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Sugar dating and health & safety

digi_7e

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Hello im getting into the sugar dating seen and im meeting someone at a hotel for our first date.
The things that scsres the shit out of me is getting an infection or something.
for sex i always use condoms with all SPs i met but for BJ i like it to be BB.

pls dont tell me to always get tested, I know this but the problem here is that tests will only show when shit hits the fan and its too late
 

speakercontrols

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The things that scsres the shit out of me is getting an infection or something.
Ok, and? You know the obvious answers and obvious actions. I assume you’re looking for support and affirmation?

BTW, the wankers who think sugaring is somehow safer are whacked. Many SBs have multiple SDs and/or boyfriends so multiple points of infections also exist. OF course they’re not going to tell you either.
 

digi_7e

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Ok, and? You know the obvious answers and obvious actions. I assume you’re looking for support and affirmation?

BTW, the wankers who think sugaring is somehow safer are whacked. Many SBs have multiple SDs and/or boyfriends so multiple points of infections also exist. OF course they’re not going to tell you either.
I dont think its safer or anything, i just wanted to try it out maybe i can find a good lady who i can keep for long thats all
 

The Options Menu

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Either live with the (small but non-zero) risk of an errant BBBJ blowing up your life, go with CBJ, avoid sexual contact with your SO for the incubation and testing period, be monogamous, or find an open relationship.

Those are your options.
 

spacyfoil

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Also, remember, there are different categories of STDs. Some can be cured, others like Herpes are for life. If she in infected in mouth, it can go on your dick and stay there forever. Good luck.
 

speakercontrols

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I dont think its safer or anything, i just wanted to try it out maybe i can find a good lady who i can keep for long thats all
Get married then. I really doubt Sugaring is any safer. There’s this mindset on Reddit that there’s no issues with going bare because SBs are “like girlfriends” and they’re “low volume”. 🙄🤪 That’s just whacked. Given their knowledge and paranoia, I’d say escorts are generally safer than SBs.
 
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digi_7e

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Get married then. I really doubt Sugaring is any safer. There’s this mindset on Reddit that there’s no issues with going bare because SBs are “like girlfriends” and they’re “low volume”. 🙄🤪 That’s just whacked. Given their knowledge and paranoia, I’d say escorts are generally safer than SBs.
I am married
 

tastingyou

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Hello im getting into the sugar dating seen and im meeting someone at a hotel for our first date.
The things that scsres the shit out of me is getting an infection or something.
for sex i always use condoms with all SPs i met but for BJ i like it to be BB.

pls dont tell me to always get tested, I know this but the problem here is that tests will only show when shit hits the fan and its too late
After 15 years of having fun and a few hundred BBBJ with maybe 100 different providers I am still fortunate enough to be dodging the lightning bolt. I wake up in a cold sweat every night wondering if my luck has run out, lol. If you are this nervous you should be sticking to CBJ or maybe not straying outside of your marriage at all.
 

Sonic Temple

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This hobby is not safe - period. All we can do is hope to meet a SP who cares about their health and safety as we do. Weed out the good ones and see those SP - the SB thing imho is not worth it - just go and enjoy the variety that GTA has to offer and get tested regularly.
 
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shack

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Hello im getting into the sugar dating seen and im meeting someone at a hotel for our first date.
The things that scsres the shit out of me is getting an infection or something.
for sex i always use condoms with all SPs i met but for BJ i like it to be BB.

pls dont tell me to always get tested, I know this but the problem here is that tests will only show when shit hits the fan and its too late
Does the search function no longer work? There must be 50 threads on this topic. Is there a sticky thread or something that newbies must read before being able to post or read reviews?
 

digi_7e

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After 15 years of having fun and a few hundred BBBJ with maybe 100 different providers I am still fortunate enough to be dodging the lightning bolt. I wake up in a cold sweat every night wondering if my luck has run out, lol. If you are this nervous you should be sticking to CBJ or maybe not straying outside of your marriage at all.
Lucky you. 🤣
 

speakercontrols

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Btw guys, she is a nurse. I think i should be less worried
ahahahahahahahahahah.

Everyone lies but most of all we lie to ourselves. Hey, you lie to your wife, why wouldn't this nurse lie to you? You do know nurses have a LOT of one-of sex at work right?

 

Patron

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ahahahahahahahahahah.

Everyone lies but most of all we lie to ourselves. Hey, you lie to your wife, why wouldn't this nurse lie to you? You do know nurses have a LOT of one-of sex at work right?

Disappointing that the author of this moralistic nonsense article has a photo indicating that she is hot.

Sometimes the idealism of the young takes an unfortunate turn.

Doctors and nurses have a lot of sex because many of them deal with death every single day, and they realize you only live once and that life (and sex) should be enjoyed.

And as had been stated endless times, STD transmission via unprotected oral sex is rare enough to simply be ignored as a risk issue, unless it is done with someone from the lowest rungs of socioeconomic classes.
 

Ahri

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Question to the guys who have a SB in your experience what’s the difference between having a SB vs seeing a SP?

is it because SB have less “milage”?
 
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