Yet so many men who get married do just that, although in many cases seem far less happy for having made the investment!
Stages of the "hobby"
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That's the thing. It's a social thing once in awhile to go with buddies and if someone is from in out of town. Then we usually buy each other the first 2 dances since there'. But yupp.. it's a big spend night, but the social aspect vs that isolated aspect.
Although doing the family work/rat race dog grind, 'dead' bedroom, the urge to just go and have a beer by myself there is heightened at times.
Am I the only one who is at stage 6 ?
OP must be a renowned psychic. This is exactly how I feel about different stages in this hobby. Lol
OP must be a renowned psychic. This is exactly how I feel about different stages in this hobby. Lol
Strip clubs for dances are only worth it if you can cream your pants. If you’re able to do this then it can actually be cheaper than seeing an SP / MPA, the girl is generally hotter, and you don’t have to worry for the next week about whether you contracted any STD’s. The nights where I go to strip clubs and am not for whatever reason able to get worked up enough to explode in my pants are the nights I end up overspending hugely and leaving annoyed thinking it would have been more worthwhile just to stay home and jerk off.
It’s not that hard to proposition strippers either, basically everyone I’ve liked enough to ask has come to my apartment for a session.
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I've never done the hobby on a stage, something to add to the TDL.
I've done it in the car, beside the car, on the hood of the car, out on the woods, out by the river, in a tent by a stream in daylight, behind or between some houses, in a hotel, in a motel, in a condo, in apartments, in houses, under a bridge, in a stairwell, in the car at the drive in movies (oops, that was a gf- not hobby), on a riverbank in the city on blanket in daylite, in the woods on an island standing doggy watching the city across the river ...... but never on a stage. I'm not much of an exhibitionist so likely an empty theater or almost empty. Maybe if the stage had curtains and we were behind the curtains.
This probably belongs in a thread about where you've done the hobby ..... sorry for the hijack. Just got me thinking .............
I've done it in the car, beside the car, on the hood of the car, out on the woods, out by the river, in a tent by a stream in daylight, behind or between some houses, in a hotel, in a motel, in a condo, in apartments, in houses, under a bridge, in a stairwell, in the car at the drive in movies (oops, that was a gf- not hobby), on a riverbank in the city on blanket in daylite, in the woods on an island standing doggy watching the city across the river ...... but never on a stage. I'm not much of an exhibitionist so likely an empty theater or almost empty. Maybe if the stage had curtains and we were behind the curtains.
This probably belongs in a thread about where you've done the hobby ..... sorry for the hijack. Just got me thinking .............
Lol, sorry man, not a psychic. I think a lot of guys have been there. My comments are based on threads I have read over the years.
No, you're not the only one. Something else I could have added is that stage 6 guys tend to stop posting. Review boards are most useful for guys in the first few stages and at some point the stupidity that occurs on the boards can become tedious. Now you've given me the idea I should ad review boards to the stages lol...
Cool to see this thread get a revival.
Great post by OP! In line with my vision of "hobbyist" evolution.
I would add to stage 5) that the memories of the best moments and the best women in the past prevails over the expectations for the next rendezvous - sort of mental variation of “been there, done that" and that was better LOL
I am in that stage 5, I guess.
I would add to stage 5) that the memories of the best moments and the best women in the past prevails over the expectations for the next rendezvous - sort of mental variation of “been there, done that" and that was better LOL
I am in that stage 5, I guess.
the authorities can criminalize all they want. It will just move underground. Like prohibition.
