She is giving it to her family members. That is why she is using so much.
At the end of the day, you have to ask yourself, how much are you willing to pay to get access to her vagina and her attention. If you think you are paying too much, go get access to another vagina and companion. I know this sounds harsh, but if your spouse was a dude and he was your friend, would you accept such behaviour from him? You wouldn't, right? Well, the only reason you are accepting the behaviour your wife presents is because she has a vagina. So, again, how much is access to her vagina worth to you?
At the end of the day, you have to ask yourself, how much are you willing to pay to get access to her vagina and her attention. If you think you are paying too much, go get access to another vagina and companion. I know this sounds harsh, but if your spouse was a dude and he was your friend, would you accept such behaviour from him? You wouldn't, right? Well, the only reason you are accepting the behaviour your wife presents is because she has a vagina. So, again, how much is access to her vagina worth to you?