Stripper parts 'fool' and his money

whollycheeses

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sad but...

It's a sad story but come on, if you don't know better than that by the time you reach age 69 there's not much anyone can do to help you.
From the tone of the article it sounds like he is financially comfortable so the $20,000 hit didn't break him, and it sounds like he won't make the same mistake again.
 

diverdown

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It was China Doll, from a club out near the airport. :D
(in other words....no sorry I don't)

Will say it is a oft heard theme of the male rube being led down the garden path. Very sorry for the guy and hope he finds some closure. (but I doubt it)

As with so many things in life...caveat emptor.

There are the good and bad in all walks of life. Try to keep your wits and exercise good judgment (use helpful databases like TERB!!!) and as we all know you can have really great experiences quite the opposite of this poor gentleman.

**side note...you guys vote...whomever pointed him towards craigslist as a good starting point for a newly single man to find female companionship should be: a) slapped b)given an invoice for $10,000 owing c) sent for free friendship counselling from esco.
 

JEFF247

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The guy sounds like a complete idiot. Sorry, can't think of a better term. You're arguing and still giving her money? I can't in my wildest dreams understand why someone would do this. There's a thousand strippers within 10 miles of Toronto and you need to hold on to one that's arguing with you and picking your pockets? You can't help guys like him, they need to learn the hard way.
 
diverdown said:
There are the good and bad in all walks of life. Try to keep your wits and exercise good judgment (use helpful databases like TERB!!!) and as we all know you can have really great experiences quite the opposite of this poor gentleman.

**side note...you guys vote...whomever pointed him towards craigslist as a good starting point for a newly single man to find female companionship should be: a) slapped b)given an invoice for $10,000 owing c) sent for free friendship counselling from esco.
Maybe it WAS Esco?!:p
 

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Sounds an awful lot like someone who's been reviewed here, unless there are a bunch of late fifties Filipina strippers with a large rack in Toronto. If it's who I think it is, she used to have an ad for nude housekeeping on CL and danced at Cheaters many, many years ago.
 

DshRipRock

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It seems to be a common story. The guy should be lucky it wasn't more than 20K.
 

jaycam

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"Erlinda told him she was 43 and single, working as a bartender at a strip club near the airport. She was actually, as he would later discover, in her mid-50s and a stripper who went by the stage name China Doll (though she was Filipino), with three grown children."

I strongly suspect I know who this is, although I have never seen her. Before dropping her name can anyone confirm?
 

GOLEAFSGO67

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I think she is

..that curly haired older chatty girl...with coffee breath...used to be at Exotica!!
 

k57

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In a living hell
GOLEAFSGO67 said:
..that curly haired older chatty girl...with coffee breath...used to be at Exotica!!
Big fake boobs, definitely in her 50s ... yeah, bingo. She was at Exotica.
 

danmand

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I don't know what he is complaining about. $20,000 for a couple of
months of good sex and companionship.
 
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it kinda of gets me hesitant to contact a dancer who gives me her number. just the other night, i go to a stripclub. i spent some time with a dancer...she gives me her number without me asking...and now im like...hmmmm its probably gonna cost me if i call....any thoughts?
 

fuji

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As dumb as it sounds it can happen to anyone, especially in a situation such as his where he's recently suffered the loss of his wife.

When I first started going to strip clubs I met a stripper who fooled me into believing she wanted a relationship with me and who took me for everything I had.

Fortunately for me I was a starving university student at the time and "everything I had" was about $600 or so--a couple of dates, like literally two, and I was broke and she was gone. I had to borrow rent money from mom and lacked funds for beer for a few weeks, but I feel fortunate in having learned that lesson at that point in my life.

Now I'm aware of the games people play, and of my own limitations as a human male, and I cut off relationships with sex workers of any kind if there is any hint of attachment by EITHER side. I had to cut off a mistress who was starting to get a little clingy.
 

jaycam

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k57 said:
Big fake boobs, definitely in her 50s ... yeah, bingo. She was at Exotica.
Bingo,,,, that was her, she used to run an incall by the name of Linda. She also has a couple websites too, I think on Google groups. I will check my bookmarks when i get home.
 

Questor

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danmand said:
I don't know what he is complaining about. $20,000 for a couple of
months of good sex and companionship.
From last June to April...10 months. But it doesn't sound like he was getting much sex or companionship.

I've never heard of a $100 outcall before.

$20,000 is small time compared to what terbite Steel shelled out. His posts have been deleted, but his girlfriend was a MPA from China with a husband and kids back home. Last I heard he had invested in a MP and was in the business.
 

squash500

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I guess one lesson to be learned from this article is too never repeat with an sp or an Mpa etc:confused: ? Especially if you are a lonely and vulnerable man.

IMHO if you are a more confident, sophisticated and worldly guy then by all means repeat. Caveat Emptor!
 

Rono

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Good for her. She is really good at her job. Her primary reponsibility is to get the money from his pocket to her purse.
 

The LoLRus

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I dont feel sorry for him at all, most of the time its probably karma coming back to bite him in the ass. Who knows how many people he ripped off when he was a businessman.

I'm not saying he did for sure, maybe he's an honest guy.
But I lived long enough to see karma is a very real phenomenon
 

Rockslinger

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A story like this always reminds me of Michael Eustache who spent a million dollars on Denise Nadeau from Locomotion. Guys, please remember that civilian women can rip you off as well:( . Be careful out there.
 
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