Terbettes!

[angelblue]

Ladies, I've had a very disturbing thing happen that involves a client and my safety and personal information. I found out that a regular of mine has done something that has me incredibly freaked out. He now knows my full name and address!!!! Not only do I want to warn you all about his methods, but I need some advice!
PM me for details, OK?!?
Thanks!
AB

 

[rhuarc29]

You gave him your email and he guessed your password?

I only say that because I know one lady, no longer in the business, who had a similar situation. Luckily nothing came of it.

 

[angelblue]

If it were so simple... easy to change a password!
I can't change this so easily, and moving is just not in my agenda at this time! F&%K!!!

 

[lovelatinas]

Is he stalking you? If so, call the police and get a restraining order against him.

 

[rhuarc29]

Actually he changed her password once he was in which is how she knew something was up. She had to ask hotmail to temporarily block her account, but by then the damage had been done (ie her personal info was available to this guy). Incredibly she confronted him on it and he confessed. According to her she had a hunch it was him as she'd been getting a bad vibe off him lately. She never saw the guy again. Not sure I'd suggest you risk such a confrontation though...

Hopefully your guy isn't interested in causing trouble and that the gals are giving you some good advice.
Good luck!

 

[angelblue]

So anyways... this has nothing to do with emails and passwords. Never in my wildest imagination (and it is wild would I have suspected someone would go to the lengths this individual has. Up to this point, he visited me at least once a week. Sometimes more! Great client who has followed me to new places. He has my personal cell # so he could confirm my availability. But other than that, we have been strictly business. I have just recently moved work locations, so this can at least limit that contact, but NOW HE KNOWS WHERE I LIVE!!! And it was crazy easy to find out what he did. Stalking???...haven't seen him lurking as yet, and that better not happen or the police will have to called! I do think he lurks here so I really do just want to warn my girls about his actions. If you are concerned at all about your identity in this biz, pm me.

 

[On_the_side]

I think you can do a reverse look up based on a phone number no?

 

[angelblue]

I'm unlisted! But keep 'em coming, thankx! There may be more ways we need to think about.

 

[Blackheart]

http://www.glock.com/

 

[rhuarc29]

Feel free not to answer if it's private, but how exactly do you know he has this information?

 

[HOF]

Feel free not to answer if it's private, but how exactly do you know he has this information?

I was wondering the same thing.

 

[angelblue]

We met yesterday for a session, and he told me he knew my real name, which he did! I probably looked stunned, which I am still, because he asked me if I was pissed off with what he did. I AM!!! The session after was worthy of an oscar, imo. Needless to say I am thankful I have his home # too, and could use it if needed, but really, too much.

 

[HOF]

We met yesterday for a session, and he told me he knew my real name, which he did! I probably looked stunned, which I am still, because he asked me if I was pissed off with what he did. I AM!!! The session after was worthy of an oscar, imo. Needless to say I am thankful I have his home # too, and could use it if needed, but really, too much.

If I may ask, how did he get your info and why did you service?

 

[rhuarc29]

I would take the fact that he fessed up as a good sign. You have his home # and name so unless he doesn't have much of a life I doubt he'd risk what he has. The fact that he has your personal information concerns me less than the fact he used shady methods, or so you seem to be suggesting.

 

[DocOdd]

It seems likely that at least part of the answer to how he figured this out is that he took piece of information X that seemed harmless and found a way to use it to find out a lot more than you would expect. It's possible that angelblue gave piece of information X to other guys (or that they figured it out), in which case being specific about this (even to the vague extent of saying it involved information of a certain type, where X is of that type) would tell anyone else who knew X how to find out about angelblue, which obviously wouldn't be desirable. So might not be the best idea to keep following up on how this guy figured it out.

 

[angelblue]

Exactly! This thread is directed to providers of services who want to do everything they can do to keep personal information personal.
Ladies, please pm me. Thanks all!
xox AB

 

[rhuarc29]

I've always loved the partisanship of the SP/Client privacy agreement...

 

[905asianqt]

Exactly! This thread is directed to providers of services who want to do everything they can do to keep personal information personal.
Ladies, please pm me. Thanks all!
xox AB

Hello AB,

I am wondering as to who this client might be, just in case he tries to see me, which city did this happen in or where he resides approximately and how he did this and got a hold of your info?

Please PM me because yours is full and thank you in advance for your time

 

[loveisblind]

Hello AB,

I am wondering as to who this client might be, just in case he tries to see me, which city did this happen in or where he resides approximately and how he did this and got a hold of your info?

Please PM me because yours is full and thank you in advance for your time

AB can you please message me tooo hun your box is full

 

[angelblue]

My apologies - I've house cleaned my mailbox, and have sent out some PM's.
xox AB