So, it's 3:12 in the a.m. and as I was laying on my couch, dabbing at the odd tear and feeling pathetic, I wondered what others felt was a hardship(no pun play pls) to being involved in this lifestyle.
We all know the positives, Hell, we live them each time we feel the satisfaction, the pleasure, the financial rewards, the gratification...
But, to you, what are the negatives?
For me, the worst negative I face while participating in this hobby is being alone.
Because I won't date while I dabble in the Hobby, I spend many a night crying. Don't get me wrong, I don't feel sorry for myself at all, I chose to play in this field but I'm sure lonely.
Maybe that's why I Hobby.
The classic question of "Do I Hobby because I'm lonely or am I lonely because I Hobby?"
Bit of both I'm suspecting.
Anyhow, I'm interested to know the downside as others might see it.
We all know the positives, Hell, we live them each time we feel the satisfaction, the pleasure, the financial rewards, the gratification...
But, to you, what are the negatives?
For me, the worst negative I face while participating in this hobby is being alone.
Because I won't date while I dabble in the Hobby, I spend many a night crying. Don't get me wrong, I don't feel sorry for myself at all, I chose to play in this field but I'm sure lonely.
Maybe that's why I Hobby.
The classic question of "Do I Hobby because I'm lonely or am I lonely because I Hobby?"
Bit of both I'm suspecting.
Anyhow, I'm interested to know the downside as others might see it.