I just read hipjdog's review - awesome by the way. I cant help but thinking i'm doing something wrong so I'm looking for advice here...
I've been at this whole SB thing for about a year now (im on SB not seeking, is that my first mistake?). I’ve got hidden pics for discretion, but my profile is verified. A little about me: I work full-time in strategic advising and also own a retail store. I’m not a bad-looking guy, and I think my profile gives a pretty good mix of pictures that show who I genuinely am; nothing too flashy, just real.
I’ve done over 30 M&Gs this past year (so I feel like my messaging isnt too shit) and had around 8 one-night stands. One of my more promising SBs said we couldn’t continue because I wasn’t seeing her enough (we were meeting twice a month for 4 months).
So here’s where I’m at. Am I doing something wrong? Is this just part of the game, or are other people having similar experiences? Keep in mind I’m dropping $500-$700 PPM, and yet, I still feel like I'm getting stuck in this weird loop of not finding quality long term candidates. The sex has been so awful with some of these girls, others great but the personality was so trash - mind you none of them could give good head....
Now, I know I didn’t cover all my variables here so I could be missing something in my profile, but I’m really curious if this is just par for the course. Honestly, it feels like half of these girls want a Birkin on the first M&G. And don’t get me started on the unrealistic expectations, I have no problem spending if the girl makes sense.
My schedule’s pretty tight too, since I have to plan around "work" periods (you can probably guess the limitations there).
Here’s my other question: Is it just better to find a long-term escort to see for a couple of hours a week instead? If so, any recommendations? I typically dont like this route because theres no real rapport, mind you I havent really ever seen the same lady twice when I hobbied.
All I’m looking for is a young, relatively classy, hot distraction a few hours a week or two to help me disconnect.
Anyone else dealing with this kind of situation, or am I just in the wrong site or just not the right guy?