My Hat's off to you, Sir
JBar, first thing: all my best thoughts to you and your family. Second thing: my hat's off to you for not sticking your head in the sand and facing this like a responsible adult. This will mean the world to you and your family in the future. Just for reaching out and trying to inform yourself as much as you can on the topic (even with a bunch of rascals and skirt-chasers) means that you care deeply for your Dad. I went through the same thing with my Mother (May She rest in Peace) just a few years ago. Christmas will never be the same since that's when she passed. The Doctor's told me she had 4 - 6 months but she fought the good fight for another 25 months. What Doctors can do is give you 'educated speculation' because each individual is his or her own universe. Seeing that you mentioned Mother and Sisters but no brothers, it seems the Patriarch role becomes yours. Trust your instinct, listen to the good Doctor's advice and let your Dad know how important he is. You'll also have friends that will bail on you but they'll be others (that you won't expect) that will come to your aid. Mostly, spend time and have good conversations. As you say, when a Lion is turned into a kitten, he won't want to show weakness with just anyone. Let him know he can squeeze your hand and confide in you. He'll also feel comfort that he's leaving his family in the best hands. All the best. Remember, Cancer is very limited, it cannot take away Hope or Good Memories.
BTW, I also agree with CL that this topic deserves more respect than seeing hot chicks getting banged with our sigs. Gentlemen, please!! I do not fear death. I fear not doing enough with whatever time of life I have left.