havingfun said:
There is a strong undercurrent of anger in Ms. Twinkle's posts that occasionally bubbles to the surface. I do not know what wounds she has suffered to cause this anger. But I plan to stay out of her way.
Sometimes when I read her posts I think the timing would be right for her to consider a career change or an extended vacation.
Perception is everything, I guess!
On quite a few occassions, boobear in his posts has said condescending things towards escorts and what he thinks about us charging 'extremely high rates', and what he thinks we should really be charging. I believe he has expressed his 'true' opinions about what he really feels about girls in this industry! But HAVINGFUN you never jumped on those posts to say anything to him? Very telling. Try psychoanalysing that!
But I guess people only SEE what they want to SEE!!
Yes you are right *at times* (not all of my posts-as your incorrect 'blanketed' statement suggested, you obviously have not read all of them) some of my posts are said in an angry tone, and for which I make no apologies for.
Even happy go lucky Goober, left the board for a while. So yes some of the posters on this board can and have angered me and others, and I HAVE expressed that anger in my posts.
And there have been too many pms I have recieved from ladies and gents that have agreed but were too nervous to post what I did. So your perception is not the perception of everyone elses on this board.
Havingfun, you know too little and pressume too little about me.
Yes you are right sometimes I am an angry, bitch *at times* (when I feel it is necessary because someone is acting like a bastard, and I have no qualms in showing my bitchy)..... and at other times I am a happy, funloving person (and this is the side, as a smart business women, that I show my nice respectful clients, and trust me my many postitive reviews attest to that, and I have recieved too many pms requesting appointments....so perception is really everything!). Isnt it wonderful that I am not ONE DIMENSIONAL and have a variety of real human emotions, like other human beings. YES escorts too are and are allowed to be REAL women, REAL multi faceted people, because...........even though we provide a fantasy we are not a fantasy!
As I said before we all have MANY DIFFERENT HATS depending on the sitaution. And terb is only one small situation in my life and in yours. And to anyone who feels my or any other posters, posts on this baord is a 'reflection' of all SPs or all hobbyists, is too simple-minded in the first place.
Do I act one way, and wear th same hat in every situation, with everyone I am in contact with (i.e. on terb, escorts talking privately to other escorts, with my clients, with employeers, fellow employees, in the office and boardroom compared to the office Christmas party, friends and parents, wife or husband or children, cashier at the grocery check out, etc.)? Obviously not, just like you dont!
I think we have all thought we knew someone and the aspects of thier persoanlity, until we saw them in a different situation and under different circumstances, and then realized there is a lot more to them then we initially thought (i.e. a boss or fellow employee at the company X-mas party, a close friend we go on vacation with, or a person we move in with!) Do I show every aspect of me and and my life, my personality and my views, feelings and emotions to everyone. Of course not, just like many of you (us) whose friends and family WOULD NEVER guess in a million years that you are involved in this hobby and post on this board? Wouldnt they be shocked? And if they found out.... what kind of blanketed, single minded, totally negative statement would they make about us and our overall character, integrity and personality? So just because I respond angrily in some of my posts, with some (not all) of the members of this board.....I guarantee you I am not always an angry person. Some of you guys would be very shocked if you really knew who I am, very shocked indeed!
(Twinkle taking her terb hat off...... as I go get ready for my Thanksgiving dinner with family and friends.)
