SP Orgasms!
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I always try to get them to an O, but have not always been successful. I've also surprised a couple with O's, and been told by others they rarely, almost never get them.
One told me in the last year there was only one other guy in the last year to get her there (another Terbite, he knows who he is) other than me.
Bear, I would say they are rarer than you think for most SP's, mostly due, in my opinion to:
1) Guys that don't care
2) New client can't relax
3) Short booking
4) Multiple bookings - different guys, different agendas, not all good, throws them off and jades them
Of course there are some who usually enjoy it, but I would say acting rules for most sessions/clients. And I think it changes with the type of SP you see... one seeing 5,6,7 or more clients a day are just too worn out to enjoy it. Those that limit to 1,2 or 3 have a better chance.
Regardless, if they aren't enjoying themselves as well, I'm pretty quick to notice and will probably not repeat. Just not worth it for me. Sex is a two way (or 3,4 or more) street...
One told me in the last year there was only one other guy in the last year to get her there (another Terbite, he knows who he is) other than me.
Bear, I would say they are rarer than you think for most SP's, mostly due, in my opinion to:
1) Guys that don't care
2) New client can't relax
3) Short booking
4) Multiple bookings - different guys, different agendas, not all good, throws them off and jades them
Of course there are some who usually enjoy it, but I would say acting rules for most sessions/clients. And I think it changes with the type of SP you see... one seeing 5,6,7 or more clients a day are just too worn out to enjoy it. Those that limit to 1,2 or 3 have a better chance.
Regardless, if they aren't enjoying themselves as well, I'm pretty quick to notice and will probably not repeat. Just not worth it for me. Sex is a two way (or 3,4 or more) street...
You miss my point...
...though I generally agree with your comments about the SP POV. I was musing on the number of clueless men.moresex4me said:
Men so disillusioned , we tell you what you want to hear and make you feel what you want to feel it makes you repete with us . If we think you want us to cum then we do it whether its faking or not only we know for sure . But if we do fake it for you ( and many of us do ) it does not mean we did not enjoy the encounter and most of us are not going to tell you if we want to see you again . In fact I will go out on a limb here and tell you some who posted in this thread have been with some of us and think they made us cum but you really didnt !
Very interesting subject I was just talking with some of my girlfriends last night about it and 3 out of 4 of us said we fake it a majority of the time but it does not mean we did not have fun and it didnt feel good . Most of the time we enjoy the intimacy of the encounter over the finish anyway !
Blondie
Very interesting subject I was just talking with some of my girlfriends last night about it and 3 out of 4 of us said we fake it a majority of the time but it does not mean we did not have fun and it didnt feel good . Most of the time we enjoy the intimacy of the encounter over the finish anyway !
Blondie
Agreed on that. Lots of guys could not care less about the SP, then bitch they don't get good mileage.Bear669 said:
And I would say that the Terb crowd is probably better than the general population of hobbyists.
I think Mz Valentine said it recently in her BFE thread: genuine affection. If the SP feels that from you, then she is more likely to do more for you, and more likely to have an orgasm.
I'm lucky I'm a naturally affectionate person, and the ladies see that. 99% of the time I am honestly happy to see them, and not just because of the sex.
Ain't this the truth! I see a man who plays me like a fiddle, every time. I have never in my life experienced such an intuitive man, he just pushes ALL the right buttons for me. I don't care that he is my Dads age, that his body is not fit and toned (really, fuji, it doesn't matter) or that he's a client. What he does feels freakin' amazing...
I don't see that many clients, and I still don't come every time. But I won't fake an orgasm...like Lady Raven, I don't want to fake something and then have the guy think what he did was great for me and then have him do the same thing every time. lol Just because I didn't come doesn't mean that I haven't enjoyed myself, either. Whether or not I have an orgasm, I think it is apparent that I am happy to be there, and enjoying the encounter. Having a guy think that I faked it would put a damper on it...
Sometimes the orgasm is easy for me, sometimes I have to work hard to come and sometimes it won't happen at all. That's life.
I don't fake it. It either happens or it doesn't, the idea is that regardless, the session is a good one.
My personal opinion is that the majority of people who go see SPs are in it for themselves. Could be wrong, but with all the discussion on the economic factor as well as the sensual factor being the biggest reasons to see an SP, I think most clients are genuinely not interested.
Look at the average girls, many if not most get something out of it, it feels good for a lot of women, but feeling good and full blown orgasm are not the same. Also in my experience it takes a certain level of energy, I've always enjoyed sex after a good jog than when I'm tired.
So my final judgment would be it tends to apply to SPs that are full of energy and if the SPs are full of energy and excited as well.
Rather than doing it for lack of alternatives.
Not sure what you are saying?
Do you not accept the Poll? Do you think that the vast majority of voters are just BSing?
Hear Hear,,,,it's an added bonus if I get to O but it is usually fun regardless....In the end, it is not about 'our' pleasure, it's about yours.I do not always cum with clients, but I frequently do. I even had a TERB member proove to me that I could squirt once. The thing with me is I take patience lol. DATY to orgasm is not an instantaneous process. But SP orgasms are real. And to say it's only the fit and toned guys who gets us off is silly lol. Everyone looks the same when you're looking down on the top of their head. SP's probably fake it or not just as often as civvy women...
