That which can’t be discussed

[Ahertz]

Yeah, I’m going there. No biggie if I get ejected from this forum…

Why can’t we have a proper, civilized discussion about BBFS on TERB?

What differentiates BBFS from any other sex act - I’m looking at you, PSE lovers, BDSM aficionados, etc. As long as it’s between two consenting adults… why be so hush hush about it?

Especially now that there are agencies/SPs that explicitly offer the service as an extra on this very forum (IYKYK, or just simply punch in the acronym in the search tool).

The reason I’m bringing this up is simple. I believe keeping BBFS off the table for discussion actually hurts the community more than it helps. It also puts more SPs at greater risk of having their boundaries pushed against their will.

Just yesterday, a fellow member insinuated that SPs who were fully booked were more likely than not offering BBFS. I know that there are SPs who do provide BBFS and likely have more traffic. But I also know that providing BBFS is not a prerequisite to being fully booked and that many, if not most, popular SPs categorically do not provide the service.

If we could speak openly about BBFS in the same way that we do BBBJs, Greek, FFs and throatpies, slapping and choking, and domination, I believe it would prevent some SP gems who are just good at what they do without having to resort to BBFS from being unnecessarily targeted from service hunters (i.e., the “does she do a PS?” crowd, f&#k those guys).

I knew a popular SP who was “outed” on that degenerate other board for providing BBFS even though she didn’t. She admitted that she was petrified to work in the subsequent weeks, not knowing what any non-regular client would be asking for.

Anyhow, I’ve spoken my bit. If I pull an involuntary Keyzer Soze and disappear from this forum, that’s ok, as I said up top… no biggie.

For one I imagine HIV will enter the chat that’s why. I think that’s the biggest issue. Some of you guys doing DATO and DATY on anyone you cross paths with that makes you hard even though you don’t their sexual history is one thing. Doing BBFS though it might be an epidemic in here lol. I imagine that’s why they constrain some of you from being able to engage

 

[Patron]

There is a lot of stereotyping of Asian/immigrant ladies and bbfs, let me bust a couple stereotypes.

The idea that some poor sp's want to get pregnant from johns who may never be seen again is just paranoia.

I recall 5 caucasian Canadian girls who offered it in the past and not so distant past
(one was Russian therefore not old-stock Canadian)
the price ranging from zero to prohibitive, pussyslide was available when I started hobbying decades ago
and long before the Asian influx, and don't mention cum or ps to many Latinas and other nationalites
unless you fancy getting insulted, spit on or bitch slapped (our friend rocco_s would pay for that lol)

Maybe those stereotypes are not valid in Canada, but discussions of BBFS is not banned any longer on TER, and is not banned on ISG or usasexguide.

For the U.S., virtually 100 percent of that discussion involves Asian massage parlors and Asian agencies.

On ISG, it involves southeast Asian countries, and Seeking ladies worldwide.

On the Aussie board, the same is true with respect to Asian parlors and groups (not so with Asian independents).

I am not one to stereotype out of ignorant prejudice. But I am not so woke that I won’t do so with observable data.

Now why so many Asians are offering this is indeed subject to conjecture.

But I think a lot of folks think that the ladies that work at Asian massage parlors and “groups” in the U.S. and rotate cities every couple of months have social lifes and opportunities to meet civilian guys. Most don’t, and in fact some of them live at the facility where they work.

 

[Jenesis]

Maybe those stereotypes are not valid in Canada, but discussions of BBFS is not banned any longer on TER, and is not banned on ISG or usasexguide.

For the U.S., virtually 100 percent of that discussion involves Asian massage parlors and Asian agencies.

On ISG, it involves southeast Asian countries, and Seeking ladies worldwide.

On the Aussie board, the same is true with respect to Asian parlors and groups (not so with Asian independents).

I am not one to stereotype out of ignorant prejudice. But I am not so woke that I won’t do so with observable data.

Now why so many Asians are offering this is indeed subject to conjecture.

But I think a lot of folks think that the ladies that work at Asian massage parlors and “groups” in the U.S. and rotate cities every couple of months have social lifes and opportunities to meet civilian guys. Most don’t, and in fact some of them live at the facility where they work.

This is a good example of why it should not be discussed because when the EE influx happened, everyone was talking BBBJ and that was a taboo back then. It was reviewed and posted it so much it put pressure on other escorts to offer the same. Which is now great for guys. Women have navigated the risk and bbbj is now a norm. It is not so bad risk wise so we are lucky so far, but the EE influx in combination of reviews completely normalized bbbj in the industry.

But what if the same thing happens with BBFS and Asian providers. It is becoming more and more of a thing with Asian providers and as stated is being advertised more. But if we start reviewing it, it will put more pressure on other escorts like the EE bbbj influx and now you have a bunch of people fucking multiple people bare because it has been normalized. I can’t see a worse idea to be honest.

Now for all those who are going to come after me for singling out Asian escorts. I know other escorts of all races do this as well but it seems it is becoming a normal with Asian escorts whereby they are even advertising it openly. This is not something I have seen as much with escorts of all the other races put together. I am happy to accept data counter to this if provided of course.

 

[jimidean2011]

Maybe those stereotypes are not valid in Canada, but discussions of BBFS is not banned any longer on TER, and is not banned on ISG or usasexguide.

For the U.S., virtually 100 percent of that discussion involves Asian massage parlors and Asian agencies.

On ISG, it involves southeast Asian countries, and Seeking ladies worldwide.

On the Aussie board, the same is true with respect to Asian parlors and groups (not so with Asian independents).

I am not one to stereotype out of ignorant prejudice. But I am not so woke that I won’t do so with observable data.

Now why so many Asians are offering this is indeed subject to conjecture.

But I think a lot of folks think that the ladies that work at Asian massage parlors and “groups” in the U.S. and rotate cities every couple of months have social lifes and opportunities to meet civilian guys. Most don’t, and in fact some of them live at the facility where they work.

Wait, so bbfs is now available for discussion here at terb? When did that happen?

 

[altid13]

Wait, so bbfs is now available for discussion here at terb? When did that happen?

He did not say it is available to be discussed on TERB. TER - Yes. He did not say TERB.

 

[jimidean2011]

He did not say it is available to be discussed on TERB. TER - Yes. He did not say TERB.

What is TER?

 

[Brown Nose Bear]

For all the reasons cited in this thread. If an SP does BBFS, I don't want to see her.

How would you know though, unless it was allowed to be discussed openly? As mentioned above, for some SPs it's an open secret that they offer it, but there are probably others that are selective and you would never know. I'm not in favor openly discussing it for the reasons others have stated, but this is one case where it would be helpful.

To the best of my knowledge, no TERB advertiser lists BBFS as an option in their menu.

Not true. I looked at 6 Asian agency ads in the ad section, 4 of them list it openly on their website (though one only says it in Chinese but not English), and 2 of them also advertise it right in their TERB ad.

 

[altid13]

What is TER?

A board used in the US and other countries... The Erotic Review. TERB is a much better board in my opinion.

 

[jimidean2011]

A board used in the US and other countries... The Erotic Review. TERB is a much better board in my opinion.

Thanks for clarifying.

 

[thalastjedi]

Yeah, I’m going there. No biggie if I get ejected from this forum…

Why can’t we have a proper, civilized discussion about BBFS on TERB?

What differentiates BBFS from any other sex act - I’m looking at you, PSE lovers, BDSM aficionados, etc. As long as it’s between two consenting adults… why be so hush hush about it?

Especially now that there are agencies/SPs that explicitly offer the service as an extra on this very forum (IYKYK, or just simply punch in the acronym in the search tool).

The reason I’m bringing this up is simple. I believe keeping BBFS off the table for discussion actually hurts the community more than it helps. It also puts more SPs at greater risk of having their boundaries pushed against their will.

Just yesterday, a fellow member insinuated that SPs who were fully booked were more likely than not offering BBFS. I know that there are SPs who do provide BBFS and likely have more traffic. But I also know that providing BBFS is not a prerequisite to being fully booked and that many, if not most, popular SPs categorically do not provide the service.

If we could speak openly about BBFS in the same way that we do BBBJs, Greek, FFs and throatpies, slapping and choking, and domination, I believe it would prevent some SP gems who are just good at what they do without having to resort to BBFS from being unnecessarily targeted from service hunters (i.e., the “does she do a PS?” crowd, f&#k those guys).

I knew a popular SP who was “outed” on that degenerate other board for providing BBFS even though she didn’t. She admitted that she was petrified to work in the subsequent weeks, not knowing what any non-regular client would be asking for.

Anyhow, I’ve spoken my bit. If I pull an involuntary Keyzer Soze and disappear from this forum, that’s ok, as I said up top… no biggie.

I avoid any SP ad that offers BBBF. I unknowingly booked a SP of Asian decent that offers this service and when I met her in person her pictures were quite different from the actual in-person meeting. When I compared the ad to the person and also read the entirety of the ad it stated BBBF. IMHO she looked sickly, especially around the eyes in the mouth the teeth looked bad well. Young girl but looked so unhealthy. I didn't stay and glad for it. I prefer to avoid SP that offer BBBF service. I have had a regular SP that began having feelings for me propose us no longer using condoms but I rejected this suggestion. Simply NMCOT

 

[wildestdream]

So you created this account strictly to discuss something you know is not allowed on this forum……..

What’s the motive? It is not just “open discussion”. Because if it was that innocent, you wouldn’t need a new handle.

Rest assured, I am not an international man of mystery.

I was a former upstanding member of this forum. I regularly contributed and hobbied over a roughly two-year period (I’m not a newbie, but I’ve also not been around the block more than once).

I recently asked to be removed from TERB because a) I was no longer hobbying regularly and b) more importantly, I realized I was becoming moderately addicted to this forum (but not the hobby).

Evidently I am not quite over my addiction and recently rejoined. That I posted on this subject matter as my “first” post was not my intention. As mentioned earlier, my post was triggered by another post insinuating BBFS. I had replied to that post but subsequently saw the original offending post and my reply be deleted from the record.

That said, I do believe this is a topic that deserved to be discussed. I think I’ve been reasonably clear in my motives for bringing up this subject with my two earlier posts.

 

[jimidean2011]

Rest assured, I am not an international man of mystery.

I was a former upstanding member of this forum. I regularly contributed and hobbied over a roughly two-year period (I’m not a newbie, but I’ve also not been around the block more than once).

I recently asked to be removed from TERB because a) I was no longer hobbying regularly and b) more importantly, I realized I was becoming moderately addicted to this forum (but not the hobby).

Evidently I am not quite over my addiction and recently rejoined. That I posted on this subject matter as my “first” post was not my intention. As mentioned earlier, my post was triggered by another post insinuating BBFS. I had replied to that post but subsequently saw the original offending post and my reply be deleted from the record.

That said, I do believe this is a topic that deserved to be discussed. I think I’ve been reasonably clear in my motives for bringing up this subject with my two earlier posts.

Welcome back, no one can escape TERB

 

[Jenesis]

Rest assured, I am not an international man of mystery.

I was a former upstanding member of this forum. I regularly contributed and hobbied over a roughly two-year period (I’m not a newbie, but I’ve also not been around the block more than once).

I recently asked to be removed from TERB because a) I was no longer hobbying regularly and b) more importantly, I realized I was becoming moderately addicted to this forum (but not the hobby).

Evidently I am not quite over my addiction and recently rejoined. That I posted on this subject matter as my “first” post was not my intention. As mentioned earlier, my post was triggered by another post insinuating BBFS. I had replied to that post but subsequently saw the original offending post and my reply be deleted from the record.

That said, I do believe this is a topic that deserved to be discussed. I think I’ve been reasonably clear in my motives for bringing up this subject with my two earlier posts.

I appreciate the clarification. Thank you. It is just always highly suspicious when someone comes out of the gate this way. Sorry for the accusation. I truly apologize. You know that we get some repeatedly banned members looking to cause trouble and with a taboo subject like this …. Well my spidey senses were going off but clearly incorrectly so my bad. I’ll edit my first post to reflect my mistake.

And I get the addiction. TERB is literally my social media interaction. I don’t do IG, X, Snap or TikTok or anything. FB is for family only so this is where I interact virtually.

 

[xmontrealer]

I appreciate the clarification. Thank you. It is just always highly suspicious when someone comes out of the gate this way. Sorry for the accusation. I truly apologize. You know that we get some repeatedly banned members looking to cause trouble and with a taboo subject like this …. Well my spidey senses were going off but clearly incorrectly so my bad. I’ll edit my first post to reflect my mistake.

And I get the addiction. TERB is literally my social media interaction. I don’t do IG, X, Snap or TikTok or anything. FB is for family only so this is where I interact virtually.

How do you get to sleep at night without at least 45 minutes of TikTok scrolling just before lights out, like I do?

 

[DesRicardo]

The reason I’m bringing this up is simple. I believe keeping BBFS off the table for discussion actually hurts the community more than it helps. It also puts more SPs at greater risk of having their boundaries pushed against their will.

Stop it.

You're down bad and just want leads for BBFS providers.

 

[Jenesis]

How do you get to sleep at night without at least 45 minutes of TikTok scrolling just before lights out, like I do?

I go fishing. LOL.

which I’m off to now so wish me luck!!!!

 

[wildestdream]

I appreciate the clarification. Thank you. It is just always highly suspicious when someone comes out of the gate this way. Sorry for the accusation. I truly apologize. You know that we get some repeatedly banned members looking to cause trouble and with a taboo subject like this …. Well my spidey senses were going off but clearly incorrectly so my bad. I’ll edit my first post to reflect my mistake.

And I get the addiction. TERB is literally my social media interaction. I don’t do IG, X, Snap or TikTok or anything. FB is for family only so this is where I interact virtually.

It’s all good. No offence taken!

 

[snakebrisket]

I need to know who in their right mind would have BBFS with a SP? I mean even with an ongoing relationship with a civvie, I use condominiums for a while.

 

[xix]

I need to know who in their right mind would have BBFS with a SP? I mean even with an ongoing relationship with a civvie, I use condominiums for a while.

Some body is going to be a Father soon.

 

[SexB]

My understanding is that it's considered off limits because if anything is posted about a provider who offers it, every moron who seeks it out will book with her and any other lady who offers it.

It can also be used as a way to damage a provider's reputation, whether it's by a disgruntled client or a rival SP.