Sugar Dating Experience

[Gentleman771]

this shit is the biggest waste of time. i’ll be honest all these girls are just down to fuck for 700-1k. which is way too much

i’m under 40 and all of them are like they don’t even need a meeting for drinks or vibes, just willing to come over to ur place but for the min of 700 generally with the hot young ones wanting 1k. this is so stupid. and they all have attitude if you don’t want to pay their price. this is the biggest waste of money. just stick to hot younger sps. this is a fucking waste of time and i blame these dudes who are desperate and horny paying 1k to have a young girl once

Why do you think those dudes do that?

Is it cuz of their own psychological connotations, they'd rather be a "sugar daddy" than a "john"?

 

[newguy2201]

Why do you think those dudes do that?

Is it cuz of their own psychological connotations, they'd rather be a "sugar daddy" than a "john"?

Yes I think so, same for the girls. The plausible deniability of saying "I'm not an escort, I just have sex for money", it "I would never partake in sex work, but I would love to meet a young woman who needs help with her bills and then have sex with her"

Also I think for me at least, and one of the reasons I tried it was the allure of meeting someone closer to a civvie who maybe wasn't as rigid with the time/money like an SP.

And I believe they are out there. You just have to work for it. The guys on the chat on the app I was on would share stories and some sounded really appealing

But these guys were in that world for years and would just take opportunities to meet good ones and make decent arrangements when they could.

Guys would talk about finding girls that they could pay $4-600 PPM or $1200 a month arrangement for 2 meets, and the meets would be afternoons with meals and multiple sessions, and grow to overnights eventually or sometimes like a GF would.

I mean it could have been all talk but it seemed legit. And those seemed few and far between and not long lasting.

 

[Daddy2021]

Why do you think those dudes do that?

Is it cuz of their own psychological connotations, they'd rather be a "sugar daddy" than a "john"?

Sugar Daddies need to give the sugar. It was never meant for penny pinchers to try and get a multi hour bargain. Ladies are seeing right through that. Don’t go on a sight that is meant for wealthy men then blame the ladies when they want you to walk the walk just be cheap seeing less expensive sps and leave being a sugar daddy to those that actually afford the sugar.

 

[amuvamsi]

$300 was the rate pre-covid. $500-$600 is the typical ppm in 2026. Anyone still charging $300 is either a noob, not desirable or a scam.

Yes , pre-covid things are different even the girls ratio is very high and mostly college students $300 is good money for them. now a days lot of professionals you find in these sites and they want to charge by time - fair. SB game is changed after covid with every thing else in life. Good Luck.

 

[CLOUD 500]

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i might have to try ur method where you have a bit of charisma and charm on a chat and use urgency by not being a tire kicker to get your way. the thing is a lot of these girls are fishing, realistically they just want one or two guys a month to pay their 1k and don’t care for volume. a lot of them just want to get that extra 1-2k a month and so they have the power to not even entertain the low balls cause they know eventually one sucker will bite, and they would rather fuck the one guy for 1k then two guys for 700 each or 1400.

Well a few things feminism and misandry comes to play but also since the last couple of years there is an explosion of simps. I see it everywhere and on this board. The simps ruin dating for all of us and this hobby also.

 

[Lv Wmn]

Ugh, reading this I was considering trying seeking now, maybe not. If there are not many profiles and it is more expensive I am not sure I will try it. I had some success on SD meet but I have also had MASSIVE misses there

In the end probably easier to just stick with SP's

Update, I got "bored" and decided to look into Seeking. I may have the filters pretty high especailly regarding distance but there were SO MANY profiles on the first page that had not been active in MONTHS I decided that it would not be worth joining. How many of these SB's that have not been active i more than a month are even checking messages? Feels to me like I will be just trying to contact them with no replies.

Don't get me started on how much it is to join so you can message for even a month. I MIGHT go back to SDM for a month but I can't see joining Seeking.

 

[Zippythepinhead]

Pass on the ones who have not been active for more than a couple of weeks

 

[GeeBee]

I try not to take it personally, but I can actually relate to her having a holy shit moment and the flight response taking over. Been there.

I can relate to this too, I’ve had it happen with a very nervous new girl. She didn’t bail and run but I could see the debate happening on her face about going through with it. I tried not to be a jerk even though I was disappointed, and told her we could just finish the coffee and no strings at all and she relaxed. She did text me the next day to apologise and thank me for being a gentleman about it all, which I appreciated. Sometimes it's good to just let things roll off your back and be empathetic.
The next day her profile disappeared from Seeking, never to be seen again.

I’m honestly surprised it hasn’t happened more tbh. I can’t imagine being in a university girl's position and showing up to meet an older guy because I needed the money.