Sugar Dating Experience

[FunInToronto2023]

Are you saying "not worth it" in general, or just for you?

He has to mean just for him. I’ve had different experiences with SBs over the years. Totally to each their own.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

I’ve lost count of how many SB’s I’ve smashed with DFK and BBBJCIM. Very first one I hooked up with was a 10 and 200 for her to come over and we went at it 3 times. Crazy how many experiences like that or get a hotel room or go to their place and it’s an absolute fk fest. Definitely feeds the addiction.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

The average PPM seems to be $300-400 to hangout for hours and fuck too. Crazy you're getting a few 10/10 at $200.

I haven’t for a little while have had lots of 6-7s for nothing as well. Lots of 8s at 200-400. Usually it’s the 7 that’s a bit quiet that are crazy in bed

 

[Hipjdog]

Generally speaking, seeing SP's is much more direct, easy experience.

But if you land on a sugar baby you like I would argue the experience is much better. No time limit, better service level,
plus you have some sort of relationship with the girl.

So yeah the Sugaring world can be frustrating but there are a few gems in there.

 

[DtheB]

He has to mean just for him. I’ve had different experiences with SBs over the years. Totally to each their own.

I would agree that THAT should be the right approach. But I've learned that some people need to convince others of the "folly of their ways".

 

[DtheB]

For me.

Glad to hear. Even though I realize your comment was in text, I detected a "tone" that implied others should agree with you. That is why I asked for clarification.

Other men might enjoy it but the price and service doesn't add up especially if she's a 6. A high end escort would be more worth it. I require DFK & BBBJCIM so if it's not an option from a SB then meh.

I'd rather give a 8/10 or higher SP who wants less than 200 for HH offering a good size menu plus we do nice cuddling and that's more than enough for me.

FYI, I've seen hundreds of SPs and over 100 SBs and my personal experience has been that on average SBs are typically more open/have a wider menu than SPs. As well many of the SBs who are restrictive are usually professional girls posing as SBs and looking for ways to get more work.

And BTW, I've met many fine girls, both SBs and girls in the industry and even had some relationships. Sometimes I'm in the mood for one, and sometimes it's the other.

 

[inmyname]

Glad to hear. Even though I realize your comment was in text, I detected a "tone" that implied others should agree with you. That is why I asked for clarification.


FYI, I've seen hundreds of SPs and over 100 SBs and my personal experience has been that on average SBs are typically more open/have a wider menu than SPs. As well many of the SBs who are restrictive are usually professional girls posing as SBs and looking for ways to get more work.

And BTW, I've met many fine girls, both SBs and girls in the industry and even had some relationships. Sometimes I'm in the mood for one, and sometimes it's the other.

Are you having good luck finding good S.B even now?

 

[DtheB]

Are you having good luck finding good S.B even now?

It's been decent. I've had some good sex with a couple of girls for the last 4 or 5 weeks. I also got scammed once. My own fault for not following my own guidelines.

But I need variety. I get bored too quickly. Having said that, I've also met some girls who have kept my interest for a solid year or two.

To sum it up, it's fuckin' hit or miss. LOL

 

[Hypehobby123]

It's been decent. I've had some good sex with a couple of girls for the last 4 or 5 weeks. I also got scammed once. My own fault for not following my own guidelines.

But I need variety. I get bored too quickly. Having said that, I've also met some girls who have kept my interest for a solid year or two.

To sum it up, it's fuckin' hit or miss. LOL

what are your guidelines and what’s your current strategy. looking to get back into the sb world.

 

[Velvets]

Decided to give it a try.
Day 1 had someone who proposed PPM later that evening after just a few nessages. No pretense or anything. Wanted $450 without hosting. Maybe a 6 or 7
Also had another girl ask for a fee just to meet and stated “no intimacy on the first date”
Day 2 had another girl ask for $1,000 and she wasn’t even that hot. Again a 6 or 7. Don’t even know if the sex would be any good.
I declined. No way I’m paying that. I can get an SP for 3 or 4 hours for that or a high end SP for 2 hours.

Update !
Another wanted $500 to meet her for the first time and have dinner … and nothing else.
Are these girls crazy ? Do they think we’re all idiots ?

Anyone want to share some good SB that they used to see but have stopped.
Brother needs some help here !

 

[FunInToronto2023]

It's been decent. I've had some good sex with a couple of girls for the last 4 or 5 weeks. I also got scammed once. My own fault for not following my own guidelines.

But I need variety. I get bored too quickly. Having said that, I've also met some girls who have kept my interest for a solid year or two.

To sum it up, it's fuckin' hit or miss. LOL

Exactly my experience it’s hit or miss and I still have a few I’m open to meeting up with from time to time from the past 4 years. A couple of super hot ones are getting married now and it’s crazy to think just a couple of years ago I was hooking up with them. It’s kind of a turn on actually.

same on the variety too. So bored so fast and it’s not even the girls fault. Can have incredible off the charts hook up with an SB and the brain is wired to find something different. And it’s crazy because I can hook up with a smoking hot face and body girl and we’re totally into each other and then find another girl that’s maybe a 6-7 face and body and still massively have a good time with her. Those SBs I find are gems because you give them some funds, maybe a nice dinner and a hotel and they feel genuinely happy because guys their age maybe can’t afford to do that and more so 99% of guys just wouldn’t bother.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Update !
Another wanted $500 to meet her for the first time and have dinner … and nothing else.
Are these girls crazy ? Do they think we’re all idiots ?

Anyone want to share some good SB that they used to see but have stopped.
Brother needs some help here !

A real SB won’t get shared. They’re real civvies. They have families etc and aren’t SPs. Some might argue what they’re doing is the same as an SP but they definitely don’t have a body count even close to an SP or angle themselves that way. The real ones like a girl in college who likes a more mature guy that treats her with respect and spoils her a bit. Tons of them out there or young that are working and appreciate not just the help but the interaction is great too. Different than a set time with an SP it’s way more real and fluid, especially sleep overs.

 

[inmyname]

It's been decent. I've had some good sex with a couple of girls for the last 4 or 5 weeks. I also got scammed once. My own fault for not following my own guidelines.

But I need variety. I get bored too quickly. Having said that, I've also met some girls who have kept my interest for a solid year or two.

To sum it up, it's fuckin' hit or miss. LOL

What guidelines do you follow?

And no worries about your face being on these S.B sites?

 

[Velvets]

A real SB won’t get shared. They’re real civvies. They have families etc and aren’t SPs. Some might argue what they’re doing is the same as an SP but they definitely don’t have a body count even close to an SP or angle themselves that way. The real ones like a girl in college who likes a more mature guy that treats her with respect and spoils her a bit. Tons of them out there or young that are working and appreciate not just the help but the interaction is great too. Different than a set time with an SP it’s way more real and fluid, especially sleep overs.

Not sure how this is relevant to what I posted …

 

[newguy2201]

Not sure how this is relevant to what I posted …

You asked for someone to share their known SB. He said no then gave an explanation that said essentially "if she's a real SB, she won't let herself be shared. So if someone shares an SB with you, she isn't an SB"

It was basically a wordy "no" to your request.

 

[lomotil]

A real SB won’t get shared. They’re real civvies. They have families etc and aren’t SPs. Some might argue what they’re doing is the same as an SP but they definitely don’t have a body count even close to an SP or angle themselves that way. The real ones like a girl in college who likes a more mature guy that treats her with respect and spoils her a bit. Tons of them out there or young that are working and appreciate not just the help but the interaction is great too. Different than a set time with an SP it’s way more real and fluid, especially sleep overs.

SBs can and do cheat on their underwriter as do married women . Often they give themselves to their lover for free .

 

[madappl3s]

I’m curious if you guys that have been with SB’s have SO’s.

Yes, I've been married 25yrs, been sugaring since 2013.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

You asked for someone to share their known SB. He said no then gave an explanation that said essentially "if she's a real SB, she won't let herself be shared. So if someone shares an SB with you, she isn't an SB"

It was basically a wordy "no" to your request.

Yeah that’s basically it. It’s fair to share experience of an SP and identify them but a regular girl being a temporary SB isn’t fair. She’s not a pro. Many are 19-30 and need a bit of extra cash and will connect only if they’re attracted to you as well (from my experience). An SP will pretty much put up with getting smashed by anyone unless otherwise noted in their profile. And they’ll do it multiple times in a work day with different guys. SBs don’t. At least from my experience anyways.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

It's nice finding ones who want less than $200 and they are perfectly fine with you crashing the night too. I've met about 3 like that and 2 were BBWs. They put out a few times throughout the night craving some cock and we'd smoke up and order pizza. Good times. I might get back into that game later this year.

Hell yeah! Talk and smash all night it’s no different than dating. And for someone married like I am, it’s exciting and new each time. Dozens from small and a bit chubby to tall and hot model. Everything in between. Elite athlete 20 year olds, facially 6 MILFs with kinda a dumpy body to semi fit to extremely fit. So many that are just as wanting to smash as us guys. And just as importantly the huge range of great conversation and connection to “what the hell I can’t wait to get her out of here”

 

[Velvets]

You asked for someone to share their known SB. He said no then gave an explanation that said essentially "if she's a real SB, she won't let herself be shared. So if someone shares an SB with you, she isn't an SB"

It was basically a wordy "no" to your request.

I’m talking about sharing her profile on Seeking and I’d contact her through there to see if she’s interested just as I’d contact anyone else.
Not planning to mention anything about here.
Not asking about contact info or anything like that.