Which is why they should make better choices in who they date and want to be their Baby Daddies.
Obviously they don't quite think it through and let the wrong things decide.
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Which is why they should make better choices in who they date and want to be their Baby Daddies.
Obviously they don't quite think it through and let the wrong things decide.
Girls do NOT have pimps nor are they being pimped out, just because they support un/under-employed BFs/SOs. They are simply supporting their loved ones, as no doubt their men would do the same. If they could.
Who is this "they" you are referring to? Quite the broad-sweeping generalization. Not to mention the fact that pretty much EVERYONE makes mistakes in dating/relationships at some point in their life. And regardless of who a person chooses to date, they still deserve love and respect in their life.
I'm sorry, I guess quoting Hangman's generalized statement pertaining to SPs in general wasn't the best.
I meant only the girls who had the types of BFs the OP was referring to.
It's true everyone makes mistakes and true that everyone should be respected in an ideal world.
If one is being direspected but chooses to remain with the disrespecter because "he has such a big cock", "but he is Jamaican" etc then who is to blame?
In this case, the Subject is lazy, has all the time in the world text/check in literally all day/night, lives at home, no job, and ex's with kids.
How's he a catch?
There are many factors off course.
But the going ons inside ones head currently and how they can be affected by the actions of others can make or break a spirit, a persona etc.
I've seen prissy white girls get roped in easy in Eaton Centre.
The guy just called out to the girl then asked "Are you too good to talk to me?"
The girl got redfaced, gave the girly giggle and walked across.
Women hold being seen as morally upstanding as high priority, non racist, non bitchy etc
Others may simply be quite naive, lacking in street sense, sheltered or low on self esteem.
Some guys may not be intellectuals but have street sense and are smooth and fast talkers.
Having assessed his prey, it's off to work he goes messing with that sometimes confused indecisive brain.
Ambitious, alpha-male types will probably not want a working SP for a mate, for reasons that must be fairly obvious to anyone who knows any alpha-males. What options does that leave an SP with? I've seen this dynamic with countless female friends, (non-SP's). At the risk of generalizing, the wealthy succesful men are playboys who can and will fuck any woman they can no matter how desirable their mate is, but the broke, unambitious deadbeat will worship the ground an attractive woman walks on. With the widening income gap between rich and poor, the choice only becomes starker. In the past when men were usually sole- providers and women usually turned a blind-eye to infidelity, there was no dilemma.
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