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swanky

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How does this arrangement work? Do you pay the lady set amount of money per month and she promises certain hours of service? Is sex always involved? Do you pay for anything else such as clothes, rent, etc?

What are the benefits of this arrangement as oppose to seeing an SP with dinner and sex?

What are the pitfalls? May be getting emotionally attached?

Been thinking of such an arrangement but I'd like to hear from those who have been in this kind of a relationship.
 
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It can vary a lot depending on the arrangement you are both willing to accept.

It can be rent, it can be clothes, trips, allowance or all of the above or part of the above.

I think the key is to be sure you both are able to articulate your needs/wants and be comfortable with it. And, also be able to speak up when you're not happy with the way things are going. I know that all sounds easy, but in the moment it becomes hard. Also, the longer you are with her, inevitably feelings get involved and then you consider putting your needs aside to take care of her.

The sex can be really good though and usually unrushed. All in all the greater likelihood of headaches. If you just need sex, sp all the way!
 
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If you have a mistress you get pussy and it costs, If you have a wife you get vagina and it costs more:frusty: If you have both and can afford it then god bless
 
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I've seen some SPs websites offer discounts or extended times for a monthly fee. You give them the fee at the beginning of each month and in exchange you get guaranteed times each month. Maybe two five-hour dates and one overnight or something like that. Not sure if that's what you're looking for.
 
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razorramon217

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Don't bother. You'll waste your money and time. What a sugar baby wants is 3-12K per month and some are ugly as damn sin. Some are very fat and not attractive at all. I had a sugar baby for a while and dumped her after 4 months as she was getting needy and asking for movie, dinner dates etc. A found another one that was a good Russian lady who was amazing in the sack and then her and her boyfriend tried to extort me as they mistakenly thought I was married...wrong.

It's a LOT cheaper to find 2-3 escorts you enjoy spending time with and spending money on them. Sugarbaby is garbage.
 
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scouser1

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I posted an ad a couple of years back on Craig's List in hopes of setting something like this up, looking for an early 20's hottie who I wanted to get together with, have dinner possibly and some dirty nasty sex in exchange for money. Well what an absolute disaster!! never mind the endless spam I got, but the list of hilarious responses included a girl who wanted to see a pic of me first to determine "if it was worth it", another big gal who wanted the money up front before she did anything, and yet another who backed out an hour before we were suppose to meet up. Having had that experience I simply gave up and decided that an sp is the easier route to go, but the thing is finding an 18-23 sp who is top notch in her business skills and a nice person seems to be very difficult.
 
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Smallcock

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Most marriages are just embellished sugardaddy relationships.
 
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AndyQuest

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I've tried with two different girls about 8 years ago. Didn't work with either. Typically, a SugarBaby wants a certain amount every month and with very little guarantee of any service. The only guarantee is how much they want every month but then again, that keeps changing month after month as they want more and more . I've also found the sex was not very interesting. I do think it's because they believe they have you as SugarDaddy from month to month and they don't need to perform. My personal opinion, get a good SP and spend as much time with her as you can and you'll be better off and will appreciate the sex and companionship a lot more. To tell you the truth, I found it much more apparent that the SugarBaby was in it for the money than the SP's I've seen so far. With the SP's I've seen, they truly made me feel like they were my girlfriend...with the Sugarbaby, not so much.
 
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I had a few. It's actually pretty fun and they are young and fresh if you know what i'm saying.

As long as you compensate and respect them, you will have a lot of fun.

Nah..never got emotionally attached. I had too many of them.
 
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franktl

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adventurous_man said:
I had a few. It's actually pretty fun and they are young and fresh if you know what i'm saying.

As long as you compensate and respect them, you will have a lot of fun.

Nah..never got emotionally attached. I had too many of them.
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How did you find them?
 
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yolosohobby

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i actually use the company referenced in Post 9 BUT not for Toronto, too many cleaner (in terms of the nature of the arrangement) options in our SP, MPA and straight up civilian community. I use it when i travel. It is a good way to screen dates. If i know i am going to be going somewhere, I'll do a little search , make contact, and it works surprising well --- in effect a short term, sugar daddy arrangement.
 
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I did this for a few years mostly through craigslist and Seekingarrangement... I met a lot of kooky girls but also some of the most amazing girls Ive ever been with, a few of witch went onto to just being fantastic FWB's

The trick is weeding through all the 'pro' sugar babies and finding those unique, honest students who really just want a hand where they can get it and explore their sexuality at the same time.

Give it a shot! Plenty of shenanigans!
 
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yolosohobby

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Sweet Petite Jessica said:
Another thing to consider if one is considering an SP for this sort of arrangement is the cost of exclusivity, which would be considerable. That may not be a priority but it often is... so I would suggest the sites designed specifically for those looking for an SD/SB connection.
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i know for a fact that 1000 a month goes a long long way in the sd/sb market , including exclusivity w the right sb

gems in every market !
 
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yolosohobby

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Sweet Petite Jessica said:
oh exactly ... there's no way you'd get exclusivity with an sp for a week for 1K, certainly not a month! we agree :)
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we do! i had a 6 month deal last yr with 2 students, 1200 a month (their rent), TOTAL (well i paid for party supplies - we never went out in public) they visited every friday and stayed all night . The only time Ive done it in Toronto, the deal was just TOO perfect to refuse
 
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If you want exclusivity..and by that I'm talking pure exclusivity...I'd say your looking at atleast 5k/mo...and thats just hers..then the apt..maybe a leased vehicle ....but in that arrangement She is with me...only and I'm not seeing anyone else...either.....IMHO
 
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