The Ask-A-Hooker Thread
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carrie you know i love/lust you, but i have to disagreeCarrie Moon said:
( you can spank me later )
swingers parties, and a stag have nothing in common , not even on the same book of sex play
IMHO
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I'm sorry. I think I got Carrie's locale confused with Twinklegirl or Erin Ryder's former locale.Cycleguy007 said:
"Do you remember the first client you ever saw as an SP? Were you nervous or scared?"
-I wasn't scared, but damn nervous. I chipped my nail polish on my way out the door and was convinced that he would notice. I just wanted to do
everything right, until I realized I just had to be myself.
"So what is the last thing that you're thinking just before you look through the peephole or open the door?"
-Please don't be my uncle. Please don't be my uncle.
"Have you guys ever had a guy absolutely obssessed with you?"
-Yes. More than once. It's a little off-putting to have someone profess his love for you 15 minutes after meeting you!
"What percentage of the time would you say you are "acting" as opposed to genuinely enjoying the encounter or getting off? How often do you cum with a client if at all?"
-There is an aspect of fantasy surrounding the whole thing. On a day to day basis my bra and panties don't always match, nor do I wear heels. But it's not acting, it's getting to be a different part of yourself. I am flirty, playful and do like to be a little bit dirty; I am all of these things, it's just not always appropriate elsewhere (or so I'm told).
-I cum more often than I think I will.
"What is your favourite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?"
-I get to meet really interesting people and interact with them in a way I would never have the oppertunity to elsewhere. There's something surprisingly honest about it. I learn what people really like and really think about things.
"Do you ever feel bad about what you're doing?"
I am 100% okay with what I'm doing. I feel bad when I have to lie to my friends and family, because I could never convey to them that it's a choice and I really am okay.
"Ever think that this temporary job may end up becoming an unintended career? And if so, are you concerned about getting old?"
-Yes, and that's why school is so important to me. When I'm not working, I'm usually in class or studying.
"Have you ever considered dancing and/or MPA as a vocation before settling on escorting?"
-Becky can attest to the fact that I cannot dance, and my hands are too small to give massages (although I'm told I'm not bad). But frankly, I'm impressed by any girl that can hang upside down from a pole and take off her g-string.
"Are sexual favors regularily given to your pimp(s)/agency owners (assuming they're male) either by you or girls you work with?"
-I can only speak for my experiences at Mirage, but absolutely not.
"How often do you come across a client whose genitalia is suspect as far as having an STD such that you do not engage in any play with them?"
-Yes, and I had to say something. It was very uncomfortable. But I care too much about my safety not to say something.
"What's the strangest fruit or object that a client has ever wanted to put in you?"
-A peeled banana. I'm not so much opposed, but skeptical that it would work.
"Have you ever done a DP? if so do you really like it or only do it for the guy?"
-I wish! These are the things my fantasies are made of.
"Ever fucked brothers or twin brothers simultaneously?"
-No I haven't, but totally would.
"What do you enjoy the most sexually (giving and receiving)?"
-I really enjoy giving. I often get a little carried away and forget all about receiving. And I'm okay with that.
"Can't you ladies control your limbs when you are orgasming (is this a word?)?"
-Nope.
"Weirdest/most unusual fetish you were asked to participate in."
-The first thing that comes to mind was a tickle fetish, which is totally cool but I'm really ticklist.
"Do any of you SPs enjoy Star Trek at all? If so which series did you prefer the most?"
-As Becky mentioned, I love Voyager. ebhobbs, DS9 doesn't even compare. I can't wait to see the new Star Trek movie, I had a nerd-orgasm watching the preview for it.
"Do you prefer boxers or briefs?"
-Boxer-briefs on a fit guy. Boxers in general.
"Do many of the girls read TERB but are just lurkers?"
-More than you think.
"How often do you get outfit requests (lingerie, etc)? Do you find them to be a big nuisance (for standard stuff, nothing outrageous) to deal with? How uncomfortable is it to have sex while clothed (including wearing heels)?"
-Mostly school girl and a garter belt with stockings.
-I don't mind. It's especially funny wearing stockings to class under my clothing...and no one has any idea where I'm off to next.
-I'm not focusing on my clothing.
"What's your favorite novel?"
-Tie between "The Picture of Dorian Gray" by Oscar Wilde, and "Vanity Fair" by William Thackeray.
"Do you have better encounters with clients who you initially met/communicated with through TERB?"
-Very much so.
-I wasn't scared, but damn nervous. I chipped my nail polish on my way out the door and was convinced that he would notice. I just wanted to do
everything right, until I realized I just had to be myself.
"So what is the last thing that you're thinking just before you look through the peephole or open the door?"
-Please don't be my uncle. Please don't be my uncle.
"Have you guys ever had a guy absolutely obssessed with you?"
-Yes. More than once. It's a little off-putting to have someone profess his love for you 15 minutes after meeting you!
"What percentage of the time would you say you are "acting" as opposed to genuinely enjoying the encounter or getting off? How often do you cum with a client if at all?"
-There is an aspect of fantasy surrounding the whole thing. On a day to day basis my bra and panties don't always match, nor do I wear heels. But it's not acting, it's getting to be a different part of yourself. I am flirty, playful and do like to be a little bit dirty; I am all of these things, it's just not always appropriate elsewhere (or so I'm told).
-I cum more often than I think I will.
"What is your favourite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?"
-I get to meet really interesting people and interact with them in a way I would never have the oppertunity to elsewhere. There's something surprisingly honest about it. I learn what people really like and really think about things.
"Do you ever feel bad about what you're doing?"
I am 100% okay with what I'm doing. I feel bad when I have to lie to my friends and family, because I could never convey to them that it's a choice and I really am okay.
"Ever think that this temporary job may end up becoming an unintended career? And if so, are you concerned about getting old?"
-Yes, and that's why school is so important to me. When I'm not working, I'm usually in class or studying.
"Have you ever considered dancing and/or MPA as a vocation before settling on escorting?"
-Becky can attest to the fact that I cannot dance, and my hands are too small to give massages (although I'm told I'm not bad). But frankly, I'm impressed by any girl that can hang upside down from a pole and take off her g-string.
"Are sexual favors regularily given to your pimp(s)/agency owners (assuming they're male) either by you or girls you work with?"
-I can only speak for my experiences at Mirage, but absolutely not.
"How often do you come across a client whose genitalia is suspect as far as having an STD such that you do not engage in any play with them?"
-Yes, and I had to say something. It was very uncomfortable. But I care too much about my safety not to say something.
"What's the strangest fruit or object that a client has ever wanted to put in you?"
-A peeled banana. I'm not so much opposed, but skeptical that it would work.
"Have you ever done a DP? if so do you really like it or only do it for the guy?"
-I wish! These are the things my fantasies are made of.
"Ever fucked brothers or twin brothers simultaneously?"
-No I haven't, but totally would.
"What do you enjoy the most sexually (giving and receiving)?"
-I really enjoy giving. I often get a little carried away and forget all about receiving. And I'm okay with that.
"Can't you ladies control your limbs when you are orgasming (is this a word?)?"
-Nope.
"Weirdest/most unusual fetish you were asked to participate in."
-The first thing that comes to mind was a tickle fetish, which is totally cool but I'm really ticklist.
"Do any of you SPs enjoy Star Trek at all? If so which series did you prefer the most?"
-As Becky mentioned, I love Voyager. ebhobbs, DS9 doesn't even compare. I can't wait to see the new Star Trek movie, I had a nerd-orgasm watching the preview for it.
"Do you prefer boxers or briefs?"
-Boxer-briefs on a fit guy. Boxers in general.
"Do many of the girls read TERB but are just lurkers?"
-More than you think.
"How often do you get outfit requests (lingerie, etc)? Do you find them to be a big nuisance (for standard stuff, nothing outrageous) to deal with? How uncomfortable is it to have sex while clothed (including wearing heels)?"
-Mostly school girl and a garter belt with stockings.
-I don't mind. It's especially funny wearing stockings to class under my clothing...and no one has any idea where I'm off to next.
-I'm not focusing on my clothing.
"What's your favorite novel?"
-Tie between "The Picture of Dorian Gray" by Oscar Wilde, and "Vanity Fair" by William Thackeray.
"Do you have better encounters with clients who you initially met/communicated with through TERB?"
-Very much so.
This is so funny! But, doesn't the agency phone guy tell you well in advance that "Uncle Fred" booked an appointment for 5PM?yourmysterygirl said:
That is why I'm surprised by the "all is cool, no envy, no jealousy" socially correct answers we are getting from the escorts.JohnFK said:
I'll never forget the "death looks" I got from Amazon as I left the VIP with her best friend. Or, the time Scorpion asked: "What is she giving you that you are not getting from me?" Too much drama!
This is why, when playing with those metal cockrinsg (also called gates-of-hell), you should always have a bucket of ice near by.Hiding said:
So, that is why there are all these buckets of ice around.genintoronto said:
Thought it was in case a client got kicked in the head when the lady hit the "Big O".OK, today's questions, while you ladies are out having a life, we're diligently thinking of new questions? Here we go.
When you get a PM from someone on here looking to see you, do you check his posting history for trollness levels?
Toronto women get blasted on here for being snobby bitches at clubs and around town in general, is that accurate or just bitter guys. What's your opinion on TO guys and the club scene? Do you girls get approached?
For Gen, TO or MO, which do you prefer, are French guys more sexually forward and friendly, French girls less inhibited about sex? Do and don't like about each city?
Are the working girls catty and nasty? Talk about others that they work with or other escorts?
I feel so gay asking these questions!
When you get a PM from someone on here looking to see you, do you check his posting history for trollness levels?
Toronto women get blasted on here for being snobby bitches at clubs and around town in general, is that accurate or just bitter guys. What's your opinion on TO guys and the club scene? Do you girls get approached?
For Gen, TO or MO, which do you prefer, are French guys more sexually forward and friendly, French girls less inhibited about sex? Do and don't like about each city?
Are the working girls catty and nasty? Talk about others that they work with or other escorts?
I feel so gay asking these questions!
In a year of escorting, I have cancelled only a handful of appointments at the last minute, and always because of a serious and unexpected reason. If I see something coming ahead of time that may prevent me from working on a scheduled day, I always call the agency as soon as I can to let them know so that they don't make pre-bookings that they will have to cancel later.wangbang said:
I have had much more appointments cancelled by the clients (often very last minute) than I have cancelled appointments myself. It's annoying, but I give them the benefit of the doubt that they don't do it malisciously, and that they too have good reasons to cancel.
I certainly hope not. The lady might think I am some neo-con LLL basher who walks around wearing a "Coors Light" baseball cap.BallzDeep said:
Everytime I have a bad day, if I didn't think that way I'd question my sanity. I will leave when the bad days out number the good or I no longer see any benefit from doing this, just like any position I've taken in my life.luvdog said:
Less so now that I'm working only incalls, but when I was doing outcall, yes, I regularly had clients offering me drugs, mostly pot and coke. I always refuse the later, and typically left because the client was too high on it. People on coke tend to be extremely high maintenance, arrogant, cocky, and just generally unpleasant to be around. I just don't want to deal with that.marikiss said:
Yes. I think it's a good thing for me to keep thinking about how and when I will retire, and to plan my retirement.
If I'm not already familiar with the poster, I usually look at his reviews history. You can tell a lot about someone by how they phrase their reviews: that's what I look for in order to decide whether I am interested or not in seeing them.
I don't go to mainstream clubs, so I wouldn't be able to tell. But from my experience and that of most people around me, nobody seems to be having trouble meeting new people and getting laid.
I'll say it publicly once and for all: I'm not from Montreal, and I've never lived there.
Yes, I do find Quebecois(es) less prude, less inhibited, and generally more friendly (less passive-aggressive) than (anglo-)Canadians. It was actually a cultural shock for me when I first moved here, not so much anymore after leaving here for a while now.
I do love Montreal for everything Quebecois about it: the style, the culture, the people, being able to speak french, etc. But I also find Montreal to be very white. In that respect, I much prefer Toronto: the diversity, the food, the queerness of the city.
Yes, some are. Like everywhere else. A few that I've met when doing outcalls had an exagerated sense of their importance and a false sense of entitlement -- which I call the 'princess complex' -- which I think the industry caters to in many way. When I used to work outcalls and had to share a car/driver with them, it used to drive me crazy as they had no respect for other people's time and commitments.
Which makes me think of something I've always wanted to mention: many of you guys complain about girls being late to appointments, but at the same time, you praise those girls who aren't "clock watcher" and who stayed 15 minutes or more past the appointment time. That girl who is late? Chances are it's because she was sitting in the car, waiting for that other girl to get out so that the driver can bring her to her call.
Heh heh. It's a joke among my friends that I'm a frat boy trapped in a girl's body.
Kyra's fears, I'm sorry... so much typing and reading! I clearly have nothing to do last night/today.
Girls need a good head on their shoulders, some idea of money management, social skills, to exercise sound consistent judgement and a plan to get out of the industry... loving sex and enjoying time with people can't hurt.
There are a handful of women in the industry I can think of that I wish would leave, for the benefit of the industry's reputation, the agencies/clients/sps involved, and of course their own mental health. Some have been here for a few years and a couple are well-reviewed.
Toronto women may be snobby bitches. That may also be caused by the way men approach women in Toronto. It kills me when someone is looking at my breasts more than my face, is leering at me, tries with a pickup line... the chances of me responding to the perfect approach are already pretty slim, if you can't think of something actually funny to say start with 'hi'.
They're miserable, criticize their clients, think of their work as dirty, cause drama with the other working girls... incalls should be female- and sex-positive.rafterman said:
Girls need a good head on their shoulders, some idea of money management, social skills, to exercise sound consistent judgement and a plan to get out of the industry... loving sex and enjoying time with people can't hurt.
There are a handful of women in the industry I can think of that I wish would leave, for the benefit of the industry's reputation, the agencies/clients/sps involved, and of course their own mental health. Some have been here for a few years and a couple are well-reviewed.
I'll answer. Yes, I have given 'freebies' in some respect. I usually go way over the booked time, sometimes I'll ask if Kaitlyn can come join us for no extra cost (if she's sitting there and not booked anyways...), spend lots of time answering PMs and email, making referrals to women I think might be appropriate. I've never been a dancer so not really 'freebies' in the way you're describing, but closest I can relate.Rockslinger said:
james t kirk said:
Yes, pre-industry I had gonnorhea (sp?) and it was the scariest thing ever. All fixed up with a couple pills and an angry stomach the next morning but since then I have not missed a monthly STD test by more than a week. If you're going to take risks in the industry let's at least make them calculated ones.fmauhv said:
OF COURSE I'm checking their history, usually just looking for what he's said he likes in the past to determine if he's something I want to make the extra effort to see.Ballzdeep said:
Toronto women may be snobby bitches. That may also be caused by the way men approach women in Toronto. It kills me when someone is looking at my breasts more than my face, is leering at me, tries with a pickup line... the chances of me responding to the perfect approach are already pretty slim, if you can't think of something actually funny to say start with 'hi'.
Its a little different. Many strippers have similar body types, similar menus although some more extensive than others, and they don't really stand to gain anything from recommending clients to see another girl (broad generalizations, I know).Rockslinger said:That is why I'm surprised by the "all is cool, no envy, no jealousy" socially correct answers we are getting from the escorts.
Incall escorts usually share a 1 or 2 bedroom place, see the same girls for extended periods of time, and therefore have to deal with them on a regular basis. There's so much more to be gained from being positive, friendly and supportive than from being catty or mean. I'll often recommend girls I like and that have a body type and style I think a client will like.
That having been said, I've run into a few catty ones (although not nearly as many as Gen). Usually they're the ones that don't last very long and everyone at the agency knows to be careful about what they say around them.
I was thinking, girls that do it regularly on the job. It gets scarier when you start thinking about girls that feel like they need to be high/drunk to work.Kyra_to said:
I'm willing to bet that the number of girls that use drugs recreationally in the sex industry is WAY higher than 44%.
