SP's privacy/security

[magicmanofmassage]

If Musketeer can post questions, it's my turn. As a matter of fact this one is for Musketeer.
I'll start this off by including my responses.

If an SP has a no review policy, for personal safety/concerns, does she have that right?
YES!
If you respect that on this board, is it OK to post a review on another board?
NO!
If you are willing to delete the post from this board, are you not obligated to delete it from any other board as well?
YES!

 

[calloway]

While some of us appreciate your sincere effort Magic... I'm not sure this will accomplish anything. I doubt he'll even respond because there's nothing he can really say. After all... there's apparently a conspiracy against him. Most normal rational hobbyists would obviously agree with your answers provided. For me... it all comes down to one simple word... respect. Even though I am still furious with him... I do believe that he has honestly tried to have to post deleted. Just like here... after a certain period of time you need a Moderator to delete the post. Was it an honest mistake to post a review of a SP that has a NRP? I doubt it. I personally don't have any issue with posting on other boards... I don't remember any rules preventing us when we joined Terb. But saying all that... after 5000+ posts here... it's obvious where my loyalty is.

I am quite amazed at how stupid some hobbyists can be with their lack of respect about SP privacy. We've seen it locally with a number of well rated ladies that have been forced to leave or go into retirement for their own protection over the past couple years. We beg them to offer incalls... which most end up offering at considerable risk to themselves both legally and personally... and then there are some idiots that end up betraying their trust. If some people don't start getting their act together... we're not going to have any gems left in KW and then we'll be stuck with the crap at Taj Mahal and Phoenix.

 

[magicmanofmassage]

The frigid temperatures have cooled me off. Maybe that's a good thing.

Bottome line is: It never should have happened.

 

[Choron]

My answers.

If an SP has a no review policy, for personal safety/concerns, does she have that right?
YES

If you respect that on this board, is it OK to post a review on another board?
NO it isn't okay, but their is nothing stopping anyone from doing so but their conscience.

If you are willing to delete the post from this board, are you not obligated to delete it from any other board as well?
NO, but again it is a matter of conscience.

I respect it on any board i am a member of. I have not posted details on any Red Jenna or Shauna meeting i have had by request, and i have stopped reviewing Spice by request. I don't share their details through PM either, i have with one fellow member, but c'mon he is the "godfather".

Hammer it is unlikely that people from TERB writing reviews arn't the people assaulting SP's(women)...Even if that SP has a No Review policy... We aren't psychos here...At least not last time I checked... heh

 

[Aloha]

If Musketeer can post questions, it's my turn. As a matter of fact this one is for Musketeer.
I'll start this off by including my responses.

If an SP has a no review policy, for personal safety/concerns, does she have that right?
YES!
If you respect that on this board, is it OK to post a review on another board?
NO!
If you are willing to delete the post from this board, are you not obligated to delete it from any other board as well?
YES!

My usual response to a date that usually reviews is as follows: If you feel you would like to/must review please do it tastefully(no details) Which I believe has been done in the past till recently. I do believe this applies to all boards, even the ones I don't know about.
MrO your reviews are always tastefully done.

 

[ruck]

While I can sympathize with the sp's want for privacy, I can also sympathize for the need of some to post explicit reviews.

For some, these boards take on more importance then they should. As a rule, I come here purely for entertainment. I come to banter, discuss, argue or agree with like-minded and not-so like-minded people.

I don't know exactly what happened but it seems that Musketeer must have posted a review for a sp with a NRP.

I'll answer the questions as well.

If an SP has a no review policy, for personal safety/concerns, does she have that right?
YES! Everyone has a right to ask, however it does not mean that people are obligated to listen and abide by their wishes.

If you respect that on this board, is it OK to post a review on another board?
Yes! Because whether you like it or not, you are not the boss or rule setter for life and other boards. People will do what they wish. As a paying customer he also has the right to post his experience barring any personal information.

If you are willing to delete the post from this board, are you not obligated to delete it from any other board as well?
No! Again, why is he obligated to do anything? He isn't even obligated to keep with the NRP. That is a policy between the board and the sp in question and a PAYING customer doesn't have to abide by those rules.

Now having played devils advocate, I would never post a review of a sp if they had a NRP. However, the problem with NRP is that they protect both the good sp's and the really bad ones. How are we, as a reviewing community, to know what is good and what is not if the reviews are not brought forth? Afterall, this is a review board or am I mistaken?

 

[magicmanofmassage]

While I can sympathize with the sp's want for privacy, I can also sympathize for the need of some to post explicit reviews.

For some, these boards take on more importance then they should. As a rule, I come here purely for entertainment. I come to banter, discuss, argue or agree with like-minded and not-so like-minded people.

I don't know exactly what happened but it seems that Musketeer must have posted a review for a sp with a NRP.

I'll answer the questions as well.

If an SP has a no review policy, for personal safety/concerns, does she have that right?
YES! Everyone has a right to ask, however it does not mean that people are obligated to listen and abide by their wishes.

If you respect that on this board, is it OK to post a review on another board?
Yes! Because whether you like it or not, you are not the boss or rule setter for life and other boards. People will do what they wish. As a paying customer he also has the right to post his experience barring any personal information.

If you are willing to delete the post from this board, are you not obligated to delete it from any other board as well?
No! Again, why is he obligated to do anything? He isn't even obligated to keep with the NRP. That is a policy between the board and the sp in question and a PAYING customer doesn't have to abide by those rules.

Now having played devils advocate, I would never post a review of a sp if they had a NRP. However, the problem with NRP is that they protect both the good sp's and the really bad ones. How are we, as a reviewing community, to know what is good and what is not if the reviews are not brought forth? Afterall, this is a review board or am I mistaken?

Ruck, it's real easy to answer this one:

conscience

 

[Musketeer]

Ruck, it's real easy to answer this one:

conscience

So where is yours then?

 

[Musketeer]

So where is yours then?

You have none in my books! If I re-read your e-mails and those of the ladies that you have seen. They are well-rid of you! (shall I name a few ?)

Therefore, I would advise that in your case to please exercise discretion, as 'discretion is the better part of valour!'


Please desist and stop trying to impress your new lady-love, with your new found 'chivalry.' You may deceive some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time.

 

[fun-guy]

What a weird thread. Here's some points to ponder.

1. Why would Magicmanofmassage start a thread to discredit and embarrass a long standing member, Muskateer? For what motive, hidden agenda or gain, his or the lady in question? I'm not saying that veteran members are exempt from anything, but I would have dealt with him directly in private, after all he is not a novice. Are pm's not good enough to resolve this issue with all parties involved in a civil manner, why post this on the public board?

2. I agree with Ruck to all the questions, there is no obligation on behalf of the reviewer to respect the lady's wishes regarding reviews. However, gentlemen, and I do emphasize gentlemen, do respect a lady's wishes if she doesn't want details of the encounter to be posted, for various reasons like privacy/security, or YMMV issue where one fellow gets more or better service than she would give another, etc.... So I do respect that and support her for it.


3. However, I also feel I should let the community know if I felt the lady was not living up to her advertisements regarding service, looks, etc.. Unfortunately, if I feel the lady is misleading the industry I will write an accurate review to reflect my unhappiness even if the lady requests no reviews be written on her.

4. I agree with Magic that conscience is a reason to respect a lady's request for no reviews, so is integrity and respect for the lady.


5. From what I know of Muskateer, I'm pretty sure he had no mal-intent for the lady, however innocent, sloppy mistakes can happen thinking it was harmless to him, but not viewed the same way by the lady. One can only apologize (which I understand Muskatter has done) and offer to rectify the situation or make it up to her if possible, learn from the experience, and move on with this new found knowledge and practice it accordingly.

I don't think continually flaming and attacking eachother on the open board will accomplish anything, just bad blood. I personally believe this should be dropped and dealt with privately before the mods get involved and close this thread if it gets out of hand.

 

[johnmcclanexxx]

Well said fun guy. This issue is spreading over more than one thread as it is.

 

[Musketeer]

Well said fun guy. This issue is spreading over more than one thread as it is.

Yes, I couldn't agree with you gentlemen more. Fun-guy is right on with his analysis on all accounts and I do appreciate his post and ruck's. It's high time to bury the hatchet, and let this 'tempest in a teapot' go away.

PM's would have been the best and most mature way to deal with this issue as I mentioned earlier.

However, it's a pity that the path chosen was to 'flame' me instead on a public forum, where things can get 'heated' and out of hand.

So let's please stop this now. I'm willing. Besides, life's too short and London is exciting! Cheers!

 

[calloway]

However, it's a pity that the path chosen instead was to 'flame' me in a public forum, where things can get out of hand.

Musketeer... what do you think you're doing right now?

 

[Moderator]

Musketeer... what do you think you're doing right now?

Well put.