I am creating a new thread because I think it’s a big enough departure from the sugar dating experience thread.
I have been into sugar dating (and hobbying still) for about 2.5 years. I have met and been intimate with approximately 30 of them. The first was a one night thing and it was pretty thrilling (it’s addictive) and then so were the next probably 5-6. Mostly involved meeting for a coffee or drink to see if we connect, I.e. they are evaluating if you’re a danger and/or a poser. It then proceeded to what you'd expect. Overall good stuff.
I should add that during this timeframe I lived with an ex fiancée. No judgment zone reminder to those who may come at me. I was also hobbying still. I need help, I know.
May 2022 I met someone different. We really did hit it off. She was 20 I was 37. We talked every day. We agreed on $200/week and she was pretty clear on platonic. I never in my life I thought I’d agree to that type of arrangement in my life , but I did. July 2023 one night she calls late and asks if I can pick her and her friend up from the bar and I said sure. Got her crumpled roomate up to her bed (beefy girl, too). The SB and I sat and talked for a couple hours and ended up doing the deed. From there we did another 6 months with the $200/week. A year in, she goes home for a month and we taie a slight slow down and I say that I’m not sending money, it’s fine. She comes home in a month, never start sending money again. We keep seeing each other. And we had still talked every day, multiple FaceTimes a day. 1.5 years in and she moves home to Florida. 2 years in this past may we finally parted ways. Actually heart breaking to be honest but I won’t go into that.
During this relationship I still met other SBs. I was actually engaged, had a mistress, seeing other SBs and hobbying. I’m a degenerate.
Last October I converted a 19 year old for 2 months. Only provided a gift the first time. Last November I converted an 18 year old for 2 months, gift once. I’ve recently converted a 20/21 to a no gift situation.
I guess my question is, have others done this? If so, tell your story and let’s make a playbook.
I have been into sugar dating (and hobbying still) for about 2.5 years. I have met and been intimate with approximately 30 of them. The first was a one night thing and it was pretty thrilling (it’s addictive) and then so were the next probably 5-6. Mostly involved meeting for a coffee or drink to see if we connect, I.e. they are evaluating if you’re a danger and/or a poser. It then proceeded to what you'd expect. Overall good stuff.
I should add that during this timeframe I lived with an ex fiancée. No judgment zone reminder to those who may come at me. I was also hobbying still. I need help, I know.
May 2022 I met someone different. We really did hit it off. She was 20 I was 37. We talked every day. We agreed on $200/week and she was pretty clear on platonic. I never in my life I thought I’d agree to that type of arrangement in my life , but I did. July 2023 one night she calls late and asks if I can pick her and her friend up from the bar and I said sure. Got her crumpled roomate up to her bed (beefy girl, too). The SB and I sat and talked for a couple hours and ended up doing the deed. From there we did another 6 months with the $200/week. A year in, she goes home for a month and we taie a slight slow down and I say that I’m not sending money, it’s fine. She comes home in a month, never start sending money again. We keep seeing each other. And we had still talked every day, multiple FaceTimes a day. 1.5 years in and she moves home to Florida. 2 years in this past may we finally parted ways. Actually heart breaking to be honest but I won’t go into that.
During this relationship I still met other SBs. I was actually engaged, had a mistress, seeing other SBs and hobbying. I’m a degenerate.
Last October I converted a 19 year old for 2 months. Only provided a gift the first time. Last November I converted an 18 year old for 2 months, gift once. I’ve recently converted a 20/21 to a no gift situation.
I guess my question is, have others done this? If so, tell your story and let’s make a playbook.
