Stages of the "hobby"

[multimedia]

It's a lot more expensive but it's worth it once or twice. I enjoyed my past experience because it was a guys night out and we just drank like usual but it was fun just chatting up the strippers who would come over and chat.

Also it was fun just feeling up the girls during the dance and they would also give an over the pants hj. After a few of those you get worked up. Then a real sexy one offered extras and I took her up on it. Altogether spent 600 bucks that night but it was fun. I wouldnt do it again anytime soon.

That's the thing. It's a social thing once in awhile to go with buddies and if someone is from in out of town. Then we usually buy each other the first 2 dances since there'. But yupp.. it's a big spend night, but the social aspect vs that isolated aspect.

Although doing the family work/rat race dog grind, 'dead' bedroom, the urge to just go and have a beer by myself there is heightened at times.

 

[brazilianguy]

Am I the only one who is at stage 6 ?
OP must be a renowned psychic. This is exactly how I feel about different stages in this hobby. Lol

 

[Gibbons#1]

Hm. But there's more to it than that. The problem I've had with sp's is that you don't know what they look like til you see them. And that doesn't always work out. At a strip club, you can see who you're attracted to, how she moves, how she talks to you. And if the vibe is right, you start to crave the girl. Maybe feel some impatience, some jealousy. I don't get that feeling for sp's. It's sort of like, girl opens door, I'm either kind of turned on or not, and it all happens too fast given the circumstances. Problem at a strip club is you can't just proposition a stripper, or at least I've never tried. It seems like a hassle. But if that was normal - actually, how they have it in Europe kinda works. You go to a brothel, you talk to a girl, and you can arrange for her to meet you at your hotel for more privacy. Over here there seems to be an either/or scenario when it comes to strip clubs and sp's.

Strip clubs for dances are only worth it if you can cream your pants. If you’re able to do this then it can actually be cheaper than seeing an SP / MPA, the girl is generally hotter, and you don’t have to worry for the next week about whether you contracted any STD’s. The nights where I go to strip clubs and am not for whatever reason able to get worked up enough to explode in my pants are the nights I end up overspending hugely and leaving annoyed thinking it would have been more worthwhile just to stay home and jerk off.

It’s not that hard to proposition strippers either, basically everyone I’ve liked enough to ask has come to my apartment for a session.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

I've never done the hobby on a stage, something to add to the TDL.

I've done it in the car, beside the car, on the hood of the car, out on the woods, out by the river, in a tent by a stream in daylight, behind or between some houses, in a hotel, in a motel, in a condo, in apartments, in houses, under a bridge, in a stairwell, in the car at the drive in movies (oops, that was a gf- not hobby), on a riverbank in the city on blanket in daylite, in the woods on an island standing doggy watching the city across the river ...... but never on a stage. I'm not much of an exhibitionist so likely an empty theater or almost empty. Maybe if the stage had curtains and we were behind the curtains.

This probably belongs in a thread about where you've done the hobby ..... sorry for the hijack. Just got me thinking .............

 

[itd131]

Am I the only one who is at stage 6 ?
OP must be a renowned psychic. This is exactly how I feel about different stages in this hobby. Lol

Lol, sorry man, not a psychic. I think a lot of guys have been there. My comments are based on threads I have read over the years.

No, you're not the only one. Something else I could have added is that stage 6 guys tend to stop posting. Review boards are most useful for guys in the first few stages and at some point the stupidity that occurs on the boards can become tedious. Now you've given me the idea I should ad review boards to the stages lol...

Cool to see this thread get a revival.

 

[Karabas]

Great post by OP! In line with my vision of "hobbyist" evolution.
I would add to stage 5) that the memories of the best moments and the best women in the past prevails over the expectations for the next rendezvous - sort of mental variation of “been there, done that" and that was better LOL
I am in that stage 5, I guess.

 

[massman]

Stage 7. You remain on TERB and before you know it, you are back at stage 1.

 

[thirdcup]

lol this is why they'll never be able to criminalize this industry away!

the authorities can criminalize all they want. It will just move underground. Like prohibition.

 

[jalimon]

Stuck in between stage 3 and 4. Because I am now at a stage where I do a lot of kinky experimentation but mostly with regulars