The Death of the Strip Clubs- End of an Era?

ogibowt

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That's not it. I never bought in to lap dances. Waste of money. It's the money lost on beer and opportunity cost of my time. I didn't it often but when I did it I regretted spending money on tits.
im kinda opposite..IL never regretted spending $ on tits....i had some great times in strip clubs, basically back in the 80.s and early 90,s, both going with some buddies or by myself...then i discovered Now magazine, with ads for hookers and massage parlours..and strip clubs, for me , became a thing of the past
But some memories still linger to this day
i would like to be self indulgent and share a memory....i can only share in my mind other than here on Terb
full nudity came into fruition and i used to frequent the Kipling Steak house and tavern...sometimes alone
anyway there was the stage, tables toward the front, where it was a bit awkward for the girls to come over and dance...but at the back of the club was a some rows with more room
I was at the front and i motioned a girl over,,she was a little older than the rest but had really big tits. so i was mesmorized lol..she said we could have more fun at the back, for no upcharge. im at the back and after a couple of songs she took my hand and guided it toward her tits...remember, this was the early 80, i m pretty sure, and then stuck them in my face and whispered that i could suck on them...i really got turned on...but nothing else came of it....but after a couple more visits with the same experience, she finally cracked to me that outside the club she could give me more action and if i wanted , i could meet her after work....i said something to the effect that after ! am was too late for me..had to work the next day...she suggested Saturday because she worked the afternoon shift, i said sure..went the next saturday , discussed costs and she told me to meet her at the Hillrise motel on the Lakeshore..went in seperate cars...here i am about to have sex with a stripper...but i figured she was a hooker who moonlighted as a stripper lol....any way got a room, got a BJ and after a few minutes to recover, had sex....mindblowing sex....repeated a couple of times. on a saturday..but again disappeared and i never did see her again.. the actual conversations about the arrangements are only a blurr as i remember it now but what a memory.....reliving it now is enjoyable thanks lol
 

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Yes, strip clubs are a thing of the past, but like Ogibowt, I have fond memories of the 80’s and 90’s and even early 2000’s.
At Le Strip on Yonge St across from the Eaton Center, you could have a good show on stage and some action in the low-walled cubicles. One older blonde would spread her legs wide and gape her pussy open right in your face. A cute long-haired brunette named Jennifer let me finger her and make her cum.
Lots of fingering at various strip clubs and CBJ a few times in the quieter back areas. And Fantasia in Richmond Hill was totally wild where everything was available.
 

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Used to frequent the Zanzibar a lot in the 90's , opening hours would be from 12pm IIRC, nowadays it's 5pm (a slow death)
2 memories I have of take out:

1- got a lap a table dance from a very pretty spinner blonde Polish girl, I just had to fuck her. Asked if take out was available , she confirmed it was, negotiated a reasonable price to go back to her place after her shift at 1am , sex was great. Time flew by as it was 6am .She even made breakfast for us.

2- another night , a pretty blonde dancer came up to me and asked if I wanted a lap dance , I said no quickly as I had just arrived there. While walking around later to check out the talent, I recognized her as an SP I saw several times at an agency, a few years earlier, got a lap dance from her , got her number to hook up for a session, Couple of days later called her to book a 7 hr session at the delta chelsea. Never saw her again until about 15 years later when she was a new girl at an agency that got a good review. Much to my surprise when she opened the hotel room door and it was her, she said with a smile "I know you!!!" She then became a very popular well reviewed SP.
 
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Yes, strip clubs are a thing of the past, but like Ogibowt, I have fond memories of the 80’s and 90’s and even early 2000’s.
At Le Strip on Yonge St across from the Eaton Center, you could have a good show on stage and some action in the low-walled cubicles. One older blonde would spread her legs wide and gape her pussy open right in your face. A cute long-haired brunette named Jennifer let me finger her and make her cum.
Lots of fingering at various strip clubs and CBJ a few times in the quieter back areas. And Fantasia in Richmond Hill was totally wild where everything was available.
Ahhh yes. Le Strip on the second floor. No Liquor License so you could be 18 and enter. Went there many times during High School. There were some (in hindsight) very attractive women there.
 

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we are all in a nostalgic mood, sharing stuff.....but back in the late 70,s and 80,s there was always a constant at the Westend Strip clubs i would visit.......and it probably rarely happens now im thinking, but back then you could have a dancer sit at your table , share a beer, have a couple of laughs and rarely would they turn into Sales Girls so to speak....i guess times were different then....the pace of life was much slower
 

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The last time I went to a strip club was 2013.
That is also when I discovered escorts.
Strip clubs while it may cater to a particular set of clients and some people may like them, are objectively, a total waste of money.
It costs more to get a HJ at a strip club for 15 mins, than to book a provider for FS for an hour.
There are also hygiene issues at strip clubs.
Then you'd have to put up with the door guy, the door free, everyone expecting tips including waitresses, drink minimums etc.,
The entire thing is one big hustle to rinse your wallet.
So why would I bother with that game when I can book sexy time with ladies so easily, especially in these times with affordability issues?
I don't think the North American strip club scene really exists in that format in countries with legalized or permitted prostitution. Sure you can go to a club where a girl will sit on your lap, but the end sale objective is a full service session in a room or back at your place.

I will give women in U.S. strip clubs credit. Some of them know how to put on a show.
 
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.......Hot civvies would peel for a couple of weeks to pay for Christmas or their winter vacation. It was not uncommon for them to do this in a city where they didn't live; for the same reason why some women take solo vacations in the Caribbean when they have a craving for 'the purple crayon ' - they don't want anyone they know to know.
Yep. From my limited experience in the Caribbean, women soliciting sex abroad is a bit different than men. Western women will hook-up with the same local stud for several days and even the entire trip. Some of the women have island lovers they see once or twice a year. It wouldn't surprise me if women discreetly share island contacts amongst themselves. I'm guessing the women like the allusion of romance while they are abroad, but know it's not real.

Now on occasion I have spent a few days with a foreign escort in a less developed country. However, I always find some time to explore the scene alone or with buddies.
 
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I stopped going to strip clubs when I realized that there was no longer any chance that the stripper was going to do me for free.....
The women in strip clubs are really good at getting men to believe.

I think even the women get confused sometimes. When we were younger and better looking buddies, some of the women would stop hustling dances, VIP rooms and just hang with us. They would laugh with us and seem to be genuinely interested in what we were doing and where we going later. I can remember saying "hey, how bout I buy a dance?" because I wanted them to make some money. They were fine with just talking. I don't know maybe they just didn't like dancing.
 
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I don't think the North American strip club scene really exists in that format in countries with legalized or permitted prostitution. Sure you can go to a club where a girl will sit on your lap, but the end sale objective is a full service session in a room or back at your place.

I will give women in U.S. strip clubs credit. Some of them know how to put on a show.
I have had many FS sessions in American strip clubs though, albeit they cost an arm and a leg.
None in Canada.
I frankly think the strip club scene in the US is much better than in Canada or atleast Toronto, atleast used to be, from what I remember from over 10 years ago.
 

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I have had many FS sessions in American strip clubs though, albeit they cost an arm and a leg.
None in Canada.
I frankly think the strip club scene in the US is much better than in Canada or atleast Toronto, atleast used to be, from what I remember from over 10 years ago.
I'm not sure where you had FS sessions in America (U.S.). The clubs generally get shut down when law enforcement gets wind of it. It's sort of a game because the same city could have illicit massage parlors.

In regards to the quality of U.S. strip clubs it really depends on what you expect from strip clubs. U.S. strip clubs generally have hot chicks and nice atmospheres. However, I could remember when young American men having bachelor parties and guy trips over the border into Canada because there was more contact and extras. Montreal's strippers were held in special regard.

Now American men go to Canada for the escort scene.
 

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I'm not sure where you had FS sessions in America (U.S.). The clubs generally get shut down when law enforcement gets wind of it. It's sort of a game because the same city could have illicit massage parlors.

In regards to the quality of U.S. strip clubs it really depends on what you expect from strip clubs. U.S. strip clubs generally have hot chicks and nice atmospheres. However, I could remember when young American men having bachelor parties and guy trips over the border into Canada because there was more contact and extras. Montreal's strippers were held in special regard.

Now American men go to Canada for the escort scene.
Oh many.
I'll DM you if you are interested as I think I got my post deleted once for talking about extras at strip clubs on a thread lol.
 

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Oh many.
I'll DM you if you are interested as I think I got my post deleted once for talking about extras at strip clubs on a thread lol.
Thanks but I personally choose not to hobby in the U.S.
I prefer the smooth, relatively hassle-free experiences in Canada and overseas.
 
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I do miss them as well, but it hasn't been a thing I've been interested in for ages.
The vibe changed, I got older, the competition of other options switched (the kind of thing that has hit all live entertainment).
I am sure some version of strip clubs will continue, much like other forms of live entertainment, but I think the golden age is long gone.
 

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When one can go to SRM to get a body slide, HJ, shower massage with the MPA, why would anyone pay $20 a song plus buying expensive beer?
I think the whole "it's a show" part of it is something different.
Like going to a movie theatre vs watching on streaming, there is a difference in the vibe based on the whole element of sharing it with people.
 
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