The Code

[jcpro]

LONELY and ALONE are not synonymous ... I'm alone all the time, but I am rarely lonely.

Week two into a cross country tour I might start to feel homesick, but I enjoy my own company so I am very rarely lonely. Maybe when that changes I will consider making changes to my lifestyle.

If you're comfortable with who you are, you're never lonely.

 

[icespot]

ENGLISH:
Everyone out there that thinks that life is unfair,
Needs to know that's not the case,
Because life is beautiful, you just have to live it.
Everyone out there that thinks they are alone and they are unhappy
Needs to know that's not the case,
Because in life no one is alone, there is always someone
-Oh, there's no need to cry, because life is a carnival,
-It's more beautiful to live singing.
-Oh, there's no need to cry,
-For life is a carnival
-And your pains can be alleviated through song. (x2)
Everyone out there that thinks that life is always harsh,
Needs to know that's not the case,
That there are just bad times, and it will all pass.
Everyone out there, that thinks that this will never change,
Needs to know that's not the case,
The bad times will turn, it will all pass.
-Oh, there's no need to cry, because life is a carnival,
-It's more beautiful to live singing.
-Oh, there's no need to cry,
-For life is a carnival
-And your pains can be alleviated through song. (x2)
-Carnival

Its for laughing
-Theres no need to cry
For enjoying
-Carnival
For having fun
-One must live singing
-Carnival
Life is a carnival
-Theres no need to cry
Everyone can sing
-Carnival
Oh, men
-One must live singing
-carnival
Everyone out there that thinks
-Theres no need to cry
that life is always harsh
-Carnival
Will never be alone
-One must live singing
God is with him

For those that complain forever.
For those that only critisize.
For those that use weapons.
For those that pollute us.
For those that make war.
For those that live in sin.
For those that mistreat us.
For those that make us sick.



Read more:**Celia Cruz - La Vida Es Un Carnaval Lyrics | MetroLyrics**

 

[icespot]

Life is awsome Pablise we just have to live it, we are never alone. Once you free yourself and are true to you, I cant put it into words, but man you are going to love it.......

 

[pablice]

I agree life is beautiful...life is awesome...it is what you make it. You can't have a life if you don't live it and experience all the emotions including the hurt, pain and loneliness...it is part of the mathematical equation Why do you think I frequent some of the finest ladies in this world through out finest GTA MPA scene...they help me live the life my friend

Life is awsome Pablise we just have to live it, we are never alone. Once you free yourself and are true to you, I cant put it into words, but man you are going to love it.......

 

[pablice]

Many times we have the life but don't see it and want THE life...got the life...

 

[Marla]

+1 Exactly. It's all about getting the best out of this experience and avoiding drama for both parties. Different rules work for different ppl but we need them to remove the drama from the experience.[/QUOTE

These rules are good and apply to the general hobbying population. Even if you are currently single, you wouldn't want your boss finding out. Utmost silence except ranting on the boards with an alias handle is the safest practice. Once your confidential information has been broken, you never know who could turn on you. I was outed to my family by my supposed good friend and I didn't see it coming and went into shock. You never know what people will do or how they will behave with confidential information in their hands if the tides should turn. And let's face it - we are all here using duplicity so who can you really trust?
Keeping your private info to yourself and not disclosing who you really are to anybody is paramount. It needs to kept at arms's length. For both the women and men. imo.
It is an enigma for both parties because it needs to be kept on a business transaction level yet there is intimacy involved and so easy to slip up. One slip could cost you everything dear to you.

 

[pablice]

Great points Marla! I think in my case getting caught would probably be the worst thing imaginable and many people would be negatively affected becuase of my current situation. Paramount would be an understatement. It would pretty much snowball downwards very quickly... I agree with what you said that sometime you never know what kind of people come through your life as sometimes our closest friends betray us which hurts the most and longest.

I also do it to protect the industry girl from me. Obviously if I am attracted to her mind and body I will want to have as much out of her that she is willing to give. The fun part is finding the ones out of many that I find attractive and having her see something in me not manufactored but actually see something unique. If she decides to pursue it higher I do not want to send her the wrong message that I will leave my wife if our things goes deep. I want both of us to have a great time without the false expectations. I find that not many women I see through this hobby are mature enough to hande this...I can say I come across maybe 2-3 girls in my 5 year hobby time that were mature enough to handle this level of interraction but still keeping it professional. Although I only see MPAs, maybe SPs would be more mature here. Once we both understand and respect our limits the sessions are magical and not even the sky is the limit.

I always look for ways to improve the experience and take this higher...it's like heroin (no I have never tried this) but what I hear is that your first high is the thing that addicts you the most and sometimes you spend a liftime chasing it forgetting about the consequence it does to your body and the loved ones in your life. I always remember my best session and in effence is the driving force for continuing to hobby.

I think I have figgured out how to get the most of this hobby while eliminatimg the unecessary drama.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts much appreciated!

These rules are good and apply to the general hobbying population. Even if you are currently single, you wouldn't want your boss finding out. Utmost silence except ranting on the boards with an alias handle is the safest practice. Once your confidential information has been broken, you never know who could turn on you. I was outed to my family by my supposed good friend and I didn't see it coming and went into shock. You never know what people will do or how they will behave with confidential information in their hands if the tides should turn. And let's face it - we are all here using duplicity so who can you really trust?
Keeping your private info to yourself and not disclosing who you really are to anybody is paramount. It needs to kept at arms's length. For both the women and men. imo.
It is an enigma for both parties because it needs to be kept on a business transaction level yet there is intimacy involved and so easy to slip up. One slip could cost you everything dear to you.

 

[CapitalGuy]

I am single.This code is useless.

Lol. Yes but....

The 'but' being..... a) one day you may not be single, and you may wind up with the type of lady who would be devastated (and gone) if she were to find out about your past behaviour, b) you could suffer unwanted grief if a family member, co-worker, co-worker's wife were to find out. "You are NOT going fishing with that bazokajoe asshole - he's a creepy pervert who sees prostitutes" c) well, you get the idea, lol. Even when I was single and hobbying, I was a ghost.

 

[icespot]

Isn't that the truth, there was this group of guys that found out about me going to MPs and thats exactly what they said " he is a creepy pervert, sexual predator, sexual diviant who sees prostitutes"..... Bunch of hypocrites because some of them were doing the same thing, but like I say a picture is worth a thousand words. If you judge and pass judgement better make sure you are beyond reproach

Lol. Yes but....

The 'but' being..... a) one day you may not be single, and you may wind up with the type of lady who would be devastated (and gone) if she were to find out about your past behaviour, b) you could suffer unwanted grief if a family member, co-worker, co-worker's wife were to find out. "You are NOT going fishing with that bazokajoe asshole - he's a creepy pervert who sees prostitutes" c) well, you get the idea, lol. Even when I was single and hobbying, I was a ghost.