The most times you've repeated on an SP

[firefox390]

Newbie here (Two months into it) and I'm currently seen three SPs (I'll be doing reviews once I'm able to get a better feel for this forum and also learn some of the lingo).
In the meantime, I'd like to get a feel for some of you vets out there.
I've been warned of how addictive this can be and I'm quickly starting to see why. I'm only making 50K a year and I'm really starting to feel the squeeze. I'm thinking I might stick to one or two SPs, and repeat bi-monthly, which accounts to a total of 12 visits a year (roughly 3K). Is this a reasonable strategy? Or should I branch out?
I'd like to hear some of your experiences...past or present. Thanks!

 

[DanJ]

So you're actually asking about how frequent do you see an SP, not neccesarily about repeating with specific ones. That totally depends on a person's discretionary income (or how much debt they are willing to take on). So if a visit once a month is what you are looking at, nothing wrong with that. Some guys only do this occasionally, some do it multiple times per week. I've been doing it well over a year now, have seen almost 30 different ladies, and don't think I could pick just a couple that I want to rotate back and forth with though.

 

[Jun]

12 visits a year each? that is 6K roughly a yr?... I have spent about 7K on one SP this year(do the math $250/hr), I have seen only one... until I decided to move on and retire from this. There is a lot of fish in the sea why restrict yourself to 1 or 2? By doing the latter, you might find yourself stuck with feelings (happened to me), which is never great in this hobby. That concluded in me retiring from this hobby.

 

[Aardvark154]

Well after a certain point the SP becomes a Mistress (meaning 4 or 8 depending on the use of 1a, 1b etc. . . )

 

[ultistar]

It depends on whether you're the kinda guy who likes a lot of variety or wants to build a rapport with a select few.
I fall firmly into the former, variety camp; part of the thrill is not knowing who is behind that door and whether I can click and find some chemistry with a random girl in 30mins or less.

 

[firefox390]

12 visits a year each? that is 6K roughly a yr?... I have spent about 7K on one SP this year(do the math $250/hr), I have seen only one... until I decided to move on and retire from this. There is a lot of fish in the sea why restrict yourself to 1 or 2? By doing the latter, you might find yourself stuck with feelings (happened to me), which is never great in this hobby. That concluded in me retiring from this hobby.

Bi-monthly visits for each of the two SPs --> $250/hr x 12 total visits = $3K for the yr. Not that it matters anymore as I'm starting to consider your advice. I can definitely see that happen with me in becoming attached to these SPs. Thanks Jun!

 

[yung_dood]

I've been seeing Mature Pixie, Hanna, and Angie for while now. Pixie and Hanna for a few years.

 

[mandrill]

I saw Karina @ Eros about 70 xxx over 5 years. That's my record.

 

[freestuff]

Is bi-monthly 2 times in 1 month or 1 time over 2 months?
I don't repeat.

 

[DanJ]

Is bi-monthly 2 times in 1 month or 1 time over 2 months?
I don't repeat.

I'm pretty sure bi monthly is every 2 months. It's pretty clear though that the OP meant 2 girls, alternating every other month, for 12 total visits in the year.

 

[firefox390]

the second time i found someone who i really liked i think i made the mistake of taking her for granted and expecting way too much. i didn't realize just how much i'd miss her services and personality that was so conducive to enjoying my time with her. in terms of sps she's probably my perfect "fit". it was kind of painful and confusing when i had to disconnect from her. i wished i could have just had one telephone conversation with her to help me resolve this but in the end she's just a very good sp that sells the illusion of affection very well. At the end of the day I just wanted to reward her making me feel so happy and wished I could have figured all this out more quickly. I've learned from this and probably would not make this mistake again if i were to go back into hobbying.

Very deep though I'm a bit confused at the end. What was the one thing you would've changed because it sounds to me that you did a fantastic job in taking control when you needed to and not turn the relationship (for a lack of a better term) into an obsession?

 

[firefox390]

Is bi-monthly 2 times in 1 month or 1 time over 2 months?
I don't repeat.

Bi-monthly = once every two months.

 

[legmann]

Jasmine Moon, approx. 12 times total (maybe more.... who knows), both as an indy and 'retired' SP.

I love seeking out new talent, but often fall back on a few dependable regulars and a guaranteed good time whenever someone new doesn't pay off.

 

[Aardvark154]

A lot of my favorites particularly in Montreal and particularly students move on, they don't stay SPs for year after year.

 

[blackbrit]

I once saw an SP 4 times in one week and then every week for over a couple of months. This developed into feelings for her. Fortunately for me she saw this coming and has disconnected from me. Thanks babes!

Now I make it a point of view never to see the same SP more than once in a month. Although I would appreciate having a regular SP I never forget why I went into hobbying into the first place - and that is to relief the stress my S/O puts on me.

As for how often you hobby. Well its down to budget. My budget puts me firmly in the category of 2 X HH sessions a month, with the occasional wildness for xmas, birthdays and post family trips.

 

[IRIS]

80% of the clients are just hunters who collecting trophies. If I give my best service in my life they don't care and they'll never come back.The other 20% are looking a more intimate relationship and they need a secret lover, a girlfriend, a psychologist who knows about their problem in their private life. Sometimes they need an advice, they like to talk with me about everything. Our session is always great and I really like those guys. Sometimes a really shy client become a fantastic lover, because after a few session they brave enough to ask things ( secret fantasies) what they never got before. I'm more relaxed and openminded with my regulars so become a regular is not a bad thing I have a client who visited me every week in the past 7 years ( I saw him minimum 300 times) and a few who come every month since I started in Toronto. I had a few who fall in love with me but I never mixed my job and my private life. (Sorry guys ) The regular clients are the most important things in this business and I try to give my best for them always.
Happy New Year for everyone and see you again this year!

 

[Carvher]

You mentioned your salary and implied money is an issue so I would suggest that you consider 1/2 hour appointments. You would save a lot of money even if you did a half hour appointment every 2nd visit but you'll figure this out shortly.

 

[WoodPeckr]

You mentioned your salary and implied money is an issue so I would suggest that you consider 1/2 hour appointments. You would save a lot of money even if you did a half hour appointment every 2nd visit but you'll figure this out shortly.

½ hour appointments were suggested to me years ago by a now retired ATF. She suggested this saying it will save you $ and I will get to see you more often because we really clicked. I like variety but ended up seeing her well over 10 years till she retired.....

 

[Eddie401]

I'm not a hobbyist but I suspect I'm going to ramp up my activity in the new year simply because I'm having such a great time with the limited # of ladies I've met to date. I've decided to partake twice a month, once a month with the one I want to see on a regular basis and once a month with a new lady just to shake it up and to ensure I don't get goofy.

So far I've only seen one lady more than once and she's not the one I'd like to start seeing monthly in 2014.

I think it's ok to see the same SP on a regular basis to have a better rapport but if she's the only SP you see, you run the risk of becoming dependant on that relationship. Shaking it up a little with someone different occasionally would help you keep perspective.

I haven't been doing the HH thing to date as it feels too rushed, especially with a first-time visit. Maybe if I am seeing someone regularly it mind be kind of fun. I've had a mistress in the past where I would swing by her apartment and she'd drop her housecoat the minute I walked in the door. It was crazy passionate and it would be fun to replicate that experience with an SP regular. Money isn't my primary concern these days. Lack of time and a need for discretion outweighs everything else.

 

[asterwald]

80% of the clients are just hunters who collecting trophies. If I give my best service in my life they don't care and they'll never come back.The other 20% are looking a more intimate relationship and they need a secret lover, a girlfriend, a psychologist who knows about their problem in their private life. Sometimes they need an advice, they like to talk with me about everything. Our session is always great and I really like those guys. Sometimes a really shy client become a fantastic lover, because after a few session they brave enough to ask things ( secret fantasies) what they never got before. I'm more relaxed and openminded with my regulars so become a regular is not a bad thing I have a client who visited me every week in the past 7 years ( I saw him minimum 300 times) and a few who come every month since I started in Toronto. I had a few who fall in love with me but I never mixed my job and my private life. (Sorry guys ) The regular clients are the most important things in this business and I try to give my best for them always.
Happy New Year for everyone and see you again this year!

Woah, 80/20 rule.