Texting sucks!

[Modernman]

I only communicate by text app and have no issues. Even a lot of ladies who say no text app will respond to a well written message from a text app. Perhaps you don't, and I've had some say they won't take my booking because I'm using a text app, but to say "a lot" of ladies won't take your booking by text app is erroneous imho.

To the OP, use a text app and turn off notifications for the app. You will just have to make sure you're not missing messages when setting something up, but text apps are fine.

I didn't know people still used email lol.

I think the biggest difference with text apps vs email varies on the girl. Your typical LL poster will prefer texts / will accept apps etc. Ladies who are more known often use email since the majority of them have a direct booking form or contact form on their website. But this is an entirely other topic that has been discussed lots before. Different strokes for different folks.

 

[B00blover]

I think the biggest difference with text apps vs email varies on the girl. Your typical LL poster will prefer texts / will accept apps etc. Ladies who are more known often use email since the majority of them have a direct booking form or contact form on their website. But this is an entirely other topic that has been discussed lots before. Different strokes for different folks.

Yeah, I never see those types so that explains my lack of need for email. Thanks for the insight!

 

[Carleton Place Gent]

Absolutely, Utterly and Completely UNSATISFACTORY.

Get a burner phone and leave it at work or hidden in the car. Spare Tire well. Turn it off and password protect when not in use.

Email is another route, but not all ladies utilize this means of communication.

 

[Roger loyer]

Wow, so many comments! Thanks guys and girls, it seems like people actually care! Like I said, I signed up for a new email, log on only on private mode on my phone. if I call I call with blocked number. Unfortunately , as some have mentioned, many do not answer blocked numbers and mention in their ads no blocked number calls. By the way my wife took my phone and went through everything, history of calls texts emails etc. Now I have to find a new place to stay no divorce for now only separation which sucks but I guess I asked for it!

 

[Carleton Place Gent]

You never asked for anything brother. You are absolutely a victim of professional misconduct and selfishness by the provider. I wish is was acceptable to post their name. Maybe it is but I suspect it is probably not.

 

[source]

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To the OP, use a text app and turn off notifications for the app. You will just have to make sure you're not missing messages when setting something up, but text apps are fine.
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To complement your suggestion, turn off all notifications but (If your phone allows it) change the color of the phone's notification blinking led to blue for the text app. That way, just a glance at the phone you'll see if there's a message waiting.

 

[massman]

Wow, so many comments! Thanks guys and girls, it seems like people actually care! Like I said, I signed up for a new email, log on only on private mode on my phone. if I call I call with blocked number. Unfortunately , as some have mentioned, many do not answer blocked numbers and mention in their ads no blocked number calls. By the way my wife took my phone and went through everything, history of calls texts emails etc. Now I have to find a new place to stay no divorce for now only separation which sucks but I guess I asked for it!

Fuck man, sorry to hear, but if you have this much to lose, you need to cover your tracks better and delete all the stuff that could get you in trouble, including web pages, emails and texts. You can’t count on random unknown people to protect your privacy / security. I say this not to rub it in, as I know you are already regretting all of this, but as a lesson to others.

 

[newbylover]

Wow, so many comments! Thanks guys and girls, it seems like people actually care! Like I said, I signed up for a new email, log on only on private mode on my phone. if I call I call with blocked number. Unfortunately , as some have mentioned, many do not answer blocked numbers and mention in their ads no blocked number calls. By the way my wife took my phone and went through everything, history of calls texts emails etc. Now I have to find a new place to stay no divorce for now only separation which sucks but I guess I asked for it!

I am so sorry about this.

I hope things get a bit better. I agree with some of the gents comments, I also don't carry anything with me except a nicely covered envelope and walk for 500 m or so to the destination. I use a burner SIM and keep everything separate.

I feel for you bro. I think the SP is at fault certainly.

 

[Squaresand]

I am so sorry about this.

I hope things get a bit better. I agree with some of the gents comments, I also don't carry anything with me except a nicely covered envelope and walk for 500 m or so to the destination. I use a burner SIM and keep everything separate.

I feel for you bro. I think the SP is at fault certainly.

What do you mean by burner SIM? Aren't all SIMs in the country tied to a government issued ID and name?

 

[massman]

What do you mean by burner SIM? Aren't all SIMs in the country tied to a government issued ID and name?

No

 

[newbylover]

What do you mean by burner SIM? Aren't all SIMs in the country tied to a government issued ID and name?

Try sim only search e.g. LYCa.

 

[Taraparker]

I think the biggest difference with text apps vs email varies on the girl. Your typical LL poster will prefer texts / will accept apps etc. Ladies who are more known often use email since the majority of them have a direct booking form or contact form on their website. But this is an entirely other topic that has been discussed lots before. Different strokes for different folks.

I exclusively use email now and so do lot of others. It’s more discreet for me and I’m too ADHD to have too many different channels of communication, too many inquiries have slipped through the cracks when I had text, Twitter DM email all at once. Less is more IMO

 

[Like tiny ones]

I love text just protect your phone

 

[massman]

I love text just protect your phone

Text is great for minute to minute communication. Email is better for asynchronous communication, where plans take place over several hours to days. And a lot less people have pop up preview notifications on their phone for emails vs texts.

 

[escortsxxx]

I exclusively use email now and so do lot of others. It’s more discreet for me and I’m too ADHD to have too many different channels of communication, too many inquiries have slipped through the cracks when I had text, Twitter DM email all at once. Less is more IMO

I'm not a fan of email But I sure prefer it over texting. I still prefer the good old days where you just called the girl. People got avib for each other. Easy simple fast. And for more Personal.

 

[KittyCaterina]

For me texting or calling is especially important the day of when I give my exact location and when I require fast communication upon arrival for my buzzer and unit numbers.
Personally I find email too unreliable for that part and have trouble with clients' or my emails going to spam.

 

[KittyCaterina]

For me texting or calling is especially important the day of when I give my exact location and when I require fast communication upon arrival for my buzzer and unit numbers.
Personally I find email too unreliable for that part and have trouble with clients' or my emails going to spam.

Also, in Kingston I don't yet require deposits or ID, so for new clients to email me I have no way to verify them .
With texts I can at least verify that it is a true phone number connected to a verified carrier.
It lessens the no shows and eff arounds.

 

[source]

I see this thread that started by an unfortunate incident of a guy that got "burned" is now skidding in communication preferences.

To wrap this up, it's a provider's privilege to choose her channel of communication. It's the client's responsibility to respect that and to act accordingly.

 

[MyBigToe?]

Wow, so many comments! Thanks guys and girls, it seems like people actually care! Like I said, I signed up for a new email, log on only on private mode on my phone. if I call I call with blocked number. Unfortunately , as some have mentioned, many do not answer blocked numbers and mention in their ads no blocked number calls. By the way my wife took my phone and went through everything, history of calls texts emails etc. Now I have to find a new place to stay no divorce for now only separation which sucks but I guess I asked for it!

That is tough my friend. You did not “ask for it”. Providers that message you unsolicited, should be identified so we know to avoid them. People use the services offered for many reasons, they should not be blindly judged for it, nor should they lose their career or marriage.
And for the record, way more female spouses play around than people realize. They just have more options and an easier time doing it.

 

[golfer1948]

I guess I'm a bit lucky. SO never looks at my phone and but in any event, I always keep it in my pocket. If it dings with a text message and if she's nearby she may ask what was that. I'll look at the phone and if it's safe I'll tell her, and on the off chance it's an SP responding to my text I'll just say something like "it's Bob talking about last night's hockey game" or whatever - works every time.

Having sad all that, the SP who texted the OP should be outed so guys can avoid contacting her in order to not get in trouble because of her totally unprofessional approach. .