Actually it wasn't just PK, she ( the imposter) hit, 613girls, Ottawa Sweethearts and the always questionable Ottawa Vixens as listed here http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=3307
can see how a guys demand for 'Porn star' quality can be a bit crude...
And yes, I beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But let's face it, even in the real world, there are women (and men) out there that are so unattractive, they will never find a partner or be forced to settle for one (ie morbidly obese folks)
but given that we are paying good money for a fantasy, I don't see why some SPs would be so taken a back.
Why can't paying clients have expectation? It's not like any of us are demanding deep discounts. We are simply asking for more equilibrium between ottawa and our big city cousins. Given how close we are to Toronto and Montreal, I don't see why the selection in Ottawa is so poor.
Yes we were small, but but ottawa isn't in the middle of no where...
Claudia is a great example. It's not that we expect all SPs to fit Claudia standards but the fact that the choice doesn't exist.... Even the most offended SPs must understand.
Outside of looks, even Toronto has plenty of gorgeous SPs with attitude problems, but that's cause these girls have clients that keep coming due to there looks. Many of them are Russians that struggle with language too but there must be hundreds of these former model types so your bound to find a gem (I have!)
in Ottawa, the bar set for gorgeous is very low and it doesn't take much to fill up a schedule, so even girls that are considered "not horrible" in Montreal, or Toronto would have a huge ego due to how fast they book up in Ottawa .
I can name one girl (Won't name her, and pm me if u must) was pretty but not a girl I can't meet if I tried hard enough or had the patients.... Her attitude was horrible. Made me feel like I wasn't doing enough to satisfy HER!
Cerb had great reviews, and terb was mixed.... But she clearly did well in Ottawa cause she's typically hard to book. She told me how she despised Toronto and Montreal cause "men don't book escorts".... Um that's not the case. Maybe those cities set the bar higher?
Only people who poke wholes in a brown paper bag and wear them are the "leaf fans" . Ottawa does have gems (that includes you peachy, you are a class act). However, I do understand impact101's frustrations I have been burned quite often by the recs on the red board. Not only with poor service but also with poor attitude.Impact101, I agree with you 100%. Gentlemen should have expectations and shouldn't be meet with an attitude. I'm a person just like everyone else and I don't think I'm better or worse than anybody. As someone who strives to give a good service and who has reasonable prices. If you look at my website I give discounts to clients who stay longer because I like longer appointment and because I appreciate my clients. I understand that you guys are paying a lot of money for your hobby but for the girls who do give a good service; we give out a lot too. I do get offended when all of us get put into the same category. I have my bad days too and I just try to take a day off when I'm feeling a bit bitchy. At the same token if I was a guy who received a session by a lady who didn't put any effort into it I would be pissed too.
I have never been to Toronto or Montreal but I hope if I went; I would be meet with respect the way my client respect me here in Ottawa.
I don't think any of the girls in Ottawa are so ugly that they can't get a life partner let alone clients. I never had to poke holes into a brown paper bag and wear it over my head. If it's an attitude problem or a booking problem please speak up but please remember to be respectful. Some offer services and some don't offer services. Services are mostly done on a ymmv basis. So reading reviews from terb or other boards can be very helpful in finding what you want.
I have respect for what you are saying impact101. Why because you shared your experience without putting anyone down.
Precisely!!! this is business not one is dating here lol+1 I agree completely. What's wrong with having expectations as a paying customer?
People may think I'm attacking SPs, but I'm not naming anyone specific. I'm talking about a general trend in Ottawa in my rant. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and if I think someone's not attractive physically then that's my perogative. No need to talk about being proud of your looks, body etc etc. This is a business.
A bit of a paranoid poseur as I recall.I'm glad others here have noticed that one of the forums biggest recent posters is somewhat of a poseur. I remember his first and only review
Ah, this cuts down so much on the girls available to you. In fact, I can't think of many women I've met under the age of thirty who doesn't have at least one of those.Admittedly "attractive" is partly a matter of taste, and I happen to find tattoo's and body piercings most unattractive.
Absolutely, I don't think I've met a girl in years not that doesn't have at least one. Now to me there is a big difference between having a few decorative tattoos and having a large part of the upper body and arms tattooed. I draw the line there but that's just my personal subjective view. Everyone has like and dislike - blondes vs. brunettes, slim vs. curvy, blue eyes vs. brown, big boobs vs. small ones. The degree of tattooing is just another one.Ah, this cuts down so much on the girls available to you. In fact, I can't think of many women I've met under the age of thirty who doesn't have at least one of those.
Talking negatively in public about human beings' physical attributes is always a touchy matter and, in my opinion, it's not something that real gentlemen do. It's OK of course to have personal preferences when you're looking through SP ads in private but to put down a whole city in public is very poor style, and immature too. If I were a local Ottawa SP I'd be getting an insecurity or inferiority complex right now!
Surely the most important things in this business are attitude (on both sides), mutual respect and mutual acceptance of each other? A good attitude more than compensates for less-than-model looks in my experience. Conversely, I've been with a couple of stunning young student escorts whose attitudes were so obnoxious and intimidating that I basically lost the urge. Moreover, many (most?) hobbyists are far removed from the Mat Gordon/Tom Cruise/Denzel Washington/Pierce Brosnan image. How would the less physically attractive hobbyists in Ottawa feel if they were to be continually rejected by the local SPs on the grounds that they aren't good looking enough??? There would be an outcry on TERB and elsewhere, and rightfully so!
One of the most fascinating and rewarding things about this business is that two strangers (or relative strangers) can come together for an hour or two, not feel guilty about anything, and feel that they are both giving something of value and receiving something of value in return.
Ya she applied at Club Madellyn Jae too with her fake pics...Actually it wasn't just PK, she ( the imposter) hit, 613girls, Ottawa Sweethearts and the always questionable Ottawa Vixens as listed here http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=3307
See what drugs does to the brain !!Gotta love the spambots lol