Technique - does it matter?

[Socrates]

How important is sexual technique to a successful SP/client encounter? Is good technique essential to a great session or is a skill-free but high fun fumbled tumble the best?

The standard characterisation of males is that they know nothing in this department and, worse, that it is impossible to tell them anything to assist them in pleasuring the ladies for fear of their egos shrinking faster than their members.

The standard assumption is (I guess) that all SPs are harlots, courtesans, concubines, etc, etc, etc.....every one of them arriving at the client's door equipped with a summa cum laude from Kama Sutra University.

Let's share some experiences. I'll start with one of my own. I was with someone recently who was happy enough to be with me, but the mechanics were, well, too mechanical and a touch contrived. I felt that my partner was relying far too much upon clever technique (and was a touch arrogant about the level of skill being deployed) instead of even attempting a "connection" with me beyond the physical. How can I put it - it just wasn't "human".

Nett result - obvously I remember the session, but for all the wrong reasons. Disappointment, not warmth, is the thing I recall.

 

[Alien (<>..<>)]

I don't like mechanical SP's I like SP's who can ride good and know how to please a man.

 

[Socrates]

Rather missed the point...

Your reply is at cross purposes. The first section is the opposite of the second.

Or, to do with chalk for one with limited grasp of English and logic, how can you say "...don't like mechanical ... I like SP's who can ride good..." in the same sentence?

Try harder with your next reply without being too mechanical.

 

[Quirt]

Make mine more natureal

For me, I would take a fumbling romp over a technical interpay anytime. I love the "fun & emotional" part of any enounter. If I feel that a connection has been made on an emotional level, I'm back like a shot.

Any encounter with an automoton, no matter how correct usually leaves me wanting something...and that something is not a reason for me to have a return engagement!

 

[elaine]

Gimme a fumble tumble anyday to an expert with the KS book in his pocket. When two,(assumming I have a clue what I am doing) sexual charged people collide a war entails. "Look what I can do", oh I can beat that, "look at this", mmmm "Have you had this happen to you" oh ya just wait, here's my winning number.... and we forgot the plot of making out.

I am passive in the degree that he needs to give me some signal he's ready, then I take over. Otherwise we will talk and may never get out of the tub.

But a good fumble time, one you can laugh together, before during, and after, and even with a few, "hey what the heck, never knew my legs could do that" in the mean time, to me can be more rewarding cause there is no tug of war.

But Socrates "that all SPs are harlots, courtesans, concubines, etc, etc, etc....."

I don't believe many actually assume this.