am not looking for love or relationship 15 minutes or HH don't allow time for all that foreplay and lovie dovie interaction. Maybe in the future if booking a multi HR appointment I'll use that makes sense

 

[bukka]

Has it never occurred to you that they’re paid to make you believe they’re enjoying your jackhammer routine?

Jackhammer routine . That's sounds a bit much though