Well, according to those figures, the math is still on your side. The background figures they use on that site are from sex workers in the United States, so risk still depends a lot on how well SP get tested and treated for infections. With that said, a very significant proportion of SPs have herpes, and you can't cure it, so it is very likely that you will get herpes after enough encounters with SPs. Transmission rates for herpes though, on a per-event basis are pretty low, so it could take a number of years before you finally get infected. Interestingly, rates are twice as high for women than men. One other thing that is interesting is that HSV1 and HSV2 are generally mutually exclusive for site of infection. So if you are infected with HSV1 in your genital area (from receiving oral sex earlier in life), you will generally get less severe symptoms if you have an outbreak, and it will protect you from being infected with HSV2 at the genital site. Herpes is really not a big deal, it's more of a social stigma thing...
Generally if you use condoms for intercourse, that is the most important thing for your health. It's a lot less important for oral and few people use condoms for oral. If you end up with gonorrhea, herpes or HPV, it's not the end of the world. None of those infections will ruin your life, you just get the necessary treatment and move on. It's really the HIV you are worried about!
Do you personally opt for BBBJ or CBJ?

