The Appeal of Facials ????

[Celticman]

Many members love to finish with a facial. It is not my cup of tea, but that does not matter. I have my own kinks so not judging. So what is the appeal?

The subject has come up with three SPs lately. Two of them do not have it on the menu. Ever. They really dislike it. The other lady goes along with it for the sake of business. None of them understand the turn on. So COF guys, what is the answer?

 

[papasmerf]

it's all about trying to do what you see in the pron flix

 

[Art Mann]

I suspect most porn flicks show any form of cum on body as the "money shot" that proves the sex was real. If he ejaculates internally there is no visual evidence of orgasm.

External ejaculation may also be based in a theory of birth control and/or STD prevention (not sure about that) since most porn shows bareback vaginal penetration.

 

[Scarey]

I think stuff like facials are very primal in nature.They are a "territory marking" process.I have had Gf's that it is a genuine turn on for.I can see why SP's find it a turn off.Logistically....hair and make up take time.Emotionally,with no attachment, I can see why they'd find it humiliating and gross

 

[babemagnet]

I think stuff like facials are very primal in nature.They are a "territory marking" process.

Yes. Probably wouldn't have thought about it without porn. Also I read a review where my ATF provides rimming. I have never experienced that with her because it's not my thing and I was more involved with taking charge and doing her. I always thought she was way above that service level.However, now I find she is doing it for every other guy, I am pissed. I will make sure she gives me the "full experience" next time. Marking territory I guess.

 

[pignickbb]

I think it shows the ultimate act of submissiveness. That's why guys want it .Maybe it's a power and control thing.

 

[Celticman]

I think stuff like facials are very primal in nature. They are a "territory marking" process.I have had Gf's that it is a genuine turn on for. I can see why SP's find it a turn off. Logistically....hair and make up take time. Emotionally,with no attachment, I can see why they'd find it humiliating and gross

The territory marking has some logic. I can tell you that some SP's hate it. And to your point, find it gross.

 

[Buick Mackane]

Dominance and humiliation, or just emulating something they've seen in porn.

Now explain your kinks to us, Celticman.

 

[massman]

I like it with a girl who is really turned on by it. I never really got the appeal (feels better to cum inside a warm wet place imo!)but with a few gfs who really were turned on by seejng and feeling my cum on them, who was i to object? I quickly grew to enjoy it too.

 

[Celticman]

I think it shows the ultimate act of submissiveness. That's why guys want it . Maybe it's a power and control thing.

That was the conjecture from the three SPs that discussed it.

 

[luv4lust]

well i'll be the odd one out lol like always!
i fucking love it!!!
it's slutty, it's warm and gooey, and saves me alot on facial products lol. i'm 45 and easily still look 35 protein does a body good. i'm ok for shots anywhere above the waist {not in the eyes lol it burns like a mother fucker}

 

[Mr. Piggy]

But you like being the odd one out though Luv.

 

[calvin & hobbes]

I agree with the OP. Not my cup of tea either and I don't see the appeal to it. I always wondered what the attraction to it was! In my opinion, I find it degrading and disrespectful of the female.

Not bashing anyone who likes. If you like, go for it. I have my own kinks that I'm sure others would find unappealing.

 

[frankcastle]

I rarely do it.... typically this is an SP service along with bbbjcim so when I see SPs who offer it I take advantage of it.

Why? I must have jerked off to those kinds of scenes since I was 18 which was a long time ago. So I have probably conditioned myself to find it arousing. For me it's not about humiliation as it's only hot if the girl allows it. If someone indicates that they are into it, it's arousing to think that you are with a "kinky" girl.

It's not a dealbreaker for me as I am more of a MP guy so I guess I'm one of those guys who enjoys it but doesn't crave it.

I think it might also be a case of escalation. Hobby long enough and you want to try more things.

 

[MyHobbyist]

probably just to say you've done it.

 

[MrMessi]

Facials are hot n sexy. I do it be because it makes me feel like a porn star.

I just like to see my hot cum in a pretty girls face.

 

[legmann]

I don't get it either, and don't care to. I just don't get the appeal of pulling out, whipping off the condom and jerking myself off anywhere.

 

[james t kirk]

I love giving it and I've had several Girlfriends over the years ask for it and even those who don't specifically ask for it will usually go along.

Why?

For a pile of reasons.

From my point of view, I love putting my cock to a woman's face and shooting cum all over her. It's visually exciting and there is an element of sluttiness and degradation. I love super horny uninhibited women.

From the female point of view, some like the visual, some like being humiliated. Sex can be quite erotic when there is an element of humiliation to it. It's not a personal humiliation, it's sexual humiliation and being sexually humiliated tends to reset the psychie (myself included). Many women like to be dominated and a man treating her like a sex object and cumming all over her face is definitely a form of male domination. So it can be exciting.

I think that the SPs who don't allow it don't allow it because they are very sensitive to being humiliated given their profession. Also, there is the issue of exposure to semen and yes, it can wreck makeup too.

As a strange aside, sometimes when an unknown woman is giving me a hard time for whatever reason. Say I'm in the bank and they are putting me through the red tape ringer and she's got attitude, I just picture her in my mind with a facial running down her face and it makes me grin.

 

[Celticman]

From the female point of view, some like the visual, some like being humiliated. Sex can be quite erotic when there is an element of humiliation to it. It's not a personal humiliation, it's sexual humiliation and being sexually humiliated tends to reset the psychie (myself included). Many women like to be dominated and a man treating her like a sex object and cumming all over her face is definitely a form of male domination. So it can be exciting.

And here am I thinking it had to do with $250

 

[sharpbloke]

to me the most physically beautiful aspect of a woman is her face. when i cum on her face i just associate extreme pleasure and release with her pretty face. although i also like it when they swallow.