What a weird thread. Here's some points to ponder.
1. Why would Magicmanofmassage start a thread to discredit and embarrass a long standing member, Muskateer? For what motive, hidden agenda or gain, his or the lady in question? I'm not saying that veteran members are exempt from anything, but I would have dealt with him directly in private, after all he is not a novice. Are pm's not good enough to resolve this issue with all parties involved in a civil manner, why post this on the public board?
2. I agree with Ruck to all the questions, there is no obligation on behalf of the reviewer to respect the lady's wishes regarding reviews. However, gentlemen, and I do emphasize gentlemen, do respect a lady's wishes if she doesn't want details of the encounter to be posted, for various reasons like privacy/security, or YMMV issue where one fellow gets more or better service than she would give another, etc.... So I do respect that and support her for it.
3. However, I also feel I should let the community know if I felt the lady was not living up to her advertisements regarding service, looks, etc.. Unfortunately, if I feel the lady is misleading the industry I will write an accurate review to reflect my unhappiness even if the lady requests no reviews be written on her.
4. I agree with Magic that conscience is a reason to respect a lady's request for no reviews, so is integrity and respect for the lady.
5. From what I know of Muskateer, I'm pretty sure he had no mal-intent for the lady, however innocent, sloppy mistakes can happen thinking it was harmless to him, but not viewed the same way by the lady. One can only apologize (which I understand Muskatter has done) and offer to rectify the situation or make it up to her if possible, learn from the experience, and move on with this new found knowledge and practice it accordingly.
I don't think continually flaming and attacking eachother on the open board will accomplish anything, just bad blood. I personally believe this should be dropped and dealt with privately before the mods get involved and close this thread if it gets out of hand.