SP Orgasms!
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Well, at least a new service...
..criteria.
For gals who want to target the 8% who dont care or do NOT want orgasmic women, just put in your ads " I promise just to lie still!"
..criteria.
For gals who want to target the 8% who dont care or do NOT want orgasmic women, just put in your ads " I promise just to lie still!"
It used to be important for me to get her to cum.....
Then one particular session, I was with a girl I really liked, and she did not cum. It took me a while as I was waiting for her...... When I finished< i offered to go down on her to finish her off, and she declined. She said not to worry. She won't cum as she's become almost immune to it all.... She went on to explain that taking multiple calls a day takes a toll. (has to limit herself to 3 a day, where she to accept every call that came no matter what...) Every once in while it happens out of the blue, and its nice, but for the most.... she just goes through the motions.
Now, she was really great at what she did. Seemed to really get into it. I almost wish she hadn't been that honest with me though. Too much reality is a bad thing in this biz....
cheers!
Then one particular session, I was with a girl I really liked, and she did not cum. It took me a while as I was waiting for her...... When I finished< i offered to go down on her to finish her off, and she declined. She said not to worry. She won't cum as she's become almost immune to it all.... She went on to explain that taking multiple calls a day takes a toll. (has to limit herself to 3 a day, where she to accept every call that came no matter what...) Every once in while it happens out of the blue, and its nice, but for the most.... she just goes through the motions.
Now, she was really great at what she did. Seemed to really get into it. I almost wish she hadn't been that honest with me though. Too much reality is a bad thing in this biz....
cheers!
Ok 15% indicate..
SPs dont enjoy the big O?
Serious votes or just kibbitzing? If serious, why dont some of you comment?
SPs dont enjoy the big O?
Serious votes or just kibbitzing? If serious, why dont some of you comment?
It's more likely that she's a good actress. They happen, but they are rarer than good acting. Much rarer.
If you are not young, slim, and toned, and paying a ltot more attention to her than to you, she is acting. Don't fool yourself with searching for physiological proof, that can be faked too--hard, and rare, but not as hard or rare as a real SP O.
If you are not young, slim, and toned, and paying a ltot more attention to her than to you, she is acting. Don't fool yourself with searching for physiological proof, that can be faked too--hard, and rare, but not as hard or rare as a real SP O.
Some valid points....
1) Where did you get the idea that women mainly(?) get off on "young, slim, toned"? Of course its often a plus, BUT for ALL women not just SPs, bods are NOT the big deal. They may have a thing for strong hands (very common), eyes, old cowboys or firemen. All women seriously love someone who listens, and laughs.
2) Of course I pay LOTS of attention to them! DATY, DATY, DATY, DATO.
3) To some extent, I dont CARE if they are acting. If its a great show- cool.
But I asked the Q last year. "Gee you gals seem to really be enjoying yourselves, what about the acting stereotype?" The answer:
" Bear, we spend all night/day/weekend with you, NOBODY is that good an actress". We also spend time chatting about it, I take a LOT of very demanding instruction and sometimes they dont get there. They tell me when to back off ("stop licking, start fucking"), "I am too tired", "stressed about my private life" or whatever.
4) I have also been told that women who DONT like sex with men just do not last, at least at the top end of the biz. Its just TOO hard to fake constantly.
In any event I had a fair bit of experience since waaaay back in the dark ages. Can women do a great job of faking - for sure, but over time you can tell the difference with most women, most the time.
But I must challenge you on some issues:fuji said:
1) Where did you get the idea that women mainly(?) get off on "young, slim, toned"? Of course its often a plus, BUT for ALL women not just SPs, bods are NOT the big deal. They may have a thing for strong hands (very common), eyes, old cowboys or firemen. All women seriously love someone who listens, and laughs.
2) Of course I pay LOTS of attention to them! DATY, DATY, DATY, DATO.
3) To some extent, I dont CARE if they are acting. If its a great show- cool.
But I asked the Q last year. "Gee you gals seem to really be enjoying yourselves, what about the acting stereotype?" The answer:
" Bear, we spend all night/day/weekend with you, NOBODY is that good an actress". We also spend time chatting about it, I take a LOT of very demanding instruction and sometimes they dont get there. They tell me when to back off ("stop licking, start fucking"), "I am too tired", "stressed about my private life" or whatever.
4) I have also been told that women who DONT like sex with men just do not last, at least at the top end of the biz. Its just TOO hard to fake constantly.
In any event I had a fair bit of experience since waaaay back in the dark ages. Can women do a great job of faking - for sure, but over time you can tell the difference with most women, most the time.
I like the woman to enjoy herself, and I, like you Bear think I know when she is having a legit one. I remember doing the DATY thing on a younger girl, about 22, and she wasn't even crazy about me doing that. After she started to come, she jumped off...and looked shaken. She realized (and I know now I might have been one of her first clients) that not all us guys are just looking to get off on our own, we actually gave a damn. She told me she only likes to orgasm for her BF and what I did shook her up because she knows he isn't that good at DATY. I felt bad in a sense, but in this business, they should just not worry about who is doing what to them if it feels good. If you are going to be an SP, you have to know that at some point, a guy will walk in that will own your body with what he does. I am not the most talented DATY artist out there (I think I do ok) but compared to the punk kids she had been dating, I hit the spot and rubbed it the right way. She was out of the business not long after, and I think it was because she wasn't emotionally prepared for having to divest her enjoyment from her guilt. For some girls, admitting they like it puts is past the tranaction and borders on an intimacy they are not ready to give to a stranger. I say that is too bad, because as much as Iam in it for raw pleasure, giving pleasure to my partner is part of what turns my crank. If she cant handle that, well.......that is just too damned bad, because I am going to caress, lick fondle and love the body Iam with regardless of whether there is an envelope with cash in it involved or not....
I see fuji's up to his old self again....Fuji? I liked you a LOT better when you were deciding on what to do about work....guess you decided eh?
SOrry, but there are SOME physical reactions that cannot be faked, unless of course she has learned control over her central nervous system (aka body blush) and even with plenty of the right exercise, why would they even BOTHER to learn how to control their uterus?
Anyhow, I do my best and if they have one, great and I used to work my ass off trying to make sure they do. Now I just do my best and if they don't? *shrugs* no biggy.....
And yeah, having 3 or more clients a day makes it kind of difficult to have one everytime....
SOrry, but there are SOME physical reactions that cannot be faked, unless of course she has learned control over her central nervous system (aka body blush) and even with plenty of the right exercise, why would they even BOTHER to learn how to control their uterus?
Anyhow, I do my best and if they have one, great and I used to work my ass off trying to make sure they do. Now I just do my best and if they don't? *shrugs* no biggy.....
And yeah, having 3 or more clients a day makes it kind of difficult to have one everytime....
Cannot believe..
.. so many guys think the gals dont cum
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Short bookings maybe? Maybe another poll here.
.. so many guys think the gals dont cum
!Short bookings maybe? Maybe another poll here.
I take great pride in my ability to give a lady an "O". I get more pleasure from getting her off than getting off myself. If a woman fakes, there's no contraction of the pussy muscles, there's no involuntary twitching going on, etc. The main indicator are the eyes, the eyes never lie. If the lady is vocal, the build up to the Main Event can't be faked. Just my 2 cents worth.
